Being A Femme (lesbian) in a Patriarchal Society

I hear you loud and clear hun x

Hi, I feel your pain and understand. Not all men are the same and not all social attitudes (in different countries) are the same neither. I have learnt that one cannot generalise at all. I have seen people's attitudes change totally towards gay people in our country. Our country has only lately legalised gay marriage. Gay couples can also adopt. I livedshared an apartment with a lesbian couple and both their parents did not know....so at times I posed as their boyfriend especially at family weddings or similar functions !
Maybe i am very understanding about this issue because I am ' a lesbian entrapped in a male body' as my lesbian friends used to tell me lol

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 Babe not all us men are so judgemental, thank god. I am saddened to hear that you couldn’t find the backing from your family and that must have hurt you deeply. Sweetheart a word of encouragement , big up your self worth and may you find the true happiness that you crave and deserve. Love Charlie x

I think the comments you have gotten from men are due to anger after being rejected. Men are generally a lot cruder than women with choice of language. Gay men get the same, "straight" men often assume that all sex has to be penetrative. This is because that is how sex is with them ,therefore it's now sex unless is involves penetration. 
Just be happy , you deserve it. The world is slowly becoming more accepting.

As A man who hates his gender. I couldn't agree with you more. Not all, but most men are abrasive and rash. Your right about the penis remark too. They think with that rather than their minds and hearts xx 

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The human world is changing, at least here you have a forum to express yourself. Personally I'm glad to read views from everybody because it can help my understanding. Stay strong, stay safe and keep writing. 

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Awww eh... I used to hear the same lines from men, like their dick would magically turn me straight. Lol I liked dick just wasn’t mostly sexually interested in men.  
Also I wasn’t sure from a young age how female I was. As I aged, learning more about gender and myself I came to the decision that I wanted to present as a male, use masculine pronouns etc although I’m still very in touch with my birth gender, femininity- like two spirited and can relate deeply to non binary gender (persons)
This process of transition for me, came with a great deal of self reflection. I had to face that if I wanted to be a man although I did not have the best opinion of men because of many negative experiences by men. And being a man in a world that I didn’t agree with being so masagony. How being a man for me would look like physically, my body as I didn’t like ever having breasts though didn’t need a penis... this means a level that I have to engage discloses with others when it comes to sex. With this i also learned oddly after years of being a homo I had some minor homophobia because I didn’t want to be seen as gay. I discovered this when being at the queer club, a bar I used to frequent as ‘lesbian’ now I was being approached by many men. It wasn’t that I had any problems with gay men it was that I liked women (still). Thou these feelings, the idea, the internal I had need to address because it was my problem.   I think I've become a better person because of this, that I’ve been gained more prospective.  

Side note: women are beautiful though I find I’m less confident at complimenting them firstly just on their looks, because it’s just how their looks makes me feel. I find there’s many women I’m attracted to! It’s the easier part. I hold my tongue, ha, because I don’t want to objectify them. I know we all have beauty deeper than skin! And really that’s how we jam together.   Am I alone on this? 
 When I was younger I found courage to pickup now at forty I’m more shy, awkward sometimes the opposite of showing my potential. I want to be confident. Guess I’ve got fear to work on. Always growing eh;) 

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Here we go again !
You expect the world to just around you as soon as you come out of the closet. 

Its good that you have come out and more power to you.. However let us not paint all men with the same brush. 

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So us ignorant men still like to know the answer to those burning questions.

That’s fine and dandy but you still have to post correct gender

You're beautiful inside and out!

I don't understand the problem.

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Don't worry about the way some of my fellow men are. A lot of them are also secretly want to make a change but they are gutless men. 

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Amen im actually  going what your going  through on then other  side of the spectrum 

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U r a fantastic woman an I wish u all the love to n the world Hun X Tilly 

come to the UK, no one cares! 

you know about and can spell Patriarchal Society but can`t spell simple words Hmmm!

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Sounds like a lot of hyper self inflation and heroism via being a victim , along with so many grammatical and spelling errors . But on the flip side you came to the realization that men truly didn’t knw and was asking because it goes against what humanity has known for thousands of years as male female norms seeing no human came about via homosexuality. I like the part at the end to respect your imagined gender identity which rightfully men should but you should also respect their grasp of biological science if inclusion is the aim 

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As a women i like to say only few truth words that this our own life how we lives our beautiful lesbian life no men can understand nor imagine our fantasy 

I turned my friend on describing to her a threesome we would have with a lesbian.  I told her of the gentle touches and lisses she might be surprised by and seduced by

I am a fairly traditional man in my thinking, but in all honesty homosexuality is not a topic that interests me much.  What I mean is what people do in their bedroom is their business.  If you like women and are a woman, I say good for you.  All that means to me is you are not a potential romantic partner for me.  Maybe you and I share some non-sexual interest that would cause us to be friends?  If say you liked to hike, I'd grab my dog and we'd go on a hike together.  At the end of the hike we'd shake hands and you could go home to your girlfriend, I'd go home to mine.  No big deal.  I don't see the Patriarchal aspect at all myself.

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Don't worry what other people think your happy who you are that's what counts

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