BDSM (Bondage Domination Sadism and Masochism) can be anything from an occasional kink to a lifestyle choice which helps define a person’s sexuality. Often misunderstood and therefore categorised as a “Perversion” and narrowly defined BDSM actually covers a whole panoply of sexualities and, practices and fetishes
Fundamentally at the heart of BDSM is the expression of trust and the exchange of power that gives each participant, be that two people or more, sexual gratification through alternate expressions of sexuality.
Often linked with fetish clothing and spanking/flogging etc. BDSM is the sort of unusual bedroom play that many have thought about trying but often never have the courage to suggest to their partner.