The after-taste of the appetizer
Most people love to share their group sex experiences. I love reading those. But I was very much eager to know about how the relationship with the beloved shapes after such experience. I went through many articles but wasn't sure what actually happened. I had read that in many cases the relationship grows for the better and in many other cases it goes south. So, with lots of uncertainty I jumped into the well of exploring new dimensions of pleasure as a couple.
My boyfriend and I had been fantasizing about threesomes, group sex, gang bangs etc since a long time now. But before doing the actual deed I wanted to research about how things work, what rules are to be followed and how boundaries are set. I am grateful that my boyfriend wanted the same. He is very good at research and he helped me see things with different perspectives. He didn't force his opinions on me. He just showed me the way and asked me to lead. Only when we felt we were ready, we decided to meet people. We met a few couples and singles. As we exchanged views and ideas we got a better understanding of this wonderful lifestyle. I am not sure we understand it yet, totally. But our first time went surprisingly well. We met a couple with whom we felt really comfortable and we made plans of getting together. We had an extremely wonderful day with them. I would have to skip the details disappointing the readers for some reasons. Anyway, I was mainly trying to say about the relationship after trying this lifestyle. As my boyfriend and I were already in a very healthy relationship it affected us in a very positive way. We discussed about the whole experience very openly. I told him how much I enjoyed showing off my talents to him with another man and how I liked to make the other woman comfortable every moment (Sincerely hoped to not make her feel left out or jealous). I thanked him for being such a gentleman with her as I had heard him ask her if she was ok, quite a few times on bed. He told me how much he enjoyed seeing me enjoy another man who was quite a gentleman himself. To be frank, I was very scared that I would get possessive seeing him with another woman and completely ruin the experience. But I surprised myself that day. I didn't get jealous. I knew he wanted me to enjoy and I did. Even when he was licking her and I was being licked by someone else, every time our eyes met we felt our love was blossoming. That day I discovered a new me. I didn't know I could say or do such things which I did that day. I didn't know I could be so comfortable touching another man. I didn't know I could enjoy seeing my boyfriend with another woman. I rediscovered myself. We had a very thorough discussion about it later and our bond got stronger. What about the sex? Oh ya, it definitely got better. I had this fear that after being in a foursome we may not enjoy our twosomes. I had feared that we would get greedy and not appreciate what we had just between us. But my fears, thankfully, didn't come true. Instead we are enjoying sex more even if it’s only just us. He was always awesome in bed and he still is and additionally we have more things to talk about while fucking. Like he would describe me how I had sucked another dick or how I checked out someone's ass. I have more dirty things to say which he enjoys to listen and it badly turns him on. He has more fantasies to share and plans on experiencing those. I am more confident about him and our relationship. I am sure he feels the same. On the days we can't meet we have extremely awesome phone sex. All the moans and groans and dirty talking over the phone are getting hornier. After our first time we had plans to meet the next day and have some intimate time together. But we were so horny; the next day as soon as we woke up we had to have phone sex. We couldn't wait for even a few hours. Oh, it was so awesome!! I remember listening to his horny hot talks by massaging my pussy by being on my fours. I was in need of doggy fuck. Fortunately we got to fuck after a few hours else the house would be on fire that day. His pants were certainly on fire and me; well I was burning from head to toe.
After that we have been meeting more people and with each meeting we get to learn something new. I agree, our views do not match with every couple or person we meet. But it doesn't have to. A normal friendship can be maintained or ways can part right after a coffee meet. We don't have to sleep with everyone we meet and we don't have to hate or judge everyone we don't sleep with. Till now my understanding is, it's a very flexible lifestyle. Rules and boundaries can be set and discussed openly. We get to add our ideas and imaginations; also we get to disagree when required. I feel the most important thing in this lifestyle is to have a very good understanding of your partner, and to achieve that, good communication is important. Both the partners should respect each other's wishes and views. This lifestyle is meant to be fun and give physical pleasure and not become a baggage too heavy to carry. I would like to see more naked men and women in my lifetime; it would be infinite times better if my better half is with me enjoying the same. The mantra is "No strings attached!" 😅😁😅
Hope this helps someone!
This was just the appetizer. I am sure there are more courses to come. And I would like to taste each course slowly and enjoy to the full. I think I'll need more portions of each course. There is a long way to taste the dessert.
Thanks
Prince 💕❤️💕
