Thoughts while cleaning up the mailbox.
If there is something that's guaranteed to happen in this lifestyle, it's that there are more people coming in and going out of your life than there are those who will give you a grand time cumming.
Last month marked my second year of being on this site. Solo, for the most part, I played my role as a unicorn. However, I am still learning the ropes when it comes to finding mutual satisfaction with my boyfriend, the ONE whose pleasure I am aiming to work on giving (since I know exactly how to meet the requirements for mine.)
It's seems a heck of a lot easier for total strangers to have mutual fun than it is to discover what works for you and your partner. Sometimes, real-life drama (jealousy and misunderstanding) has a way of putting a wrinkle in our pursuit of carnal pleasures. That's why it pays to be real with one another, to be accepting of our true sexual nature, and to be open to adventure.
Now, it doesn't mean we have to be open to almost anything! It's important to know what the rules and boundaries are, and while it's agreed that we are after individual as well as our mutual pleasure, we would need to agree on what our goals are and what our focus should be on.
Me? I'm all out for sensual bdsm (bring on a little p.ain --- hahaha), and I have my standards to stick to (looks, size, and experience) and I am very bisexual. As for him, he may not choose to articulate as much but experience, commitment, and overall participation count very much. We both want to enjoy the company of fun people who are close to our ages and our interests and who are mature as well as sensible. Sorry, do not ask us if you just want to 'try' --- it might be detrimental to your relationship and it could affect us as well.
We are here to spice our sex life but we need to balance the demands of love and lust. In a couple of months, we might find ourselves actively seeking to meet other people again.
