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Tell Us Your Turn Offs and Win Some Fangtastic Treats This Halloween

9:37 am Friday, 20th October, 2017

Comment below with your turn offs to be in with the chance of winning some goodies. I have some Free Memberships and Amazon Gift Cards up for grabs.

As it is coming up to the fright fest that is Halloween, we are all about turn offs and the very things that send erections and arousal running off into the darkness.

There are many reasons why a person can get sexually turned off. Unlike what you see in the movies (both horror and otherwise), sex is not free from awkward situations, goof ups or embarrassments. We might do something unconsciously because we are so in the habit, but for the other person, it could be a total sex stopper.

According to research, the top 5 common turn offs are:

1. Bad hygiene
2. Being a poor kisser
3. Half-hearted attempts at foreplay
4. Being called the wrong name whilst doing the deed
5. People who just lay there

This got me thinking about what you guys and ghouls think about turn offs and the things that send your desire levels dashing to the nearest exit. After all, what could be more horrifying that a passion killer!  

So turn offs people. Write in the comments below and tell me what turns you off. You could CREEP it real with something common, share something BOOtifully different, or lift our SPIRITS with a funny story about something that happened whilst getting it on and stopped you in your tracks.

Competition will close at 11.59pm on Monday 30th October with the winners being chosen randomly from the best answers and announced on Tuesday during the spookfest that is All Hallows Eve.

In the meantime, hope you have a great Halloween.

M x
😈

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Comments
10:28 am Friday, 20th October, 2017

Great question: 
1: Shyness can stunt conversations and make it very difficult to get to know a person "Awkward"
2: Smoking is a real "no no" for me , its the smell  
3: Bad  hygiene of course nothing worse that a smelly minge or rank armpits 
4: Dishonestys a good one for me ... I remember meeting a woman online who told me she was single , then her husband turned up !!   
5: False photos on profiles is just a waste of peoples time.. I remember meeting someone who had a friends photo on her profile So there's me expecting to meet a blonde girl with blue eyes and in walks a 22 stone redhead 

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11:19 am Friday, 20th October, 2017

The biggest turn off  is a bust couch or a goats beard.   lol

2:20 pm Friday, 20th October, 2017

For me it has to be during oral when just going down on a lady only to find that piece of lost toilet paper just a bit but enough to make you wonder.

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6:59 pm Friday, 20th October, 2017

Got to be smoking... or talking about exes...

7:40 pm Friday, 20th October, 2017

Met a girl at a party, and as the night progressed we became more and more friendly until she suggested we go somewhere a little more private for some fun. We'd both had a few drinks, but neither of us were falling all over the place, and we found an empty bedroominto which we snuck, leaving the light off so as not to attract any attention and proceeded to have a good snog. Things got steamier and - as she was wearing a short skirt - I slid her panties down, and moved my hungry lips from her very pert breasts, down to her well trimmed pussy. after 5 minutes or so, when she started convulsing and moaning 'Oh god, oh god', I thought I'd managed to do the job properly and was already congratulating myself when I discovered that rather than the massive orgasms I thought she was having, she was actually vomiting all over the floor on the other side of the bed. Being the caring, helpful friendly person that I am, I left the room - and the party, and went home!  

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7:44 pm Friday, 20th October, 2017

A big turn off is people who lie there way through a conversation.  You think you are getting somewhere then when they slip up you catch them out to be a liar.  Also people with don't groom themselves properly is a big turn off.  

1:37 am Saturday, 21st October, 2017

Two things turn me off as far as the 'physical' goes: 1) White (caucasion) women with dreadlocks. 2) Silicon breasts (and/or bottoms!).

11:23 am Saturday, 21st October, 2017

A huge turn off for me is people that have no imagination. They send you a one line message telling you in they want to f*&k or where they want to stick their tongue ect. For some this may be flattering but for me it's a turn off, thats not how I want to start a conversation with some one. I don't mind the conversation eventually leading in that direction, but not as an opener.

7:29 am Sunday, 22nd October, 2017

People who make no effort.
You show up to meet for the first time - the introductory coffee/wine - and it looks like they just rolled out of bed. They seem too assume that just because we're swingers we'll have sex with them.
No... just because we're not monogamous doesn't mean we'll sleep with anyone.

10:25 am Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Not sure which is worse, meeting for fun n suddenly they become a stalker, talking about love n long term 😲wtf... or cock cheese ugggg  if you don't wash it suckling it yourself 😷😷😷😷 same with a pussy, never have liked fish that much lol... oh nd another thing I hate wax strips that one sadistic person that came up with them lol x happy spooking

10:45 am Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Just got down to business going down on a gorgeous woman only to fined her tampon still in place not good 

12:16 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Farting 

12:59 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Jokes :.  One time when having SRSP, my wife commented funny about other couple.... That made me laugh lot and completely turn ofg

1:20 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

1. Bad hygiene, most would agree except those that are not hygienic.
2. Someone that reeks of smoking smell.
3. Someone that reeks of garlic smell/odour or breath.
4. Someone that just lay there and only into traditional/same old actions over and over, with no interest in trying anything adventurous.
5. Close-minded

2:31 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

..bad hygiene and people just lay there

2:54 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Going to bed with a woman who turns out to be a she male,what a shook.she looked beautiful.but no thanks.was not my cup of tea as one says.i am straight.threesomes ok,two women and me.not keen on two men and a woman.

3:41 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

People who stink.
People who wear clothes and inner wears without washing regularly. - One girl wore a dress which was stinking and i like taking off the clothes slowly.. I just had to rip them off due to bad odour!! yuck!
Not properly grooming their body hairs.
Non matching panty and bra. - You got to be nicely dressed to undress. Cant wear a red panty with yellow bra!! Some people wear old panties which has holes!! Why??
Poor blow job skills.
Who shows shyness for light. Like what the heck am i supposed to do without light? Just fuck and leave???
There was a girl who said will do BJ with her tooth braces!! WTF?
Who smell bad on their vaginal area...
Talking/Messaging on phone as i lick or fuck you!! Specially when they are talking to the next prospective guy!

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3:45 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

1.  When you are having your 1st introduction - and you let the person into your space and they ask "so you wanna ***k or what?".
2.  I dislike short guys - cause I am 5ft10 inch.
3.  I dislike facial hair
4.  Hairy cock and balls is a no go
5.  I dislike arrogant men / guys who are just full of themselves.

Put it down to preference, taste, what turns you on or off. Some might even think I am full of ***t. But this is me take it or leave it. Women call the shots !

3:45 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Just being let down by smelly pussy.hairy arm pits unshaved pussy Just don't care about themselves really as they know they can get it anywhere they want 

5:59 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

turn offs ignorant people who think there bees knees hehe 😈😈😈😈         👴

6:03 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

1. Bad hygiene 
2. When ur partner does not participate.
3. Smoking
4. Shyness

6:24 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

When you undress a woman and taking off her top off and seeing hairy Pits 😬

6:41 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

I m so into threesome fantasy that while having sex with my wife we imagine having it, but if my wife denies to having this imagination that quickly turned me off 😰

7:17 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

I usually love to have sex with someone who is polite..someone who is rude, no matter how turned on I am will easily be turned off..2. Bad hygiene is a huge turnoff 3. Just lying there without been in the deed..is also a turnoff.

7:28 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Turn offs; One lady asked for anal, so I accommodated her. When I withdrew, I had a lump of sh*t on the end of my cock  She really should have had a dump first, lol. Another is obviously people who stink, not even bothering to have a wash before they turn up, YUK. Finally, saggy, lazy, unkempt people, with no sense of personal pride! As for the rest, sexy, open, clean and honest people, seeking fun and adventure, bring it on 😈👄

8:25 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

3. Half-hearted attempts at foreplay
4. Being called the wrong name whilst doing the deed it's off bcoz it's not real name it's bed for all gays

10:39 pm Monday, 23rd October, 2017

Big turn off 1 people who lie about there age
2 people who talk the talk but can't walk the walk 
3 people with self interest in themselves 
4 people with bad manners 
5 people who smell bad i.e. Sweaty
6 anyone who does like my dog 😂

12:54 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

False tan white ass, waring grey socks, with the heat on I taught he was melting. Flip-flops two left Flip-flops in bed my wig fell off with the laughing, Turn offs,  I turned off the light and left, vibrator time again what a drag. Toni. 🌹 

2:17 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

Big turn off for everyone is 'Being Pushy'.

2:18 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

1.Bad breath really a no no                 2Pubes we can't stand extra hairs smooth 4 us   
3.long nails on male ouch doesn't look good either  😷😭

2:18 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

6:53 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

too many turn off's actually

1. The fake orgasm maker
2. Fart bomb during sex
3. Drunk gal throwing up while having sex all over you.
4. crappy asshole while doing Anal
5. The cry baby one who regrets after having a wild hardcore sex
6. The timer person (sex not more than 15 minutes)
and the list goes on

7:11 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

People who complain about everything you do to them.....but yet enjoy it.....big turn off for me....

8:27 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

We think being honest and being fair is the key 
Last time we meet the couple from site and initial discussion went really well.
Guy was smart and lady was beautiful but the outstanding part was honesty.

When we meet for the party man shared honest incident about his roommate 
during his collage days and they had wonderful session my wife was impressed too much 
with his honesty and his wife also taken it so sportively that day session was amazing ,

We think honesty played huge role there

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8:48 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

Wonderful..... Transparency really works 

11:29 am Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

lazyness of the girl

12:25 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

one who smokes consistently

12:54 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

One thing that turns me off mostly is a lady with a bad attitude and one who is not neat and tidy

1:56 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

One word answers when you are trying to strike up a conversation 

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2:20 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

When a girl does not have orgasm, or shows attitude turns in off.

2:57 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

Hate it When your just about to to have an awesome Orgasim you legs are shaking and Virginia Muscles are clinching and he says I'm Going To Come pulls out and and comes all over you........and Says OH SORRY BABE!  So now your throbbing Pussy is feeling very sad for herself so either you have to roll over feeling very cheated..........or as I and many probably do get out the vibrater and finish the job but what I hate the most is after a little while He says are you still going haven't you come yet!!!!! NO I HAVEN'T!!! Throbbing Pussy needs to start Purring again before she comes down from the tree and why Rush the longer you wait the more Extreme the Orgasim gets and Happier Pussy is!!!

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3:12 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

1. When denies to suck penis or denies for deep  throught suck 
2. When girls denies to cum in and in mouth
3. When girls are unshaved on vagina
4. When girls turn off lights and eyes while having sex

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3:51 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

For what its worth, and from the perspective of a single man . . . Bad Hygiene (shower and brush your teeth)Lack of activity or enthusiasm (if your not into it, say so)Couples who treat guys like a commodity.Scripted or directed meets (just let the conversation or juices flow)Old PicturesI know they are all fairly self explanatory, but still important to list, as single guys are so often at the other end of the stick.

5:21 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

Lying like dead while foreplay,  bad hygiene and foul smell turns me off

5:31 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

One day I and my wife sadika were waiting for our prescheduled couple. We prepared our room bed and all properly.They came. They were nice looking and well groomed couple. We gossiped for hours. Then I offered all to start the play. I was turn on. With proper erection I was sucking my wife's parts and that man was sucking her gf. Then we change our partners and I started to suck that girl. But in a sudden that girl cried out by that males nick. I was scared though I didn't stop my play but I turned off. My flaccid dick couldn't fuck her.

9:01 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

Stony pussy n but odor also onion underarms basically poor hygiene. Oh yeah too much hair on the pussy

9:09 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

So there was this girl I'd known for years and fancied like mad! We met through a mutual friend and really hit it off but as we both had partners nothing happened and we just flirted from time to time. A few years passed and we both found ourselves single but now she doesn't want to ruin the friendship, I couldn't believe it! The dreaded friend zone had happened and ruined everything! 
Not to let that stop me I worked on her for a few weekends and eventually she agreed to come back to my place after a night out drinking. 
Everything was going perfectly. We were both tipsy so the embarassment of seeing a mate nude had passed. 
I laid her on the bed and slowly started to pull down her trousers, revealing the cutest little cotton treasure chest you've ever seen. They were soaked through, she wanted it so bad so I gently peeled them down and slowly started to kiss her glistening lips. She tasted amazing, nothing short of pure perfection. I darted my tongue over her swollen clit as she moaned out my name and pulled my head deeper into her mound, begging me not to stop! Before long she climaxed in my mouth and I pushed my tongue deep inside to savour the taste. This drove her wild and she begged for me to be inside her asap. Keen to not disappoint but also keen to not rush this long awaited moment I told her to take off her top and bra whilst I put on the condom.
Her breasts were what I had always wanted to see and they seemed perfect. Two heaving mounds cupped together by the most elegant of white lace. I paused to watch her unleash her ample D breasts. She sat up and said "I've seen you staring at these when you think I'm not looking" "You want these puppies don't you?" Her eyes doing that smouldering sexy thing she'd no doubt practiced in the mirror... I gave a slow nod in agreement and almost bit my bottom lip off with anticipation.
She sat on the end of the bed, slid one hand behind her back, arching towards me, her breasts getting bigger and closer for what seemed like an eternity. Suddenly I heard the clasp ping open and to my delight her bra didn't move. She pulled down the straps and slid down her bra, revealing their perfect teardrop shape. They held themselves right there somehow defying gravity. 
I was expecting it as she had told me all about the nipple piercing on numerous occasions. I had never been with a woman who had one so the sight of that little bar pulling her nipple tight drove me mad. My cock started throbbing, she grabbed it and told me to fuck her. 
She laid back pulling me onto the bed with her, spreading her legs as wide as she could and wrapped them tightly round me. 
I resisted for a moment and wanted to tease her a little more. I began kissing her ear and neck but she couldn't handle it any longer. She grabbed my cock and guided it into her hungry pussy. Even through the condom I could feel her heat, almost uncomfortably hot...Awesome!
I slowly slid my manhood in one inch at a time until she had taken all 8 inches of me. She squealed with delight as I began to thrust in and out, nice long slow strokes.
I grabbed her breast with my left hand and squeezed firm, much to her delight. But it was at this very moment it all went horribly wrong. 
I could smell something off, very off. It smelled just like rotting flesh you know? That one particular smell you never forget as it burns your nasal passage. 
Yep, her beautiful nipple piercing STANK!
I tried to ignore it I really did. But the hotter we got the worse it smelled... I wanted to puke. I could feel myself beginning to lose my erection and I started to have a little panic, I had no idea what to do!
Just then my housemate gave out an almighty cry. I pulled out and rushed downstairs to see what had happened. He was making chips whilst  drunk and managed to spill hot oil on his hand. I legged it upstairs and apologised and said we'll need to continue this another time as I had to take my mate to hospital.
Couldn't believe his misfortune and my need for a distraction met perfectly. He was fine, some cream and a bandage fyi.
After that experience nipple piercings no longer turn me on. I know they probably don't all smell but I don't want to take the risk again.

Girls, keep them clean!

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9:45 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

There are so many things that can kill any sense of passion or excitement and for me these are obvious, they include (but not limited to): bad personal hygiene, smoking, no profile picture, no sense of humor and not making an effort with how you dress for a meet or a date.

If I was to have to state the one single thing that makes me walk away it is the other person not looking like their profile picture.

11:33 pm Tuesday, 24th October, 2017

i'm married and haven't had sex with my wife in 17 years and she doesn't deep throat me either i haven't had a women deep throat me in 20 years

4:17 am Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

1. Bad hygiene
2. Being a poor kisser
3. Half-hearted attempts at foreplay
4. People who just lay there

5. Ugly people

8:05 am Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

Once I was all ready to meet a couple that I had been chatting with online and trading photos with only to find out when I meet the couple at a local lounge that they had sent me photos of someone else and not themselves. Making things a total turn off. They said they couldn't understand why I said I was not interested in going any farther. Wow. Also another turnoff for me was a couple I meet in a parking lot in front of a restaurant with stores in the same area that was a very highly traveled area by people to have them walk up say hi as he dropped to his knees and started to unzip my pants and pull my cock out to suck it. That was a total turn off being it was a high traveled area by people and by police. I pulled away put my cock back in my pants zipped up and said bye bye and left. I really didn't want to get arrested etc. 

8:33 am Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

1) Bad hygiene, 2)Foul Smell, 3)Half-hearted attempts at foreplay

10:27 am Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

yes

11:55 am Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

A women whom has not washed hee pussy at least a day before sex. 

Long dirty finger nails. 

1:10 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

bad hygiene

3:14 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

1.Just laying there is a serious turn off for me..2..A lady that has bad hygiene can also be a turn off for me..3.Being very rude is a huge turn off for me.

4:29 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

Bad breath half hearted foreplay

7:09 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

No blowjob or lady hesitates for blowjob turn me off

7:35 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

The most turn off for me was when having sex with a lot of menstrual blood in my thing..not only disgusting but smells like rotten fish! 

8:00 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

Bad odour tops the list while not wanting to try new ideas is something women always do

9:11 pm Wednesday, 25th October, 2017

spontaneity .... although planned is fun ... not willing to just do it when the moment hits and where the moment hits.....  total killer....

12:26 am Thursday, 26th October, 2017

My biggest turn off is being to rough

11:02 am Thursday, 26th October, 2017

a limp dick ,bad odor,making me wait, cuming before i do thats just rude, not bother to listen to what pleases me

11:11 am Thursday, 26th October, 2017

Just about to eat pussy to find she hasn't checked propley and theres still tissue stuck to her lips. And bad oder when you finally bury your head between her legs.

3:06 pm Thursday, 26th October, 2017

smelly armpits

4:41 pm Thursday, 26th October, 2017

Gives bad blowjobs/uses too much teeth, bad breath, and her not having any interest 

6:36 pm Thursday, 26th October, 2017

Your down, giving it your all in the cunnilingus department, and she farts. I mean, what the hell, no warning, nothing, just lets rip, and it was a honker, as she'd been on some fad green vegetable diet. it was all I could do not to vomit on her there and then 😞

7:47 pm Thursday, 26th October, 2017

bad smell
fatty
non wild 

8:59 pm Thursday, 26th October, 2017

My biggest turn off is a man that has a face full of hair,sorry but for me if I wanted to kiss something furry I'd kiss my cats!!!
Second turn off for me is a man that has bad odour in his downstairs...absolutely turns me right off.....
and my final turn off is a man who doesn't appreciate a good blowjob and blows his load within minutes,I like to enjoy my man's cock and lick till my heart content and that gets me turned right on....

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10:28 pm Thursday, 26th October, 2017

Hi my turn off is bad hygiene,long pubic hair 

4:12 am Friday, 27th October, 2017

Oh. Yes Yaa. I like it 

4:32 am Friday, 27th October, 2017

when her dentures are staring at you from a glass on her bedside table,

5:31 am Friday, 27th October, 2017

Biggest turnoff is when i get to know that she is having sex just to get things done from me.
The girl would wear a false smile on her face, just lay down without uttering a word or would answer any conversation with a single word, would not try to even touch you, will just show signs of hurrying up, would move her face away when trying to kiss, would push you away as soon as you cum as if she was waiting badly for that moment

5:36 am Friday, 27th October, 2017

Granny panties

10:31 am Friday, 27th October, 2017

Biggest turnoffs, hmm let me see .... Bad Breath definitely, only interested in penetration, no oral. these three kill it for me.

12:16 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Oh got be when you are both at the stage of disrobing and you see your partner has their oldest pair of 'Saturday'/period Knicks on ,usually full of holes or the colour of chewing gum ! That and unclean or smelly bed linen  . yuck !

12:16 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Oh got be when you are both at the stage of disrobing and you see your partner has their oldest pair of 'Saturday'/period Knicks on ,usually full of holes or the colour of chewing gum ! That and unclean or smelly bed linen  . yuck !

12:33 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

I hate when my husband farts while giving him a blow job

1:54 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Her not being able to be loud as when she makes alot of noise it gets me going.

2:04 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

I hate it when my girlfriend rides my dick in the same time when I wanted to cum and she stopped that makes me so hangry...

2:27 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Oh so many; No sexual consistency, cheesy pussies, no sex chat just quiet and mostly lazy lovers who won't return the favor. Teasing can get annoying later cause some lovers never build up. Lovers who just suck and expect ejaculation. Female prostitution cause it would seem that only ladies are allowed to charge for sex.   

4:14 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

One thing that turns me off in addition to the obvious and those suggested by other members is trying to have a mutual conversion with my partner and it tends to be one sided... all about me, me, me.  Who she is, who she knows, what she likes.  Never asking about me or even letting me get a word in. Then abruptly says, "well enough about me, lets have sex".

4:15 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

😈

4:34 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

My turn off is people who lie about who they are and want on here. Honesty is a turn on for me.

4:44 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Hygiene is essential.  Something really scary would be a partner with unshaven, bits that's smell of fish and make your eyes water and they expect to share oral sex together. Come on, mutual respect please. That's scary. 

5:09 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

When she moans like batman

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6:02 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Bad smell, laying down, bad kisser

6:22 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

It turns me off when she's so playful and horny showing everyone that she's the badass. And then we start having sex and she just lay there and don't even know what to do. Posers! 

6:41 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

All of the above, plus clingy, non-discreet mates...

6:43 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

I dont like it when your partner ask if you want to have sex , fuck, make love or what ever it really turns me off what do you think I want to do when i have my hands all over you as well as my tongue you think I want a sandwich      

6:48 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

small size....
bad player with nipples...no sense of how to play good with man's chests

7:05 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

My number 1 turn off is BAD HYGIENE such as smelly breath arm pits and Lady garden. No 2 people who say there going to turn up for a meet and they don't turn up or they do turn up but they don't look like anything in there photo they show of them self No 3 people who tell you lies No4 people who say there experienced with good O and A Levals but they are so frigied and boring with no go nore do they want to experiment and be adventures. No4 Bad kisses un-adventuers. I wouldn't mind if they say there not very experienced because it would be fun and exciting teaching them the ways n fun of sexual ACTIVITES and sexual satisfaction.

7:11 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

It's like we begin to have sex and she stay still, then in a few minutes into having sex she start shake her body then telling me hurry up and come, it's like you tell my dick to lay down. Total turn off.

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7:31 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Oh and No5 females who don't shave there Lady garden  and when l' m giving them Oral sex l ether get hairs or toilet paper stuck in between my teeth or in my mouth Which is a very bad turn off. If l am fully shaven cock n balls completely uncritical clean then the females should be the same. Naked skin to skin is for 1 cleaner horny'er and more sensitive. So cum on all you Lady's out there shave your Lady garden or ask your partner to do it for you which as l no it and you no it it's quite a horny moment and will lead you into great sex after lol.

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7:51 pm Friday, 27th October, 2017

Good site 

12:50 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Our turn offs are never come to bed with socks on , bad hygiene , no rhythm ,bad blow job or bad femal oral ,tacky underwear (not sexy)also not being well groomed 

1:53 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

my biggest turn off is when ive bent a woman over and started to rim her and then she breaks wind while my tongue is still doing its work

2:36 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

It really turns me off when a lady asks if especially when I have touched you in vital' places. It even becomes worse when she is rude saying that....My lady has to be tidy.

2:53 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Turn offs. When the  other woman wants you to gondown on her and you realize that onions are not part of the gig

3:46 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

one time I met this girl from a friend, some time a go (not this site) we met had a little chat then we went to a room entill she got call after she is telling me that we have to end it quickly so she keep telling me that she need to go someware so it made me so mad at end of our time together i cant even look at her. such a turn off why she can't wait a hour if she can't wait she should rescadual right!

4:44 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

I can remember going to a pub a long time ago ,,and you know what they say about alcohol ,,you see everything through rose coloured glasses, well anyway i started talking to this woman , the night wore on she was getting more beautiful by the minute ,,we decided to go to her place for some good sex ,,we had a pretty good session from what i can remember,,she done all the work ,and i just managed to get it up ,.and a hell of a long time to blow my load , next morning i woke up and got the fright of my life,she had turned from a film star  into a horror movie ,,hahahaha,,i got up got dressed and shot through the door ,,with a hangover to kill a bull ,,the moral of the story is ,..dont get drunk ,,before you get laid,,or it could be a horror movie for you too hahahaha,..

4:47 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Girls when  refuse to do oral sex is a biggest turn off .

7:02 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

😬

9:14 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Selfish lovers. When they think it’s all about them and what they want to do, and not mutual enjoyment 

10:37 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

thomaszoe2017 
My turn off is: bad hygiene, when people have bad odor down there....yuck 🤢; not shaved or at least groomed...bushy dick/pussy is gross; guys with too high ego.Advise to people.....eat pineapple,drink less coffee....your pussy and your seeman will taste sweet....yummm...😉 👄

11:52 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Having a bad odour down below Ns

11:52 am Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Having my ears touched .kissed iwelii yrssl HTC

12:40 pm Saturday, 28th October, 2017

I know I'm not that good of a kisser. But my big turn offs are I don't want you to lick or stick anything up my ass nor do I want to eat your ass. Don't tell me that I have to marry you and buy you a ring if we only seen each other 4 times. I will not fuck your pussy while your on your period. I hate women that don't douche their pussy's. And please don't ask me to fuck you in a public place. I will not go to jail for that.

4:12 pm Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Half-hearted attempts at foreplay

5:59 pm Saturday, 28th October, 2017

my turn offs are facial hair long hair body hair puberty hair bad manners people who let me down and not reply to my messages bad hygene people who don't show up when ment to small dicks old men who are after sex with young people and old men who show there dick and body

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9:04 pm Saturday, 28th October, 2017

Im married person who alone in this country my wife in italy. So i would like to meet new person and like to get full interesting experience. My dick is so big an i can give extremely funny experience can you join with me?

1:51 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

I feel turn off with bad hygine people and people who just lay their. I aboid such people

1:29 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Bad breath 
smelly pussy

1:52 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Feeling tired and sleepy

4:11 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

a lady that falls asleep but pretends to want sex ....stinky pussy

9:36 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

She's unwilling to experiment.She likes missionary because that's what gets her off, so you almost always resort to this position for its efficiency.But sex shouldn't be regarded this way. A climax isn't the be-all and end-all of a sexual experience.If you're with a man you trust, open yourself up to new experiences. I guarantee your man will be more than happy to try whatever it is you might be curious about.

9:43 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

She treats the dick like she's scared of it.Like the vagina, the penis is a pretty resourceful piece of equipment. So when you venture down yonder, don't be afraid to get a little rough with it.......... 

9:48 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

She has NO idea what to do with a penis. there are still a TON of ladies out there who have no idea what they're doing with a man's love muscle.Whether it's teeth during oral, tugging at our dicks like you're farming carrots or using almost no pressure while you stroke it, a woman's lack of knowledge or unwillingness to learn about the penis and its erogenous zones is quite the unanimous turn-off for dudes.

9:48 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

She has NO idea what to do with a penis. there are still a TON of ladies out there who have no idea what they're doing with a man's love muscle.Whether it's teeth during oral, tugging at our dicks like you're farming carrots or using almost no pressure while you stroke it, a woman's lack of knowledge or unwillingness to learn about the penis and its erogenous zones is quite the unanimous turn-off for dudes.

10:43 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Pushy people and liers

10:55 am Sunday, 29th October, 2017

The biggest turn off has to be hygiene and lying to what you are on the site.

2:38 pm Sunday, 29th October, 2017

For me the Biggest Turn off when your partner have no imagination and does not co operative, she just lying on bed just to have intercourse coz she committed for that..uff that turn me off and other is less interested in foreplay.

5:50 pm Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Simple, biggest turn off?? Men!! Lol

6:25 pm Sunday, 29th October, 2017

bad breath..... , lack of clean

9:47 pm Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Ugly and unkempt feet, vaginas that look like a creature from the swamp.

10:34 pm Sunday, 29th October, 2017

Has too be hygene and lack of interest and adventure to try new things once had someone eating peanuts while humping teal ego booster lol

6:10 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

1 and 4?

6:16 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

Hygene, not really engaged, being predictable, going through the motions and selfish lovers

7:43 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

1.

8:21 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

A very big turn off is false photographs and profiles. And leading to other sites. 

9:49 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

For me it's 'Effort' it takes two to tango, equality and all that. If you meet up with someone you're obviously interested 'something clicked' and if you're lucky enough to have someone meet up with you they should be too, otherwise what's the point in a waste of time. Make the Effort.

10:12 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

For me asking money for having sex turns off a lot

10:13 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

The biggest turn off for me are those awful Roman style sandals the ones that lace up the shin to the knee. Nasty

10:39 am Monday, 30th October, 2017

My biggest turn off isn’t bad hygiene and if a beautiful woman doesn’t smell right downstairs 

12:21 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

When your connection is slow and it's reconnecting in the middle of a web session. In person, people talking rubbish turns me off. 

1:25 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

when people say one thing and then it turns out not to be true

1:44 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

A real turn off happened to me one night when my husband and I were at the end of a hot foreplay. He was on top of me, fucking me hard. I looked up and  my Parrott was on top of his head. I don't think he even realized the bird was there. I started laughing and of course he was stunned. That was a orgasm stopped. After that the cage was secured with a tie because the parrot could unlock his cage. What a turn off...

3:42 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

what turns me off is all you have listed also when you give someone compliments and thry don,t give any back so rude.

3:59 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

t is not how she looks or talks , but the that look when they see how small I am.Please I want to say , Give me a chance.\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\

5:20 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

To skinny I like a whole woman.with nice hair greasy hair I would turn around and leave if there not clean on the parts you see  what could the other parts of the body be like . So yes personally hygiene hi think when your kissing somebody all over the nice smells of a manufactured smell mixed with natur    Body s.         TON.            Smells is loly

7:16 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

A woman that can't deepthroat, to me a suck involves this not just putting the head in ur mouth also bad hygiene... I love spending some quality time focusing on the clitoral area but in order for me to do this the area must be clean and smooth, it's not about pulling pubes out of ur mouth

10:58 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

Now, let's see what some of my turn offs are:
- Bad oral hygiene, there's nothing worse than kissing someone rank with stale cigarette smoke, last night's curry or whatever strange snack they've been eating.
- Bad personal hygiene, probably worse than bad oral hygiene but FFS wash yourself please.
- Lack of enthusiasm, this is a two way dance and whilst I love giving my partner pleasure, at least reciprocate.
- Libido differences, once a month, nope, just doesn't cut it for me.
- Orally intolerant, I don't think any man hates having his cock sucked. Do it and you'd be surprised at the rewards you'd get.
- Refusing to kiss after cunnilingus, come on, I've just spent a good while down there pleasing you, you could at least kiss me!

That's just a few, the list is long, too long!

11:22 pm Monday, 30th October, 2017

I would have to say my biggest Turn offs are people with Bad Manners. 

3:00 pm Tuesday, 31st October, 2017

Ok guys, time to announce the winners. Thanks to everyone who took part. Turn offs aplenty from so many members. It was all rather scary and appropriate for Halloween

So….drumroll please….

CONGRATULATIONS TO:

Easygoingguy2017, tandJ1997 and Iplayhard69 your terrifying turn offs have won you an Amazon Gift Card.

Tracy200 and MrsChoco, you have both picked yourself up a month of free VIP membership.

Hope you enjoy your prizes guys. Have a very Happy Halloween and I will be back soon with more goodies up for grabs.

M x

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7:09 pm Tuesday, 31st October, 2017

Thank you it great to be a winner 👍👍👍👍

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6:02 pm Wednesday, 1st November, 2017

My greatest turn off is bad hygiene which includes obesity. Sorry if I offend anyone.

10:59 am Saturday, 4th November, 2017

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9:59 am Wednesday, 8th November, 2017

will any girl kiss me

8:00 am Thursday, 9th November, 2017

😍😍😍😱😍😍😍😍

4:13 pm Saturday, 11th November, 2017

The uneducated, there's nothing more terrifying than knowing you could be as braindead as some of the people on here who talk to you like they recently discovered fire.

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