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Knowing your place in couple invitation

6:46 am Friday, 13th October, 2017

Have you ever received appalling or annoying messages from a member wanting to play with a couple? I'm sure most couples here have at one point received such distasteful solicitations. The reason we all have our profile introductions is so that, interested members may be guided as to our specific wants. As I have previously written in one of my blogs, others even have a preferred age group, which leaves little chance for those outside that age bracket to be considered. So why bother writing them in the first place, if you have no chance to play, right?

Unfortunately, there is a tendency for some to just look at the members' pictures and if they are attracted to the vivid contents therein, would just message the desired member without even bothering to read their profiles. There lies the problem, resulting to mismatched wants that sometimes lead to squabbles among the parties because of rude comments or snide remarks. I can't reiterate enough, the importance of respect in this lifestyle and the need for everyone to follow protocol in corresponding with other members. What do I mean by this?

When you are contacting someone, regardless of civil status, make sure you have read and understood their profiles first. If the profile is too vague or short, then your opening should be one, inquiring to know more about the person. His/her likes and dislikes, their expectations of a prospective playmate. Stuff like that. You cannot presume that said member will like you or play along with your advances just because you have a “dick pic” as your profile picture. Ask in a respectful manner and not in a vulgar/ animalistic approach like, ( “ let's fuck, looking for fubu, I want to lick your pussy”.......you know what I mean?). It's trickier when dealing with married couples. I'm sure like us, some married couples have encountered incessant text messages and even phone calls in the dead of the night from “single” members despite explicit instructions not to do so. This to us, is where we draw the line. Once a prospect violates this rule, we ignore/block him from ever contacting us again. For crying out loud, married couples are in this only to expand their sexual horizon and attempting to seduce another man's wife, if that's what you're thinking, is not part of the deal. So if you're a “thirdy”, stop bothering couples or refrain from involving yourself in their private lives. KNOW YOUR PLACE! You should take an invitation to play from a couple as a compliment and must never put in your head that you are bosom buddies after the encounter. If they are satisfied with your performance or would wish to meet with you again, then that's their sole prerogative. Never impose yourself on them! Stop sending stupid, unnecessary text messages just to be noticed again. That is the unwritten rule. Couples are in committed relationships, have stable careers or businesses, and most, have children who are shielded from this lifestyle so you will never be a part of that life. Be happy and contented that you got to experience their company to begin with. Suffice to say, “what happens in the bedroom....stays in the bedroom”. It doesn't go any further than that.



Comments
3:02 pm Friday, 13th October, 2017

..nice nuggets of swinging wisdom imparted by an experienced couple. couldn't agree more. 🙂

6:38 am Saturday, 14th October, 2017

This is wisdom at its best... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

6:42 am Saturday, 14th October, 2017

Be happy and contented that you got to experience their company to begin with..Well stated madam..u hit it bullseye..

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