I have had two long term friendship/relationship’s with couples both with different dynamics. In the first the husband would set up video camera’s and watch the action between his wife and I from another room, making a recording for them both to enjoy later, he would only watch from another room never having any involvement . I would spend the night in his bed with his wife while slept on the floor at the foot of the bed.
In the second The husband was allowed to be in the same room, he liked to get close to the action with his camera and when he thought the time was right would ask his wife’s consent to interact/participate, depending on how she felt this would be granted or more often not. If she gave consent it would range from Him being allowed to touch with his hands, Me, Me including intermit areas. Me and her, Me and her including intermit areas. Right up to full unlimited participation. Once again I would spend the night in his bed with his wife while he slept in the spare room.
In both cases the relationships were exclusive, and all concerned were tested for STDs. This and the exclusive nature of the relationship left us free to enjoy each other without the need for additional protection.
I’m looking for something similar.