BITNIBBLER OR DIRTY MARK OR WHATEVER YOU'RE CALLING YOURSELF THIS WEEK there is no need for that type of behaviour.
This person is either a woman masquerading as a man,(WHY?) or else is a man who gets cold feet and makes very lame excuses. Either way, don't waste your time here, you will end up very dissappointed.
It's the likes of these people who give the rest of us a bad name.
