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Abusive or Bully, Which is Which?

7:52 am Monday, 4th September, 2017

I have some few words here, i got the meaning from the dictionary: 

Abusive - extremely offensive and insulting; engaging in or characterized b****bitual violence

Bully - a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker

These are the words that runs through my mind, on which category these people belong.

One instance that I personally experienced is being asked if how much I am (pla ka), he asked this question for the reason that I don't reply to his private messages.

It is my own right not to answer his private messages, why not stop sending messages if she's not answering.

I also have my own reasons for not answering all the messages that I received: out of 10****dont like the sound of his messages like 'presko ang dating' and disrespectful.

I may not be the rich, sexy, beautiful and tall type of person but I have the assets and I know how to use it. I'm not being snobbish to you guys or couples, I know what I want and I mean what I want.

One of my friends here experienced a not so good treatment from someone who is rich, sexy, tall and beautiful I guess. Uses offensive words in replying to the messages being sent privately, unethical for a lady like her.

This friend of mine is respectful, not pushy and sets things right as much as possible. Considerate enough to make me feel better and so not to hurt me or my feelings.

I dont find it ethical for a lady like me to use offensive words, even if I'm so damned p~ssed off with the guy or with the couple.

I'm trying my best not to use offensive words, restraining myself even if I'm going to explode with anger already.

Why not answer it in a nice way or manner, or better not answer his or her messages. Just don't use offensive words to turn down his or her request, you can also blacklist him or her on your account.

Now, in which category do they belong: abusive or bully?



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