Ready To Take the First Swing

Twosome, threesome, foursome....negotiating can be TIRESOME.

A week into creating our couple account, we got a bit somewhat mixed reactions.

What the hell did we just get ourselves into here???

Likers, posers, fakers, inquirers, admirers...you get all kinds.

First things first, we specified what to look for when playing with couples - - - SRS, gtg, soft swap. Manageable, right?

We devised a workflow, as we both manage the account. We invite people for a group chat. We tell each other who we started to chat with, etc.

We quickly learned to maximize discussions as no one wants to waste anyone's time. The female is a glib chatter, while the male is quick to size up the situation.

Having had different experiences in the lifestyle - - - he being more into the group/clubbing scene and she being into 1 on 1's and several threesomes (all mixed or Caucasians) - - - we might approach things quite differently.


How would we interact when we consider that people, and their personalities, their backgrounds, their cultures are diverse? In the background, however, more discussions take place. She is a Scorpio, he is a Leo. She has an appetite of a dozen bulls, he is wary and protective as can be. 

Even when they shuffle between gut feel and logic, they need to have the same voice. Even when ideas fly like crazy, they must constantly be assured that the safety and satisfaction of the other should be the focus. While she may sort out details like a liaison officer, when playtime comes, he is her boss. 

Maybe it's high time someone ought to write a rule book on swinging... This dealing with other players can be TIRESOME; nonetheless, but we are hoping for all our meets to be AWESOME.

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