First a description of myself. I'm 56 yo, 5'10, 230 lps. (going to gym to lose some of that), long black hair, brown eyes, shaven body.
I've had the fortune to have had some kinky, dominant girlfriends in my past. So a woman tying me up is nothing new to me. Nor is having dildos used on me (hand held, haven't had the pleasure of a strap on yet).
They of course enjoyed making me use my tongue on them for prolonged periods both front and rear. What is new to me is the metal chastity cage I have. Now I just need a woman to take the keys from me and make me serve her totally. I would have to service her they way she demands and make her happy if I'm ever to gain release.