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Taming the Illusive Ones

4:04 pm Sunday, 23rd July, 2017

I'm nothing special, never have been. I'm quite happy with that, I slip under the radar and go unnoticed unless I choose to. I've always been very in touch with what I do want and, more importantly, what I don't want - I'm quite vocal about that too as you'll know if you've ever sent me a message that I've taken badly to. 
I'm prickly, abrupt and fierce on occasion but there are a few that have captured my attention lately and they'll know who they are. 

I often feel sorry for the men here, some seem so desperate to get attention that they'll resort to shock tactics - doesn't wash with me I'm afraid. I'm sure that all of the strong women here are the same and will see through thin flattery like glass. 

My time is valuable and I don't waste it gladly - I like strength and confidence. I like openness and I demand honesty. If I feel like I'm fighting for attention I won't chase, I walk. 

I need a man that can hold my stare, look me straight in the eye and tell me what he wants. They're few and far between, that's not a bad thing at all, finding the illusive ones is such an exhilarating chase and I enjoy that. 
Keeping my attention is a different matter altogether and no one has managed that yet...



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