The concept of size in intercourse has being so promoted with the advent of the internet and soft porn easily accessible. As much as size matter, Brains matter the most. When I mean brains in this context is ability to attain to absorb all emotions mutually until there is balanced satisfaction.
The height of sexual ecstasy is sustenance, most people male and female are conditioned by culture and environment to think outside and learn the art and science of sex. Size an added advantage to help in friction of every angle increases pleasure and heightens the tension for female orgasm
Any sex without orgasm is not balanced therefore men must learn to train there brains to stay active until the female reaches orgasm. Truth is if men can sustain the pressure and pleasure either by oral or other means, orgasm is very easy.
Also so many ladies don't express themselves and allow here brains to be very flexible to the peak of pleasure.
The Black stamina first is a result of circumstances and environment that has already trained the physical to withstand pressure but also the mind also need to evolve and be able to handle pleasure on a balanced parameter.
I have experienced on few occasion when the both climax at same time or almost same time that's what i mean by a balanced parameter when the physical and emotional bodies are on the same vibration
