Newbies - Carry-on
The 'Carry-On' films with Barbara Windsor, Sid James, Charles Hawtrey, Sid James and the rest of the crew, obviously come to mind as I just wrote the title, and thought how funny a 'Carry-on Swinging' film would have been. Ha-ha!
As I wasn't wanting to write about 'Carry-On' films, but since chatting to some 'newbies' on here, which I am on this site, yet been sexually active most of my life, so have gained a lot of experience and was hoping to encourage others to help discover themselves and the 'adult-world' in general, and to carry-on swinging if that's what they desire.
“Swinging” is not everyone’s cup of tea, and others prefer one-to-ones, group-sex and threesomes, rather than full swaps, but then again it can be vice-versa. There are no strict set of rules when it comes to 'sexual encounters', swinging, gang-bangs, meet-ups, outdoor fun, BDSM, call it what you like, they are still sexually related desires.
There are of course different levels of what people may or may not be into. Some take it extremely serious, donning the full attire etc. rubber/leather bondage outfits and equipment used - whereas some others just like to get down and be 'dirty'. To some like me, it's a kind of escapism from this mad, mad, mad world we live in!
Whatever floats your boat and for whatever reason/s you decided to enter this arena I think whoever does so will greatly benefit from doing so and especially if they go about it the right way. Meaning, we are not all the same, some people (newbies particular) may feel less secure than others - and “jealously” has arisen in some circumstances and why some people prefer group-sex as there's less attachment, if any at all. Some couples have broken up due to meeting someone they thought was more suited to them than their current partner, and again this can be vice-versa, so it has in some cases ended in tears. Whereas, some others have met their ideal sexual partner and go on to have a great life and time together. Many couples are strongly bonded to each other and can live a ‘swingers’ life without it effecting their own relationship and in fact whereas it helps enhance their own sex lives.
There's also some weirdo's out there, and some like that as well, - as there are some really dominate blokes out there who have kind of ended up bullying the male in the relationship and taking over the main Dom role - and whereas the chaps wife/partner is now submissive to this other chap first and not her own husband/partner. Yet strangely enough there are some folk who don't mind that - but it gets a bit too much when the husband/partner finds he's no longer sleeping in his old bed!
Most committed or married couples seem to drift across to the adult scene, as they know sex as a couple per'se can get a tad boring despite trying everything within the Kama Sutra - and as we know love making is quite different than having 'sex' in general.
Yet, like me when younger and in fact for some time and with others I had relationships with, including getting married at only 19 - we were too shy to talk about what we really wanted to experience sexually. We didn't want to think our partners may think we are perverts, if for instance you desired to be ws, fisted, tied-up and gang-banged! Instead of being more open with each other, I found it easier to have affairs, which soon came to light and again ended in tears with the partners I had been with.
Over time I started to go to naturist clubs, then 'swinging-joints' - mainly in London and Essex areas, as I now live in glorious Bristol. I discovered I quite liked this kind of life, as I love my independence. I really enjoy being 'single', as it permits me to fuck who I want and when I want and without any come-backs!
I like to take my time whenever I encounter someone. Long durations of 'foreplay' and action. I like to take it easy, can role-play to help set the scene, yet like to be myself and have a laugh as well and not take the experience too seriously. Laughing, joking and feeling at ease is the most important thing to me. Trust is vital, for if you have trust, then it gives you more confidence in being able to really let yourself go. I'm proud to say I have had the pleasure to have encountered over 400 women (including couples) in my life to date - and would love to double that number before I go!
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