Sometimes everyone needs a break from the routine of day-to-day life. A one night stand employing a fantasy persona is a break from being the fabulous woman you are and be another fabulous woman. I'm not talking about living a double life; I'm talking about one night. No strings attached. Just go with the flow.It's kind of like "no muss; no fuss" sex, and like one of my guy friends puts it, "We do it, and then I leave." There's something honest there that I respect.
When you go into a one night stand (consciously or unconsciously) trying to fill an emotional void, you'll typically feel worse and emptier the next day. If you feel any hesitancy or are not 100% positive it's the right thing to do right now, don't. Do it if you know you're going to be safe, know you'll be able to focus on the moment, and know you want it.
