Care to let us have a sneak peek of that Peak?
When almost every profile claims that they are here for discreet fun, clean, easygoing and drama-free, it doesn't do much to message someone to express your interest and NOT give any indication of what you look like.
When your profile is too short and generic, it may not be always worth your time to get the attention of someone else who has more than enough pics, has a fairly detailed description of interests and preferences, even have reviews posted.
A face pic may not be enough. At some point there is some disclosure about your body type, even curiosity about dimensions.
Some people know what they want. I'd like to emphasize that I am here to fulfill fantasies, and by that, it won't be likely with someone who I would not give so much attention to had we met in some real-life social setting.
If you show fully-clothed pics (mmmm, love business suits), at least I can imagine myself ripping those off. Yes, I do have a thing for athletic types, as I admire people who devote some time to take care of themselves despite age.
I sometimes wonder why someone's choices get too narrowed down to hooking up with an svelte figure but may be too lazy to consider checking on his/her state of health. It ain't sexy to be hearing someone catch his breath looking he is about to have a cardiac arrest.
This isn't the Olympics, but this would still be considered a form of contact sport, wouldn't it? It's a bit of a stretch to make it to the finish line. 🙂
I think people who post current pics in their best form could be seen as confident. Being fit and active helps the happy hormones (endorphins) flowing. And one more thing, some people can have some preference for certain racial/ethnic features. Again it's all part of the fantasy they are after. So when these bits are held back, it's no wonder that so many well-intentioned messages get ignored, and the only things that takers manage to go on are the urge, proximity, and the availability.
... Which is not a bad thing entirely, but like many people, I prefer to make a choice. As there will always be so many others checking on my profile and messaging, I go by the summaries and the details available to me. If you are so sexy but shy (hmmm, turn on!), then maybe I could take some photos for your profile, which could be my next boudoir project.
I hope you get the picture.