I am 36, hubby is 34. Together 17 years, married 6 years. We have been through a lot of crap.....but we're still here. Now we have decided to forget everyone elses needs and wants. Spent so many years running around after everyone else to keep them afloat, happy, in a home, fed and looked after. We have finally realised that we are not responsible for them and don't care about what what they think about our life choices. Went to Ann Summers today and had so much fun! Rediscovering our naughty sides and not being ashamed of what others might think is so liberating! Joking with the staff, being open about our sexuality....it felt raw and it was so easy to just be ourselves. There is nothing wrong with being you! Life is for living, having fun, discovering who you are and what you like. I can't believe it has taken me so long to be completely honest with myself and my husband. He wants to have a threesome and I am bi curious......BINGO!! So many marriages fail because one, or both get bored, they feel the love has gone, etc. It's all bollocks! A marriage only fails if you can't be bothered to do anything about it and aren't willing to put the effort in. I thought I had stopped loving my husband but that soooo wasn't the case. I love him more than anything, I just got bored with the 'routine'......so did he. You make life interesting, worth it, fun. And you do it with the people who make you smile, who bother and care.
