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Part 1 A Beginners Perspective

7:49 pm Saturday, 11th February, 2017

We are beginners. In trying to get into the groove, we did find some issues which hamper interaction with others. Or is it the etiquette ? We do look fwd to things working out but the journey as well as result has to be pleasant.

We r first timers. That means we wud be willing but wary. So we go for profiles which sound good, do not say "prefer not to say", have real pics (seeming - remember we are gullible novices) and hot guest reviews. We do compare invites with profile of the sender and filter ou those which just don seem to be written with ppl like us in mind. Imagine getting a mail from someone who says we are interested only in cpls from bangalore (we r in delhi), age below 30, experienced only, body like arnold !

Pics - yup good to talk abt them. We have uploaded many of them and love comments on them. In fact many of them were specifically clicked, loaded and deleted from device - teenage kids around. Pics give the other guys an insight into what kind of ppl u are and also provide an opportunity to others for reaffirming their interest in u. But somehow, we jus dont like them gross. After all, one likez to dress up for meeting friends. Well atleast inititially (considering the site this is being posted on ;)). And seriously, if u are afraid of showing any kind of pix even without faces, i doubt u will ever have the guts to meet.

Age - our age is right there on our profile. But one still ends up getting invites from ppl (25-27 yo) whose profile says looking for ppl our own age only. Frankly, we dont know whether to respond or not. Personally, we would like to do it wih a younger cpl as well - its a fantasy of my wife's and i do find woman above 30-35 sexy as hell. So therefore , when a younger couple, whose profile says otherwise, sends an invite it would be nice to see it mentioned that they are looking for someone like us - in fact we wud love it. Notwithstanding, it is always good to see someone mentioning in their mail tht we were looking for someone like u - flattery will get u everywhere !

Friends - u sent a request, we accepted. And then nothing since three months. No chat, no mail, nothing ! Whats the point of having 500 friends and complete hub on ur hotlist - a deletion drive is in order !

Short introductions - who wants to respond. If u have detailed intro and have then sent a short message its ok. But 10 messagez like tht and no details means ur just in a hurry to get on with the act without putting in anything from ur side, including effort. If writing a few lines seems such a daunting task, we r sure u will end up doin nothing when (if ? ) we meet. The information is not forthcoming coz either u cudnt or dont want to part with it.  Either way, how do we then build the confidence to meet u ? And anyways, why shud we let u in on our secrets when u wudnt ? Jus imagine, u want me to share my partner (my most prized person) with u on the basis of two lines ! Request always work incrementally towards introducing urself through mails, chats etc before asking for a meet. If u jus send a mob no the first time u communicate, it doesnt ring a bell !

Computer generated messages - well if i had a software, i wudnt be looking for u here, right ? We do understand sometimes its unavoidable. We may send a mail to someone and they may have missed replying. Well, to not sound pushy, i like a pic or do something which triggers an auto message. Or maybe i just plain finished my quota of 10 messages for the day but want to show my interest. Fine. But atleast follow it up with a manual msg.

Signing off - we r chatting. U tell ur age ask ours, and disappear ! Pl be more respectful. Say ur no longer interested. But really, we thought u had read through our profile before accepting the chat request. We definitely do tht.

So then, how do things move ? Well, rough idea since we r novices and looking. We like each others profile, show intetest and contact. Exchange a cpl of mails and chat on the site - convenience really. Pics are a must - without face is ok. Basically we r making sure attraction is likely when we meet coz pics say a lot abt who we r. This needs to be followed by a tele call wherin the wives definitely have to say hi - if only to each other but need to confirm the cpl status. Lets meet for a coffee - drinks are better as they help loosen up in a nervous situation. Lets sit around, talk, flirt, pamper our women - flattery will get u everywhere. 

Hosting - always mention whether or not u can host (much as we wud love to, we cant) or travel. 

If nothing more, lets meet and try to be adult friends - dont expect anything more. No expectations - nothing to lose.


Hoping to hear from some good ppl and make better friends.



Comments
3:06 am Sunday, 12th February, 2017

Nice to know about you guys in this much of detail....
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4:52 am Sunday, 12th February, 2017

Nice bit of writeup 🙂 

6:31 pm Sunday, 12th February, 2017

Good evening 

1:19 am Monday, 13th February, 2017

We were once where you are now, folks. We may be thousands of miles away but we can still communicate. Hit us up if you wish.

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