In my previous post, I have delineated the dillemma of whether to share her or not. Many do; I cannot. Why? Jealousy? Fear of inadequacy being exposed? Self-esteem? Or all these?
Whatever, I feel I need to fight it. What happened to you when you first watched her (if you are in a situation like mine) have sex with another man? Did you cry and tear your hair in remorse? Or did you share her joy? How about the next days?
I would be glad to know if you shared your experiences. And of course, was life as usual for you two later on? Could you stare into her eyes like before? Any remorse for either?
Please help.
12:43 pm Wednesday, 11th January, 2017
It's simple; if you trust each other completely and don't have any insecurities from each other, you will end up loving each other more after the experience because you have given each other the ultimate trust and you are not afraid of losing each other for someone else. |
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7:22 am Thursday, 12th January, 2017
We may not become partners in real. But we could talk about it freely if you would like to, That might help you. |
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7:38 am Thursday, 12th January, 2017
great advice from zar below. yes you must be secure in your marriage, if you are not...it could cost you a marriage if one or both of you start the blake game.. my wife is a cuckquean and loves to watch me, my fantasy is to have threesome with her....we have tried mfm once, she said its not her thing. so just dont push the issue to hard or it may never happen. try meeting a guy you are both intetested in, become friends over coffee and just chat a few times, then ask her again |
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5:31 pm Friday, 13th January, 2017
Mate, its depend upon the trusts and bonds u share. Don't go for cuckolding's, rather go for threesome. While doing that try to enjoy the view and join later. In this way, she will not feel awkward. The crucial part of this life style is breaking the ice. Once u overcome this obstacle , u will be able to enjoy this lifestyle. 🙂 Cheers and best of luck for both of you. |