This has been a question, that has been burning in my mind! Ive been on the site for a little while and i must say some people live up to there word buth the majority are what i would term anti-social and, or flat out fakes, well the members from trinidad that is! So why is it that people have profiles on a social network and then proceed to act in an anti-social manner, namely refuse to reply to a message, refuse to respond in the chat room, and pretend to be a woman/couple? I know most messages might be aggressive or some might be degrading but then there are the simple hi's and hello's. This maybe just me but i think a simple "hello i've looked at your profile and your not what "i" or "we" are looking for would decrease the amount of messages sent to you on a daily basis and for the better part create a better experience! And for the ones pretending to be women/couples stop you are pathetic, don't you think at some point in time you will have to meet, what will you do then?