When it comes to sexuality, I think there is a lot of muddled thinking or no thinking at all. It is very obvious that the female is equipped to accept the male appendage and the female can usually accommodate whatever is on offer! At the risk of being labelled homophobic, I can’t for the life of me fathom why some guys prefer to shag a bloke instead of a woman who has the purpose designed equipment (lovely juicy pussy). I can, to some extent see why some women prefer to dance horizontally with other women but from what I understand, even gay women still want their pussy filled with something that resembles a cock and women don’t have them! I know a lot of women get more pleasure from clitoral stimulation but it would seem that having a pussy full of cock in addition to satisfying the clit is the best and most pleasurable option.
Quick joke: -
Cowboy is sitting in a bar drinking his beer and a very “fit” looking lady sits at the side of him and orders a drink.
She says to the cowboy “are you a real cowboy” and he replies
“I round up cattle, I mend fences, I wear chaps on my legs and ride horses so yes I guess I’m a real cowboy”
He says “what about you”
She says “I’m a Lesbian”
He says “what makes you think that”
She says “Well I wake up thinking about women, I go through the day thinking about women and I go bed thinking about women”
He says “ok” and is a bit stuck for what to say next.
Along comes another bloke and sits at the other side of the cowboy and orders a drink.
He says to the cowboy “are you a real cowboy”
Cowboy says “well I thought I was, but it turns out I’m a lesbian”
In the blokes case, when it comes (no pun intended) to the feeling horny bit. The most natural thing is to find a nice warm, juicy and purpose made cavity to release the life giving contents - that done, the task is over (from a prime directive point of view). Unfortunately, a juicy purpose made cavity is not always available when needed so alternatives need to be found. The easiest is probably “pulling one off” - ok it relieves the tension but isn’t great. Another option is to use a sex toy and they aren’t great either. Another option when a woman is available but her pussy isn’t is oral sex; a good blow job can sometimes be as good if not better than a juicy pussy. Even another option where a woman is available but her pussy isn’t is the backdoor! In my experience it isn’t as good as a good blow job and doesn’t come close to a nice juicy pussy but it can be very stimulating and it serves the purpose! I’m surprised how many women seem to like the backdoor entry but hey ho.
In the girl’s case, when it comes to the feeling horny bit, I imagine that the natural urge is to get the pussy filled with a nice stiff cock or similar. Again the clit is usually the one that needs the most attention but being a bloke I can only guess about that :-)
Having thought some more, it seems that we need to separate the “Sex for pleasure” from “Sex the basic urge”. I suspect this would be different from a male and female perspective. It’s very fortunate that (most) humans enjoy sex and that the basic urges only come into play when we aren’t getting enough but there are still some blokes out there that still think quality sex is “brace yourself girl, insert cock, grunt for few minutes, withdraw, go to sleep”. However, from a girls point of view, in the words of Lily Allen “you don’t make me scream” (brill song) this would not be quality sex; the woman would just be a “deposit box”. Guys, if this is how you have sex you need to learn how to stop being a caveman :-)
Watch out for part 3
