Doesn't do what it says on the tin

I Couldn't agree more, as you say we all took the time to write something but what I don't understand is the mentality of not replying to a mail or worse starting something and as you say falling in to the abyss and of course worst of all not turning up to an arranged meet.

Yes agreed if you don't want involvement from a single male and it's on your profile and still you are hassled then fair enough ignore the twat, illiterate idiot that fucks it up for the genuine ones, but if you have single male on your profile and the guys just not your type a polite no thanks is easy enough. Respectful and says a lot about you.

The idea of a points feedbackscoring system based on replies to mail, open contact, turns up to arranged meetings etc. is an excellent one and should be adopted by the site that way you will soon be able to sort the time wasters from the serious players and it should enhance the site as well as the experience :).

Yup. I have been on this site for 6 months and had about 5 exchanges that were supposed to go somewhere. In fact nothing happened. It feels like i would have more luck chatting up a nun.

Either people are fake, or they don t know what they want.

Why do my messages keep getting deleted?

Too true , There's loads on here purporting to be 'up for anything' but contacting them elicits silence or at the very most some little teasing that leads nowhere fast. (think they move on to the next poor sap that believes their profile)
I know there are ones out there that are truly curious and maybe a little unsure as how to take that first step, (we where all there once) but the others know what's what and have no intention of doing what this site and others are set up for. So they just get their rocks off leading others up the garden path which spoils all our fun.

ps, hope I made some sense there.




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If I may add...
I'm a regular guy among many, many other sigle men looking for adventure, but even I had luck to meet some lovely couples. So, yes, there are some genuine people here and, yes, it's difficult to meet someone if you are sigle guy, but don't give up.
And, comment on the replying... As I am not a paying member, I am unable to read or reply to the messages I am receiving. I am not rude or ignoring you, but it's just not possible for me to use message system. This, i believe, is also written on my profile as a first sentence. I am almost daily on chat in Spanish room, so feel free to talk to me. I like to think that I'm a nice guy.
Pardon my english.

Correct fake people they text you I answer back then nothing like people said horny etc no fakers

Too many fakes on here. also there seems to be a site computer that attributes spam messages to genuine people.

Hi
I have been on this website for 3 months and hasn't met anyone so thinking of canceling my profile and I know how u feel

Yep, I think there should be a system in place that says if someone has made arrangements and then cancels. Also, We are getting bombarded with offers and then when we ask for a picture of them, so we can see what they look like, they go silent or start messing about. If you tell someone you are genuinely interested in them and want to meet them but then won't let them see a picture of you, what does that say? This kind of nonsense needs to have some kind of system that goes against the offending party! I don't understand why you would spend the money to advertise on this site to hook up with like minded people and then not want to show someone a picture of you after you have messaged them saying you'd like to arrange a meet. Had one great meet and only been on here a short period of time but also had a fair few time wasters!

Wife is very choosy and likes muscular bodybuilder type guys, so there's not many guys on here that float her boat , but we have found a few and they all say they up for a meet but so far not one has turned up, so far we are very disappointed

Well should of asked me then I'm sure to please 😎

just spent the last week talking to cuckold couple wife wants to be used any way I wish in front of hubby but as soon as it gets close to first vanilla meeting silence! unfriended ! and poof there gone! is it sad that im getting used to it?

I agree with guyup4it69 ! I, as a single man, have emailed many of the profiles on here and have only received one reply, albeit it was a turn down, but very politely and nicely done ! I'd much rather have that than receive no reply at all

This is so true

Don't many of you guys see these types of sites
Just being somewhere that you once again might be teased by the lovely ladies in life! ! !

well im new on here . believe it or not i looked at people that live near me before i put a pic on . the 1st couple i see the girl in the pic is a very good friend of mine and the fella is not her bloke . she would be mortified if she found out . ive spoken to her best friend and sent her the pic and it turns out that they had only met one night at a party and its just a normal night out pic . very sad

Absolutely right!

There are lots of people, singles and couples, who like to 'talk the talk' but not 'walk the walk'. Some just get a thrill from being on a site like this. Some seem merely to want to chat, despite saying to the contrary. Some are clearly picture collectors. Some just don't know what they want, or how to organise themselves to facilitate it.

I don't know if I'm on a bad run at the moment, but numerous experiences in the last few months haven't been good. It almost feels as if the situation is getting worse, although I imagine I've just been unlucky.

Sadly I've just had to walk away from a potential meet which looked like it could have been amazing, because the separate emails from the couple were pulling in different directions. Either they couldn't agree what they wanted from the meet, or they didn't know how to express it. And that was after over 70 messages between us, and including a conversation a few weeks ago about this subject! Very frustrating.

I agree entirely. George.

Its not here that this happens, its seems to endemic to the whole on-line dating scene. Far too many fakes, automated responses and just plain old time wasters. Its sad...especially when you read a persons profile think that you could be a good fit and then find out otherwise. But I have just got used to it just a little too much.

To truse
Also it seems people don't read our profile as we get interest from people that are in no way our type and would save themselves a lot of embarrassment when we decline them .The people we do want to meet most seem full of hot air .where are all the white straight muscular bodybuilder type guys that will show up ???

I wonder how many profiles have been set up by the male without the females knowledge and claiming to be a couple up for it ......just saying 

Same thing here in Switzerland! And we thought it was us... As soon as a meet is becoming real they vanish in the air.