The Third Wheel Experience

1:57 pm Friday, 19^th August, 2016

denski

As a third wheel I have been very careful not to offend the men of couples who where kind enough to invite me to have sex with their women. I usually gauge my actions based on how the men react. I just can't dive in and turn on the full pervert mode without a hint of a permission. When I do feel that everything's fine with the guy, I then see if the girl is even interested in me. Sometimes the girls do things because they want to please their men. Women also have preferences. I may or may not turn them on. This is why I try to look my best. Hopefully, I am not that unattractive. I'd like it to be an enjoyable experience for all.

I have been observing the men who have been sharing their women with me and I noticed (so far) they like to show off their girl. They are genuinely attracted to the woman they love. To them, their woman is the most beautiful girl on the planet and they want to share this feeling with other men... without them losing the girl. I guess for them, physical attraction is okay but I doubt they'll like it when other men mix it with emotional attraction as well. There has to be a line where third wheelers can't cross. You have to want their girl as much as they do but not want their girl too much you become a threat to their relationship.

Years ago I would not have understood this. I would have slammed this as a non committal and loveless relationship. Why would you share your wife/girlfriend with other men? I guess I'm just too selfish when it comes to relationships in my youth. What's mine is mine and I don't need to show it off or even share it. Maybe, if I don't have feelings for the girl... but I do understand there will come a time when you need to reinvigorate a long standing relationship. It can get boring when the two of you have been together for so long. Might as well have fun together than apart I guess. This might change my selfish ways if that's the case. Maybe... maybe not. That's if I do decide to commit and my relationship needs 'reinvigorating.'

Fortunately, I have better understanding and am more open minded now. As a third wheeler I'm no threat to anyone. I get suffocated in relationships and have long gave up on the idea. Some people such as myself are not built for relationships and thrive on being independent. I do love having sex with beautiful and sexy women but being in a committed relationship is out of the question. That is why this alternative sexual lifestyle suit me best. Fun without the headaches.

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