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How do you strike up a conversation on here?

11:44 pm Friday, 27th May, 2016

Since the format change to benefit membership, how does the average member strike up a rewarding conversation/introduction. Recently I've pondered this whilst watching a stream of incessant 'hi's' and 'hellos' on the hot tub chatroom.

Does anyone else miss the opportunity to actually instant message people paving the way to meaningful conversation that isn't judged in front of the wider community (nothing to hide, but private messages can be a little more direct).

Love to discuss with like minded people.



Comments
12:03 am Saturday, 28th May, 2016

Andy---good luck in there. it's either all hi's and hello's (or bye's) or constant pics of god knows what, and who cares?

At the moment, i'd say stick with the blogs along with intermittent forays into chat and add your own incipient sense of humor as you can---someone will take heed eventuallly and you'll stirike up a conversation among the inane.

4:28 am Saturday, 28th May, 2016

Aphrodite. As usual, words of wisdom from my favorite goddess.Perhaps I should call you Minerva the Greek goddess of wisdom. Do you like owls ? xx

11:25 am Saturday, 28th May, 2016

I adore owls, Fetch. They are beautiful, soft, quiet--and fierce. If you call me Minnie, though, please don't let anyone confuse me with the mouse.

Andy--Good blog topics always welcome!!! (It's always refreshing to find one that is written by someone with a brain).

10:41 am Monday, 30th May, 2016

As much as I wud like to agree with the comments ...but I think you will still not get noticed. Going owlish....post a video, with you in your birthday suit, wearing only a Donald Trump grin faced mask, twerking off to the music from Macarena while your mother watches TV in the background, while swapping readable cards displaying all your personal 'happy' details. Now comes the brilliant part...post that video with the title...OMG! THIS IS HOW WE DO IT (after the jack song)...trust me...810 will watch...up till the end...you would have done absolutely nothing wrong or be labelled misleading......good luck n cheers

5:05 am Wednesday, 1st June, 2016

Rungirl.,I quite agree with you.One of my pet hates is to see people in restaurants,totally disregarding one another while they play with their phones or tablets.There bloody things kill the art of conversation or at the least,reduce it to the sort which you describe. I am a great believer in the tenet that " There is a time to be coarse and a time not to be coarse " The time in-between is called intercourse, ,whether social or sexual..
Sassy, it grieves me greatly to disagree with you,as I hold you in such high esteem and worship the ground you walk on,but if humour is so important in striking up conversations, why do people not laugh at my jokes but merely groan at the inanity of them .Could it be that I need to buy a new box of Christmas Crackers ? xxxx

1:56 am Thursday, 2nd June, 2016

Open, he will get there I am sure :)

How to strike a conversation here? It used to be really easy when being on chatrooms or even blogs. Now, I am not sure. Sometimes, people have written to me and I mean thoughtful and witty messages and I have replied and it starts from there.

I do agree with the general view that not many people are articulate. I almost have this sense or idea that many think they can just say whatever pops into they heads (or not). Almost like the proper way to chat to someone in real life does not apply here.

Some will argue and say, but this is a sex site. Well, I think almost every single woman would agree that it is not sexy at all or stimulating when a man is just trying to show u a picture of their privates from first line. Levels, building and the art of just making u want more is something lost in a way for many, but good luck Andy. There are always gems.

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