Blacklisting rudeness

1:15 pm Thursday, 19^th May, 2016

Have you found yourself Blacklisted by another member and not known why?
I recently looked at another members media and clicked on the like button. Subsequently I looked at their profile and read clearly their preferences, as a result of which, I did not contact them. I made no friend request, I didn't 'like' their profile. In fact, the only contact was that I liked their publicly open media. The next thing I know is I get a rude message telling me to "READ PROFILE PROPERLY" and when I tried to respond, the message won't send as I have been Blacklisted by them. Admin assure me that the site has not sent any message to this member. I have not either, so why the blacklist? Surely if they don't want a type of person to view explicit media on a sex site, they shouldn't post it openly. They can hardly complain if somebody likes it!
So Should the act of blacklisting either give you the right to respond, or need Admin approval? I totally respect the right of any member not to want me to contact them and to not want to be pestered, but rudeness, by said members, should also have a redress.

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	5:01 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 Fetch1 Erik, I agree with you. There seem to be a few " umbrage takers " on here,who make it their mission in life to look for offence where none is intended.Ah well, it takes all sorts I suppose.
	6:24 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 freeforpleasure Well, I just got a message asking me with me being in Beijing, it would never work, and I was wondering, work what? So I am assuming the site has generated another automated message from me because I read this person's profile (sighs again).
	8:43 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 Skebbie Erik: Concur with FFP. Despite what you may have been told, I suspect this is yet another example of the site's efforts to "encourage people to contact each other" :-) I have never been blacklisted - at least not yet - but of course we all know that if you are hovering over a profile, the site may send that profile a message from you saying "Hi we are close - drop me a line" - or words to that effect.
	8:53 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 freeforpleasure Snobbish, don't forget the famous " I`ve been looking at your profile and think you look great. Please get in touch…xx" which I think it is generated when u like a pic. I can see these posts vanishing soon.
	8:54 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 freeforpleasure Hahahahahaha Skibbie sorry my phone changed ur username to snobbish .....
	11:05 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 Skebbie FFP: Freudian slip perhaps :-)
	11:15 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 erik33 Thanks Guys! In my discussions with admin over this they assured me that neither they, nor I had send any message, computer generated or 'written' and we can only believe them! they also said that they considered the message from the said member rude and would send an adim message to that effect. I have discovered, that you can still sometimes post comments on pictures, even if blacklisted. They have to read them before removing them, although this might get you blacklisted LOL
	11:16 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 erik33 What is the hidden meaning in The y ha ve?
	11:20 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 erik33 Third time lucky ,I'll name that word or four letters, they, and the second word of four letters would therefore be have. I could have abbreviated it to the've but I chose, to not use the diminutive form. (What a sad individual I am!)
	11:30 am Friday, 20^th May, 2016 freeforpleasure Skebbie: Then my phone is very very intuitive and smart? :P Erik, well what I can say. I hope that ADM is saying is true. I would not really bother about it if I were you as I would just think it is someone who takes things very personally. lol

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