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What else sex can be?

12:25 pm Friday, 29th April, 2016

We wanted to share a little bit more about us and how we perceive sex and sensuality. We provide this so people can judge our suitability as potential friends and playmates and also to share something we find fascinating.

We all know what we think sex is, but the reality is that most of us don't ever tap into even 5% of the potential of sex. We all understand the excitement of sex and the race to orgasm and that is enough for most people, which is great. But there is more…..

And in this post we want to focus on one small aspect of more.

Sexual and sensual interaction is an opportunity to see the essence of another person and to deeply honour their masculine or feminine beauty. The best sex we can have is when we bring into the interaction our authentic vulnerability. If we allow ourselves to switch off our auto pilot, our ideas about how to do and how to be done to, we open ourselves up to connect with our sexual self in a more meaningful and pleasurable way.

The vagina is both the most vulnerable part of a woman and also the center of her feminine power. Any entry into the vagina is, by definition an invasive act and no one should ever go there without the clear consent of the woman and without first having earned her trust, by seeing her, making her safe and showing her she is truly respected, honored and deeply loved in that moment. If a woman is treated this way, she can open up in ways that will surprise her and her partner(s).

The penis is the metaphor of masculinity. Through offering his penis, the man can extend the security, stability and support the partner needs to truly surrender to their vulnerable and open potential. When we can honour his masculinity through respect and worship we support him to find his masculine essence, free of damaging ego and unleash the true potential of his manhood.

In conclusion, sex and sensuality is an opportunity to do so much more than 'get off'. This honouring and respect is an important part of who we are sexually.

Thanks for listening :)



Comments
9:42 pm Monday, 9th May, 2016

That is true

10:26 am Wednesday, 6th July, 2016

An excellent article.Well written and although my wife and I do not practice sharing[only once,] we truly do like sex and have our own little games sometimes involving others but very discreetly and without them realising.Have a great time.

2:15 pm Monday, 18th July, 2016

I agree completely. I like to warm up things 1st not just use a vaginia for my own desires. But having some fun with another man and with yr hubby permission how will you interpret that? I think if there is respect and love the other man can be a very trusted person to let the atmosphere remain a serene 1.keep intouch soon

9:57 am Friday, 4th November, 2016

Well now i've experienced a few couples and truth to what you wrote about respect , consents and sensuality is the only reason why 99% of the couples I met have invited me for a second time round third and even more. 🍷

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