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A Tough, Yet Simple Question

4:10 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

It's a simple question, really: What's the sexiest thing about you? But when a researcher asked people on a recent, warm Friday afternoon for their answer, most of them responded by saying "That's a hard question!" or, "I don't know!" But I think most of them did know — they were just afraid to own it.

It's not easy for everyone to brag about themselves, but recognising and being proud of what we think is sexy about ourselves isn't arrogant: it's downright brave. A global report back in 2014 on self image found that only 54 percent of people — 13 percent more than when they first conducted the same survey in 1984 — are unhappy with their body. Eighty percent said just looking in the mirror makes them feel bad.

That makes me a bit sad and I’m glad times are changing. I’m happy to report that, on that recent, warm Friday afternoon, while plenty of people hesitated to name their sexiest trait, once they thought about it, many said they actually had a hard time choosing just one thing. Now that's what I'm talking about!

Oh and, for the record, if I had to choose? My ability to ask simple questions of course! ;-)

So come on gang, what is the sexiest thing about you? Whether it is one thing or a whole list, I want to know. :-)



Comments
4:29 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

My eyes so I've been told lol

4:35 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

I can tell you Jag71 that many people said their eyes were one of the sexiest things about them in the poll. Eyes are gorgeous! :-)

4:56 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

Maria, such a great question and blog. I would say lips, hair and legs. I am tallish too and I love when wearing heels and looking even taller. Yes, probably many thinking, I am not humble at all but considering that I have a longer list of things I would change...I think all of us should always remind themselves about the good bits.

Once during a TED presentation someone said that when babies are little, they kiss themselves on the mirrors...Perhaps not something to do but the meaning behind meaning, maybe we should love ourselves more :)

5:06 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

Totally agree with you free, we should love ourselves much more. I like heels too, but I think that is more to do with me looking thinner if I am taller hehehe. :-)

6:26 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

I see your profile photo a lot on the blogs sassy and it does appear that you have a cracking pair of pins. Mine are like tree trunks lol :-)

6:43 pm Wednesday, 27th April, 2016

It's great to have people like you on the site Sassy. Keep up the good work ;-)

12:46 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

My confidence

12:50 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

I'd say my sexiest quatlity imy confidence Where I have it, at any rate.

5:37 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

Dixon is far too modest to comment on this issue.

6:37 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

I'm a simple guy not hard to please very romantic and passionate,respectful and I'm a good friend lover listener ALL i want is someone to love me some one to love......

9:17 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

I agree with you sassy, Chrissy and eroticgoddess, confidence is a very sexy trait to have. I have always found good banter and humour to be very sexy traits. I'd like to say I am loaded with both...but my confidence won't let me! Eeeeek!

10:56 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

I find it funny what people think is sexy about me vs what I consider my finer points. I've heard that my bum is sexy (NOT something I agree with whatsoever, but who am I to argue?

I think my best asset is my confidence. When I'm feeling it.

10:58 am Thursday, 28th April, 2016

GOOD GRIEF.......Gotta love my confidence in posting that 3 times! It just didn't show up here, so I kept trying. .......

Can anyone remove the first two??????

1:49 pm Thursday, 28th April, 2016

I like them being there too EG. They make it look like more people have commented on my blog! A confidence boost in itself hehehe. I can remove them if you would like me to. Just let me know. x

hack1 - Loving the outfit in your profile pic! :-)

Openisland, just noticed your comment about the snake tattoo. Oooh er! :-)

3:09 pm Thursday, 28th April, 2016

Sounds like the best way openislandcpl. I have a few I wish were temporary, rather than lapses of concentration from my youth lol :-)

7:24 pm Thursday, 28th April, 2016

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10:04 pm Thursday, 28th April, 2016

No thanks

12:36 am Friday, 29th April, 2016

I can honestly say there's nothing sexy about me whatsoever!

5:27 am Friday, 29th April, 2016

My Dear Maris of the enigmatic and wistful countenance ( which,by the way is very alluring ) Heaven forfend that I should presume to promulgate the notion that there is ANYTHING sexy about me in any way,shape or form ! Looking back on early successes as a callow youth, I long since came to the conclusion that it was my accoutrements,rather than my intrinsic self,which were the source of attraction.That is to say,wearing the shirt and playing for,a famous London Rugby Club and this is borne out by the fact that although I played in one of the " Glamour Boy" positions, even ugly eighteen stone, battle scarred Prop Forwards, enjoyed the attention of the ladies.The uniform and red beret of a Para Officer also attracted attention. God was not entirely unkind to me though and gave me a sense of humour and the ability to empathize and to articulate in reasonable language, which appeals to some ladies whilst others find it downright irritating ! One can only use the cards which one has been dealt. I conclude therefore, that there is absolutely nothing remarkable about me but I can live with that ! xx

6:23 am Friday, 29th April, 2016

" Maria ,I've just met a girl named Maria..And suddenly I've found, how wonderful that sound can be ".............but I've never had the pleasure of meeting that well-known typing mistake "Maris "
My apologies for the error, Maria xx

9:40 am Friday, 29th April, 2016

Gotta love a man in uniform, Fetch. And don't worry, I have been called far worse :-)

2:18 pm Friday, 29th April, 2016

I once had a Latvian male classmate called Maris when I was at grammar school. I wonder where he is now ?

3:32 pm Friday, 29th April, 2016

Totally agree with you, Gillibean. Being yourself is the sexiest thing you can do. It's very hard to do sometimes, due to fear of rejection, but if anyone can be brave enough, I hope they are rewarded :-)

8:48 pm Friday, 29th April, 2016

In my case its my mind, as I have been told I am a great guy, makes no wonder I always get the short end of the stick and used more than appreciated. Great question, thank you, never answered anything like this before.

11:56 pm Friday, 29th April, 2016

My bum ... :)

6:23 pm Monday, 2nd May, 2016

I'd struggle to say your best part yummy xx

11:25 pm Monday, 2nd May, 2016

Always yummy. But more than a flatterer in bef

11:25 pm Monday, 2nd May, 2016

Bed even lol

9:05 am Tuesday, 3rd May, 2016

Yummymummy2015 - I have seen that quite a few people have said that the site has given them a confidence boost. I will admit that, despite being an admin, It has done something similar for myself in the sense that I think I have become a lot more forgiving of my physical flaws and more appreciative of my attributes. We are all human, we all have different tastes and preferences, we are all imperfect and it is these imperfections that makes us all unique. We are all gorgeous daaahling! :-)

2:47 pm Tuesday, 3rd May, 2016

I discovered many years ago, that I had a massive attraction.It's plastic ,about 4" by 2" and has got VISA printed on it !

7:02 am Wednesday, 4th May, 2016

Hi Maria,
great blog... And fetch, you gotta love a flexible friend...
although i do prefer mine not to be plastic...There is nothing worse than a puncture mid session to deflate your ego.

Anyway, onto the subject in hand,
Being typically British and very self deprecating, i do not believe i have any sexy attributes...
There are my obvious ones such as a sense of humour which gets me noticed, sometimes for the wrong reasons, but that is my forward facing persona..
i have been told that i do have a cute arse...however that is rearward facing....
Hmmmm....Maybe i should learn to moonwalk!

I just let people take me for who i am...love me or loathe me, i am who i am....(that should bring fetch out in song again!)

7:10 am Wednesday, 4th May, 2016

The sexiest thing about anyone and everyone is their mind... You can have the best body, the most beautiful eyes and the sweetest smile.. However unless your mind is open and interested in being aroused sexually then you are sadly just artwork.

Some of the hottest pics on here are ordinary looking people who are smiling inside because they are doing somthing naughty or slightly risky...
We are all the sexiest people when we put our mind to it

Love to all those who love themselves

1:18 pm Wednesday, 4th May, 2016

I have no idea .

3:57 pm Wednesday, 4th May, 2016

Was told it was my ass, but can't see it myself

6:26 pm Saturday, 7th May, 2016

hi, Admin
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1:48 am Friday, 18th November, 2016

I suppose if I had to whittle things down to bare essentials, and base things on criteria for which I've been "selected" in the past, it would be "massive dick with brain attached" 🙂  But I suppose "being sane and civilized" has been of some assistance too  🙂  I'm certainly no oil painting, so I can only assume it's those things that have counted.

9:10 pm Friday, 18th November, 2016

It's a great question, isn't it?   It can be about what people find initially attractive about a person, but also what keeps a lover coming back to your bed, which can be entirely different.  As for initial attraction, that is a matter of individual preference, but it helps to be in reasonable shape, to be coherent, bright, amusing and relaxed, and not to dribble too much when speaking.  As for the a 2nd, 3rd, 4th meet well, so much depends on previous performance in addition to the reasons for initial attraction.  So size can help, but stamina, care and creativity are also fantastic, as well as an ever willing tongue...........

5:12 am Friday, 16th December, 2016

Ive been told its my eyes that start them off as there blue 

3:47 pm Friday, 16th December, 2016

ahhh see your point but then again 90% of my mind has naughty thoughts going on lol

2:07 pm Tuesday, 27th December, 2016

Eyes, my touch, the way I use my mouth, and probably my pert little ass.

11:12 am Monday, 3rd April, 2017

My ass I've bn told followed by my eyes x

4:00 pm Monday, 8th May, 2017

Just me...no more no less...

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