Too Often Too Familiar

1:46 am Tuesday, 23^rd February, 2016

I've been having sex with the same person for 20 years. Writing it now, I'm actually surprised that it has been that long, since it feels like only yesterday when we first did it.

It's always been great, it has evolved so much from when we started, up to now. We've experimented on a lot of things, respecting each other's boundaries...which mostly has to deal with pain - we stop when either of us feels even a modicum of pain as we're both not into that.

We've been open with each other in the past, trying it with other partners with the proper consent, sometimes together, sometimes we let each other go out on solo dates. However, Nicole experienced a date with someone who does not know how to respect the boundaries and so she stormed out and now only goes out on meetups with me, no more solo night outs for her.

Sometimes, the more often you do it, the more familiar it becomes, and if you become honest with yourself, you realize that pleasure evolves to something else entirely. When you do it so often, you have to look for pleasure in unlikely places, like public sex (mall dressing rooms, cinema rest rooms, etc.) and the funny thing is, when you try too many things too often, you would revert back to the joys of pleasure in your own bedroom, doing an old position you haven't done in a while and everything goes full circle.

No matter how mundane everything gets, no matter how many sex partners you have in life, I've found out that there is really only one who can give you an orgasm of the soul - the deep kind of pleasure that shakes your very core.

Even in sex, you have to find your true north, as differed from the compass' magnetic north and maps' grid north, it is the point to which you eventually return to, not easy to find, but is the one location that you truly call home.

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	2:02 pm Tuesday, 23^rd February, 2016 Paraowave Thank you, seriousaboutit, I'm honored that someone enjoyed the random musings I've commited in this blog, may we all revel in intimacy's more fulfilling rewards. Cheers.
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	8:39 pm Tuesday, 23^rd February, 2016 ontheflatland Actually....i should shut my mouth.changing and exploring your sex life together is something that can fall by the wayside after so many years.some people are shitty lovers lol. Swinging is a really graat time with the right people and being able to enjoy yourself and having the confidence to let your other half enjoy themselves is a pretty big gift. Ya its a physical goal ! Ya its raw. But let me ask you this. When your day comes or you left paralized some random way even if you pass of old age... Who's not going to smile. Somethings aren't anyone else's to control or own. If you cant see past the fact that its not simply physical. Then your prob a really shitty Lover too...img src="imagesadultemoticons023.gif"
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	3:56 am Wednesday, 24^th February, 2016 Paraowave Thank you everyone for your kind words. I feel honored that I share the same feelings as you, those who actively practice this lifestyle and find fulfillment in it, that despite the inclusion of other physical partners, we reserve our inner core to the one who helps us experience bliss in an emotional or even spiritual level.
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