A matter of (good) taste?

In theory I really enjoy going down there because I know many women love it and that turns me on, but a lot depends on anatomy, and much of the appeal can be decided on the basis of mailpic exchange or good communication. Like most people, I have certain tastes and "types", and if a woman ticks my physical boxes then it will happen, and is a fantastic part of natural lovemaking. I suppose it's just a facet of a woman's general appeal: if I fancy her sufficiently then everything is on the menu. It would be farcical to say "OK I'll kiss and fuck you, but I'm not going down there". So yes, I suppose it's an "all or nothing" thing.................

Deb,
You either love it or hate it...
Not that i am saying it tastes anything like marmite but i would not mind if it did as i enjoy giving oral and eating marmite, not at the same time i hasten to add..although, hmmm, maybe.(note to self; one to add to list)
Like women that do not swallow or wont give head, as strange as it seems there are men that don't like to go down on a woman.
Whatever traumatic experience they must of had encountered to turn them off of it, i couldn't even begin to comprehend but i will take a geuss at what might put some men off...
Guys, the film "Teeth" was fictional, not a documentar!!!!

I am a firm believer there is as much pleasure in pleasuring as been pleasured

When someone tells me they do not like something, sometimes it is based on a one and only experience. If someone doesn't like oral, then maybe their first time was with a smoker. Smoking can affect the taste down there. So maybe someone has a had a bad first experience. Confidence. Someone may have had a bad time with a former partner. Maybe the partner was too pushy or demanding. Or maybe the chemistry wasn't right and the person took it personally. Maybe the person lacks confidence and doesn't want to do said sexual activity based on their past.

I'm happy to go down on a woman. Bringing out the pleasure in someone can bring out the pleasure in you. It does to me.

Just a few thoughts.

Of course one aspect of this topic that has to be considered, apart from "taste" or "willingness", is the fact that not everyone is the same physiologically, anatomically or psychologically. The nerve distribution "down there" varies a lot, which means that some women are ultra-sensitive to oral and get off on it big time, whereas others are rather indifferent to it and would much rather get on with being penetrated, as they get a huge amount of pleasure from the nerves deep inside up near the cervix. In fact you'd be surprised at the number of women who have never been "properly reached" in that area. For some it's a revelation - truly.

I don't intend to speak for MsV, but I do remember a comment she once made about oral being all very well, but that after 3 hours she'd get a bit tired of staring at the ceiling :-) And as for these fabled muff-divers who can "breathe through their ears", I sometimes wonder whether their proclaimed specialist discipline is designed to compensate for deficiencies elsewhere :-)

Returning to the subject of "desirability", I must admit that some female pudenda are indeed more appetizing than others - probably in the same way that some penises are for women. I certainly don't find The Eye of Sauron particularly appetizing, or for that matter having to lift several folds of flab before gaining access to it :-) Some men might not baulk at that, but I would. However, as I say above, it's unlikely I'd ever be faced with such a daunting task because hopefully such a prospective partner would have been eliminated during the "getting to know you" e-mail stage.

"I'm assured that mine is very pretty."
I would imagine you need very little assurance on that score, Debs ;-)

Oral is definitely a two way street, personally I quite enjoy licking pussy and the pleasure it brings as the lady get more and more turned on

1st time blogger here and this post fascinated me enough to prompt my views. Having had plenty of experience I would say over my long time as a bi guy who has this strong connection with my tv side, I would like to think the roles I have experienced, straightsubdom3somefemme,etc.... there is no one direct answer. It is soon about the connection that you have with your partner or partners. Chemistry is huge imo and this understanding will impact heavily on how the sexual relationship transpires.
I have had quickies where I didn't want to come quickly and times when I have go on and on whilst a partner i am with has had 2,3,4 orgasms. As previous posts have implied, there are many factors that will have a say in what makes a fantastic match.
Answering directly to the post, personally I love to go down on a woman. Of course, cleanliness,personal hygiene and attraction in the 1st place are paramount to a sexy session taking place. There have been plenty of times when all I have wanted to do if the female is enjoying it, I have stayed down there for what has seemed to be an eternity. Its all about pushing the right buttons (as it were). Often my best experiences have been with females who do like the tv aspect, whilst also getting cock play :)
I am a big believer in true honesty with your needs and partner needs.
Doing this opens the doors ;)

I don't understand it either Deborose. Apart from the delicious intimacy of the act, the taste,the aroma ,the pleasure of the nearness of warm ,moist flesh........The view is stunning too ! xxxx

Can't beat a nice hot cup of tea and a little iie-down ;-)

Don't you find the hot tea really makes your willy sore?

Odd. I personally adore giving oral.. Very intimate & enjoyable. That guy's a wrong one. You shouldn't have given him oral without reciprocation x img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

Liability,
I agree its odd a man would not want to give oral, i don't agree in giving to receive.
I am more than happy to give oral without expecting in return... i can be a good sub.....sometimes ;-)

OIC,
Not sure i should inflict a pic of me boat on you guys....i am not that evil.
I have uploaded a pic of me best side though, and even that ain't that good.
Look at your own peril....you have been warned!

Nope Welcum, but it makes Lady Grey wriggle a bit! ;-)

Personally I find giving oral one of the biggest turn-ons ... being able to have that control over a woman as she closes in on an intense orgasm ... OMG ;)

I can only imagine they've had poor experiences in the past, like bad enough to really put them off ... for whatever reason ... issues with sexuality maybe, but I doubt they'd be up to do other things either if they found giving oral a problem ...

Just my opinion!

As a couple who both enjoy licking pussy,this is difficult to understand as it is a major part of our lovemaking,both between ourselves and with other couples.We have never had a situation where there is no pussy licking and we both find it the best way to pleasure other people in an unselfish way and always try to do it until climax,we then enjoy kissing eachother with the ladies taste still with us. x

As someone who finds it hard to hold back from climaxing I think it's absolutely essential and probably my favourite thing. Maybe over the years it's how I've compensated for my lack of stamina.
Still I've had no complaints and can't understand how anyone would not enjoy burying their face in a nice wet soft pussy. Still everyone is different we get our kicks in different ways I suppose.

Hence the expression "dining at the Y" :-) And we're still on topic :-)

Wow, I can't imagine spending a night with a woman and not having a good lick on her sweet pussy. I love licking cunt!

Lilli,
Someone mention food?
Skebbie must be quaking in his boots waiting to read what sick puppies like me will post!!!
How about a bit of sploshing then..reckon a strawberry trifle would be ideal with a good amount of licking after.....
And don't worry about the calories, just more incentive to work it off with vigorous sex.

if i could blow my own trumpet, i would never leave the house!

Gosh guys!! You are making me laugh so hard....
Welcum, Honestly how on Earth do you come with such comments? hahahaha......

Deborose: I am afraid I can't add too much to the actual topic being commented here. I think different people like to do different things and enjoy a variety of things. For me, communication is vital. If lovers can be open about what they want, then go for it and say it. If couples around the world worked on this basic principle, then divorce rates and infidelity would go down a lot, me thinks.

"sploshing".....

Forgive my ignorance, but is that a recognized and well use term among food fetishists? Just curious.
Although I've tended to separate food and sex (a bit like Church and State perhaps...? :-) I must admit I always fancied the idea of being thoroughly basted in gravy and then having it all licked off me by a bevvy of heavy-breasted naked Japanese shrine maidens. Strangely, I never seem to fantasize about the reverse situation, and I'm worried in case this makes me appear selfish. Am I really such a terrible human being? I sometimes lose sleep over it.

Signed
Trevor (Milton Keynes)

LMAO (which, I'm led to believe, is a new expression often used on this new-fangled internet thing).

Aye lasses, they believe in mekkin' that gravy thick enough ter stan' a wooden spoon in oop 'ere.

But if the truth be known, like Rigger, I'm actually from Cumbria (I know, I can't help it). And of course it's a well known fact that Cumberland sausage is the thickest and most succulent in UK :-) Unsure about the gravy, though......

Guys, I think Indepth, Sue and Chris would be very proud of you talking about food...lol...Wait!! Are you talking about food? img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"
Note: I love Yorkshire puddings and gravy. yummy!

Only Cumbrian's could name somewhere, 'Cockermouth' (perhaps it was a wistful, Cartimandua?) and maybe 'Dixon' is the serpent from the Eden Valley!

Hi all, I have many mates that turn there nose up when I talk about going down on my lover or friends sorry if anyone takes offence I just don't understand not loving it my thoughts is if you don't there is two reasons your not into the girl your with or your just not a horny type, it is the best thing in life having great sex with someone you care for or like, to have there bum on your arms their pussy lifted high with your face deep in wet loving pussy feel them shiva with joy is the best I would do it until my jaw and tongue falls off lol Ded if he hasn't done it he not into it simple if he does he want me good at it move on millions more to choose from enjoy Mark

Hi all, I have many mates that turn there nose up when I talk about going down on my lover or friends sorry if anyone takes offence I just don't understand not loving it my thoughts is if you don't there is two reasons your not into the girl your with or your just not a horny type, it is the best thing in life having great sex with someone you care for or like, to have there bum on your arms their pussy lifted high with your face deep in wet loving pussy feel them shiva with joy is the best I would do it until my jaw and tongue falls off lol Ded if he hasn't done it he not into it simple if he does he want me good at it move on millions more to choose from enjoy Mark

I'm a bit confused? I love to lick pussy. I thought all guys liked it. I have been told I sometimes spend to long down below. Is more than 20mins too long?

Chickpea-Sama:

I suspect extrapolating Cockermouth to Cartimandua is stretching it a bit. I think she was based over more towards Penrith.
I always thought she'd have made a good addition to Game of Thrones, forming devious alliances with the Romans and ditching her hubby in favour of her strapping man-at-arms :-)

In view of the fact that Carlisle was probably Camelot, I think Dixon prefers to be equated with Excalibur rather than some floppy anaconda-like object :-)

My experiances see to be the same as knightsy77,
I just love giving oral, if done properly you can have even the most experienced person turned into a quivering wreck, full body oral. Starting at the neck, down to the toes, by the time you get to the inner thigh the body is so sensitive one small lick is enought to cause a massive moan. I love that, and really enjoy the pleasure I give..
I have met a few ladies that don't like oral either but like to give. It seems quite a mix maybe previous experiences have pout them off. I am sure the percentage of men that don't like to give is very low.
Just very unfortunate..

Spot on Marty and by the time they get to the third or fourth orgasm if they are a super horny girl they take a breath then go wild fucking and sucking for the night a it a nice why to receive a thank you lol

Skebbie, you are, of course, quite right about her being based more to the Brigantian east, but what's a little licence eh?! As to Carlisle being Camelot will, I suspect, long be a contentious claim! Are we to believe that Dixon remains locked in a stony vise awaiting a strapping young Dux Bellorum to grasp him by the hilt?!!
Am wondering if your migration to Japan has something to do with the lack of Cumbrian women since most appear to have eloped (taking their mitochondria with them) to Iceland with their new Norse 'Beaus'? Fortunately our Jutish women aren't as fickle or flighty! - and appreciate refined intercourse with a 'cunning linguist' to-boot [as a nod to staying on-topic!] ;-)

omething to d .... obviously a seditious word string posing a threat to the international Establishment hegemony rather than an intelligent algorithm!

MrChick: In fact it was a Cumbrian ex who named Dixon (after a famous towering landmark in Carlisle....qv :-)

But yes, I suspect a number of Brigantean women were partial to a bit of Norse a couple of hundred years down the line from Cartimandua, which is why I'd love to have my DNA tested to see exactly what's there. Not really interested in recent ancestors because they all seemed to be gamekeepers, mole-catchers, ditch-diggers etc. It's the broader genetic background that fascinates.

OIC - you have to take your hat off to the Polynesian sense of ironic word association in cooking the old Cook! Do the legends tell if he was 'well hangi'd'??!

Me old 'Smoke Stack' - probably a good job your Mother wasn't a Glaswegian from Sauchiehall St.who dropped her 'aitches' then!
I too have long been curious as to my deep ancestral genes, however current research seems to suggest that the bulk of Brits share a predominantly Celtic genome and that the Angles, Saxons, Jutes, Danes, Norse, Normans etc. had a pretty limited 'input' as it were. It seems that women from northern Britain did make a significantly disproportionate contribution to the modern Icelandic genepool though - probably got fed up with cooking mole stew day-in, day-out. The exciting promise to 'go viking' on their first date probably meant they didn't bother to go on and read the full profile of ThorBigHammer4U in the personal ads of 'Ditch Diggers Daily'. :-)

I cant even imagine my self having sex without going down. for my self its the most important part in sexual respect, i should say.

MrChick: Your post gave me the best laugh of the day. Thanks for that.

I would so eat your pussy beautiful.I would not cum up for air and have a nice long tounge.and would love to slide deep inside you xxximg src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

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"have a nice long tounge.and would love to slide deep inside you"

Sounds like a scene from Alien.

I FOR ONE LOVE IT AND EVERYTHING ABOUT IT I LOVE FOREPLAY CAN DO IT ALL NIGHT AND YOU LOOK LIKE THE TYPE OF LADY THAT CAN GIVE IT BACK IN THE SAME WAY WOULD LIKE TO TALK MORE img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

Damn...dropping like flies...
Au revoir Lilli G

Debs: Have you been censored too?? (lol)

Any man who won't eat pussy is selfish, unless it's an unkept jungle. Especially if willing to accept a blow job. Personally i luv eatin pussy. Especially when i get treated to a sweet juice x

Censor fairy has been damned busy on this blog....
They have gotta be avin a tin bath, talk about double standards when on other blogs people are posting email addresses....
Grrrrr

C'mon Welcum, you should know the mantra by now - Do as I say, not as I do! They've all but cleared the blogs of any intelligent life, so as far as they are concerned - Job done and all go home for tea. You'll soon be talking to yourself mate and then you'll have to change your moniker to 'Pointlessdistraction'! ;-)

MrChick: The intelligent life has simply gone underground, and from now on will be waging a guerilla campaign - striking where and when the Fairy least expects. Under unfamiliar guises, I will be posting a few blogs with titles much preferred by the Fairy, such as "My butt-plug training diary", "1001 bits of advice about how to be a great swinger" by 23-yr-old big-dik Saeed from Sindh Province, and "Wimmin wonted fr quik meet in Stevunidge Friday", and then suddenly appearing halfway through the thread with something sensible, thus causing maximum confusion. Watch this space...... :-)

Will keep a weather eye out for some cerebral stimulation, Skebbie, but to be honest I am just idly drifting on the current taking my avatar with it until such a time when it disappears down a sink-hole into the stygian depths. I fear 'the regime' will not back-down and I can see in six month's time the site will just be drifting about deep in cyber-space sending exponential numbers of irrelevant auto-messages to itself while it randomly asterisks and deletes into eternity as the blog at the end of the universe. A bit of a case of, 'so long and thanks for all the kippers'.

OIcpl: If you camouflaged your thighs, that would be a great pity :-)

For British beach, Chrissy, picture: shingle interspersed with mud-flats, deckie and wind shelter tucked behind a groyne with thermos flask and gritty sarnies plus knotted hankie on lobster-red wind-burnt head :-)

Camouflaged thighs and with no 'landing strip' you'll be completely lost, Skebbie! ;-)

Fears of a Nazi invasion in 1940 were largely unfounded because they'd all have been decimated by hypothermia before they made it to the top of the shingle :-) Armed with thermoses of hot cocoa, the Brits would have been quite happy just sitting behind groynes and listening to Vera Lynn.

As my eyes are not what they used to be, I have to confess I prefer a well-marked landing strip to ensure a safe docking.

The introduction of several nudist beaches in the UK and the resulting fuss about dirty old perverts lurking about in the dunes was a complete misconception. They were the nemesis of the few remaining old Home Guard who had never left the beach-heads after 1945 since no one had bothered to tell them to stand down in the rush to demob!
Foot note: I believe there are also unconfirmed reported sightings of a few of Godwinson's boys lurking about around Battle to.

Several similar cases involving members of the Japanese Imperial Army were reported in the Philippines in the 1960s :-)

And New Guinea [infamous to the Aussies for the coast 'Watchers' and the Kokoda Trail]

I believe that Nick Clegg has also been spotted behind a lamp post in an old trenchcoat with a thermos, bag of chips and binoculars on the south Embankment.

Debs: This blog thread is the last refuge for that endangered species, "The intelligent veteran blogger". I think David Attenborough managed to pull a few strings, and with a grant from the World Wildlife Fund set up a designated nature reserve that can serve as a sanctuary. The knuckle-draggers can gawp and stare, and sometimes might poke the odd stick through the bars, but they're not allowed to enter for fear of introducing infection: that or getting their hand bitten off :-)

The trouble is there are no wardens to protect said defenseless endangered species against the predation by the poachers armed with their Ctrl+Alt+Delete machetes and like the cetaceans, whose communication is severely disrupted by human noise pollution, so too is that of the few remaining IVBs by the random asterisk and post deletion pollution. The real danger is that the gene pool of the IVBs will become sub-critical leading to a final and terminal extinction. The poachers greed never considers long-term sustainability and are thus the most short-sighted of parasites.

I'm beginning to feel like Cecil the hapless lion :-)
However, this IVB has a few IEDs up his sleeve :-)

Maybe more like Albert's lion then eh?, but mind he doesn't twat you one with that stick "with an' 'orse's head 'andle"! Roll on the insurgency!

cor blimey Mr C...
since when as there been an "h" in 'ead??
c'mon me ol china, use yer loaf!!

Skebbie, ain't an IED a type of contraceptive??
not sure your meant to stick em up yer sleeve either!

Apologies Welcum and you're quite right, but I didn't quite have the heart to drop all my 'Aitches' at once! Mind you I'd be challenged attempting a Lancashire accent at the best of times!

'up yer sleeve' - that's a euphemism I've not come across before? The mind boggles though at the thought that you might, 'roll it up'!

Bonsai.....!!!!!!
Yes I'm going to adopt that as my insurgent's battle charge, as I lunge forward, peppering the Fairy and her minions with IUDs :-)

"Copper 7 to Dalkon Shield, over" "Do the Geneva Conventions permit the use of fairy-armour piercing depleted uranium butt-plug rounds? Over"

MrChick: Hope you stick around, as I must admit I'm warming to you. (Don't worry - I'm straight :-)

OIcpl: While you're thus engaging the Fairy, I'll insert my exploding IUDs. (Have you been watching "Bandits" or " Bonnie and Clyde" lately.....?)

Failing the above, dumb-dumb rounds would be appropriate and should do the trick!

Heads-up: Mr Brown (plus thermos) is off to set up the first ambush on the A21 [and is expecting to rendezvous with the survivors of Harold's men]

Chrissy, if you're 'Keane' you could do a beach landing at Bexhill-on-Sea [Operation 'Sovereign Light' Codeword: 'Cafe']

Damn M.O.D.Quartermaster - that kit was for issue for Brighton Beach! Request you secure the 'The Crowded House' and hold your position and await re-supply in 'The Beautiful South'.

Never in the field of blogging.....
Has so little.....been achieved..... By so many....