Role of Hubby in MFM

That's a fair assessment nicefella and agree with your sentiments.
I can only add that I find it sensuous arousing and very stimulating for all when the lady is held in the arms of one whilst being penetrated by another.
Other than that I agree , it's important to go along with what the couple are looking for. If not compatible, and you have to be true to yourself and them, a polite decline I find saves embarrassment later on.
Ultimately it's about fun and satisfaction for everyone.

It also depends in a MMF threesome, if one or both of the Males is bi it can lead to even more pleasure and enjoyment for all involved, as me, my wife and quite a few other people we have met have found out.

Very interesting blog me thinks often wondered other peoples thoughts x

As a male, I feel, it begins with the desire to give the woman the experience of unequivocal and undivided ‘intimate attention’ of two males, and her being able to have her ‘fun’ with two males at the same time. Of course this line of thought presumes an active participation by both the males (though that doesn't necessarily have to mean an
intercourse with both of them). But then, if you use the phrase ‘MFM threesome’, perhaps the participation of all the three is implicit in it. If one of the males is simply, say, in a voyeur’s role, then perhaps that ‘MFM threesome’ should be called something else.
I am not into dominating anyone or letting anyone dominate me, nor do I have much idea about the dynamics of the ‘cuck-bull’ equation in the MFM scenario. Let others who know better throw a light on those aspects of the MFM scene.
By the way, has anyone noticed that in ‘MFM’ the ‘F’ lies in the middlecentre?! ;)… To me, that position of ‘F’ with the two ‘M’s by its side, itself spells out everything about what an MFM is all about! :D. An MFM is about two males together taking the female to another level of carnal experience. Period.

Aventureux, the MFM is basically the men are not Bi, MMF the men can be bi and play also between themselves.
Really interesting seeing what you all think of this, communication is king, firstly in the couple so that they know what is ok for each other and what the other wants out of this. and then between the couple and the added person.

For us we are really close and know what the other wants and likes, we also communicate with our partners beforehand and once the fun starts we are still very receptive between ourselves, each looking at the other at key moments for permission, and to check how the other is handling the situation.

The first times it can be pretty intense, and a roller coaster of emotions, but in our case Mr is a giving sort of person and loves to please Mrs, and see her pleased, this does not mean that there is a cuckold thing going on, far from it. We have had some good and some bad experiences, one thing that we noticed is that sometimes guys forget that they have a couple in front of them, and that the couple is playing together. So whilst the attention is on the lady it is in a context of a couple seeking new playgrounds and spice.

our two cents ;-0

Openislandcpl, agree with you a hundred percent, actually that could be the subject of a future blog, ;-)
We love the hotwife label, as defined somewhere as being a married women that through agreement is allowed to have sex with other men. Cuckold seems in our eyes to demean the male part of the couple, and this is a big no no in both of our eyes. and we have seen that some singles have a hard time understanding the synergy in a couple that is open to this lifestyle and hence the roles of everyone involved.
As you mentioned it is a hard subject to address is one paragraph ;-) I guess its about respect ;-) Mrs is not a 'Slut' any more than Mr is a 'Cuck'

Go with the flow easy

i am available to try MMF experience

As I was going through the various responses to the blog I happened to notice that nous2bkk has titled it ‘The Role of Hubby in MFM’. Let me take this opportunity to use this platform to address the ladies as the voice of all the ‘straight’ guys here. This is for all the ladies, particularly the ones taking part in the discussion here.
Ladies, we don’t have to be a bi, or a cuck , or a voyeur, to go for the MFM scene! We can do that while being as straight as they come, for the simple reason that we love you and will do what we can for you. We would be dishonest not to admit that we have at some point or the other fantasized the thought of lying between two soft female forms. How and why should we deny you that?! In fact, we are going to go ahead and make this a real experience for you because we love you and want you to experience all the joys possible under the sun. Perhaps on your own you wouldn’t even think of it but it seems like a unique experience, do give it a try. We will be with you all the way.
That then perhaps, is also the approach of the good Mr.cambscouple15 (even though he happens to be ‘bi-curious’). Though I couldn’t fail to notice the chuckle on my good friend’s face as he thinks ‘as soon as we are alone I will reap the rewards of the encounter’ :D. (am sure he means ‘more rewards’ ;) ). But trust me, my dear friend is not sly at all; he just loves his woman from the bottom of his heart and he gets his primary ‘high’ from the joy he sees on his lady’s face. My guess is he will mostly go for a guy who agrees with ‘nicefellaxx’ that ‘at the end of the day, it's all about the lady getting what she wants’.
I believe the above is the approach of quite a few ‘straight’ husbands going into the MFM scene (I suppose that truly applies to the ‘hot-wife’ scene with the lovely pair openislandcpl) . That approach self-defines their role. Guess that also takes of what nous2bkk said ‘Mrs is not a 'Slut' any more than Mr is a 'Cuck'
And yes, it has to ALWAYS to be with respect.

the worst thing about having a hot wife is that nothing seems to fill the void,(the love of my life passed away 2 12 years ago now )the thing that is messing with me is that we had a wild and wonderful 18 yrs together mmmf ,fmf ,ffmm, tried most things but now dont know where to start ,the thing is i have been seeing someone new (although more dinner with benifit's)and i want to broach the subject of getting back into the swing of things but not sure how she would respond to me asking if she would like to try having a 3 or 4 some .maybe see if she would like to try 2 guys making love to her ,not just banging the crap out of her.but making things nice for her, once its in your blood you cant get it out of your system ,well thats what the late mrs A used to say after we had started meeting other couples ,and i agree totally with her view as she was a little apprehensive the first time but that was what she said got her turned on most was the day leading up to our sessions with MR & MRS G (whom we used to catch up with at least once a month for about 10 years ) that is what i want again with someone else when the time is right because too much 1 on 1 gets stale i am affraid to say.and here's a little ad on from one of the other blog things the best porn to have on is just put the video camera on to your own t.v(telly type of t.v) leave the tape out if you feel more comfortable that way but beats any big budget porn hands down watching a live show featuring yourselves and swinging with the same couple for so long it removed a lot of barriers we had before about not coming inside or swallowing etc ..,with others but what are you supposed to do when she finishes you off after being inside mrs G then watching mr G do the same as she swallowed both of us down without missing a drop from either of us (mrs G didn't swallow she liked to feel it on her body instead so mr G was a very happy man when that first happened to him) mrs A took to the swinging like a duck to water after being so nervous to start with about what was going to happen after only seeing the females in porno's getting treated like shit most of the time during a 3or4 some ,we even had an acceptance that if the wrong time of the month came round for 1 of the 2 ladies (thank god it never happened at the same time with either mrs G or mrs A or it might have been me and mr G ) we still took care of things while we had an audience camera operator so we could watch it on t.v while having our fun with the other lady ,i will never forget the time mrs G just wanted us to swap places about every few minutes it felt like i came inside her 4 maybe 5 times only to have myself sucked clean and almost back to hard each time i came and watching mrG getting the same treatment as myself and mrs G all dripping and gaping open but still wanting more mrs A said we came 11 times inside mrs G that night only to be sucked back to life by mrs A ready to go again when mr G had come in her ,there is little like having your wife holding your cock and guiding it into another woman with a come filled pussy while going about cleaning the come and pussy juices off the other one working it back to throbbing hard like she could do so well ,or like the time she had her first D.P sitting cowgirl on mr G ,no mrs G for some reason that weekend she had to wait til the next weekend,any way she was not a big lover of anal but used to get the urge every now and then ,anyways she was sitting cowgirl on mr G while i was licking her pussy and just getting so into it then she asked me to get inside her as well ,after a bit of manouvering she lifted her legs exposing herself with mr G's10 inches maybe a little more buried to his balls as she ground down on him stretching her ass i started to ease myself into her pussy which was so wet but not as wet as it was going to be soon,as she ground mr G deep up her ass and i was watching down as i pushed into her slowly and forcefully feeling horny as hell ,until i could go no deeper ,seeing mine and my friend filling her up with 18 20 inches made my cock grow even harder ,then all hell broke loose i saw her watching the t.v with her as the star impaled on us ,when she shook,her eyes rolled back,and boy did she come like never before i thought she was going to faint or pass out her eyes looked like they were going to pop out of her head ,every time one of us pushed deep into her she came and came until it became one huge orgasm with every stroke we made or she ground out of her sweet body before i came all over her tits and face in gushing bucket loads ,she then lifted off mr G and she knelt in front of him still dripping my come on her face and tits ,licking his straining cock and balls she brought him to a huge climax over her tits ,belly face,in her hair until there was nothing left of him to give ,(for a short while) while she knelt and rubbed our mixed come juice into her body ,and as she said just enjoying being covered in our come as she let it dry on her face,neck and any that she did not rub in or lick off herself as she slowly got her breath back as did we all ready to have a quick shower and start again ,that was a good weekend we started playing around at about 8pm friday and didn't finish until sunday evening ,and she said she still wanted more as she was tingling inside and all i could think of was her coming and coming with us both buried inside her sweet holes and the look as she watched herself getting filled before covering herself from the waist up with our come and the come in her hair ,on her arms neck,tits and face oh what a sight ,mrs G got hers the next weekend but thats another story for another time ,so that is who i am hoping to find again someone with the same clarity and drive for pleasure .

generally hubby work as facilitator or some times sit end enjoy this is my exp in mfm

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Gnerally, the hubby can participate actively in the scene or he can choose to enjoy his wife getting screwed by another stud..

For me  it's more wot the others want or Feel comfortable with??  
I love to tease an spoil the female and I don't Mind if the male wants me to play with him or if we all take turns at bn the focus of the  See who's the most amazing Slutty playmate 

As a 3rd joining a couple I really want to know what the couple likes, how having a 3rd elevates and intensifys their experience.  The big turn on for me is knowing that me being in the mix is a turn on for them!  So if they like me to take a lead or dominant role then I will do that, if the male likes to play director and dictate terms then that is what I will do.  It is important to remember I am there for them....when that is clear and everyone knows what everyone wants...thats when great nights happen!

I enjoyed threesom because I love fucking the wife while the husband watches

I have had the pleasure of being a third wheel several times before. My main aim when asked to join a couple in MFM is to help the couple fulfill their fantasy. I keep an open mind and know that I am there to help and not to take over, unless given permission by the hubby. I've had no hang ups before and hope to keep that record intact. 

I have had the pleasure of being a third wheel several times before. My main aim when asked to join a couple in MFM is to help the couple fulfill their fantasy. I keep an open mind and know that I am there to help and not to take over, unless given permission by the hubby. I've had no hang ups before and hope to keep that record intact.  Bottom line -- make an effort to know what the couple wants from you before you jump into bed

Well, the extra person should always remember that they have been invited into the couples fantasy. It is most definitely a privilege that you are the chosen person, well really you're a real to feel sexual aid really. A bit of homework with the hubby first and you'll be able to slot right in. A big must to remember that the lady is a goddess, not a working girl. 

I've been in several MFM situations as well as 2 couples where the men take on one woman at a time.  Every situation is different, but I agree with most others who have commented, that the single male has been invited as his role is to give the couple their fantasy.  Trust me, he will get his jollies at the end, it'll all work out.  But the woman is not a working girl, but a woman who has needs and wants, and needs to be treated like a goddess!  That's been my experience for the most part.  I've never had a bad situation where someone got upset, we just worked it out and went with what felt right and what they wanted.  🙂