A Kiss is Just a Kiss

1:13 pm Saturday, 10^th October, 2015

You must remember this
A kiss is just a kiss, a sigh is just a sigh
The fundamental things apply
As time goes by

There are been blogs about kisses before. There have been some excellent ones. Let’s face it—kissing is fun.

(Sometimes).

Yes, there are those whose lips are so slack or that are so slobbery, you feel like you’ve put your face into a bowl of melting gelatine. There are the ones with bad breath—ew. There are the ones that you intend to be a quick peck on the cheek but that somehow go horribly awry when he turns at the wrong moment.

But there are also the ones that make my hands wander into his jacket, that force my fingers to run lightly up his sides, the kisses that pull my hands around to his back, dig my fingers in and pull him so close that we dance a lover’s dance whether it’s in private or on a busy street corner, with no care as to who sees or has to step into the street to walk around us.

There are the kisses that end with hands in hair, pulling back my head to expose my neck for lips along my jawline, or for me to graze my face in rough stubble.

Kissing. The first step....or is it?

When is a kiss a signal of more to come and when is it—simply a kiss?

I’ve kissed quite a few frogs in life, and I’ve kissed one or two princes. Most often it leads to nothing more. I happen to love kissing. But do I give the wrong signal when I kiss someone goodbye, even if it is sans wandering hands? I like to think that my words are taken into account....when I say I’m interested, but not enough to pursue this more (or yes---I want more), and that the kiss is simply a parting gift, but maybe in my selfishness in wanting a smooch I overlook the fact that it may be what is heard the loudest.

Sigh. I may have to start fasting here, give up the lip contact and find another oral fix to satisfy my cravings.

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	7:54 pm Saturday, 10^th October, 2015 luvtodom i have had kisses that sent sparks through my feet, that tore away every bit of breath, and made me feel as i was freshly fevered.
	4:23 am Sunday, 11^th October, 2015 Fetch1 As you've quoted a song from the film Casablanca Aphrodite,here's another famous one from Gentlemen Prefer Blondes " A kiss on the hand may be quite Continental, but diamonds are a girl's best friend " One of the nicest kisses I received was when I arrived at an airport and was embraced by a friend,just because we were pleased to see each other at last ( if you know what I mean ) xx Miss Valiant. When you come to slap me across the face with a wet fish,could you please at least make it one which I like.Salmon,Rainbow Trout, Sardine ( charcoal grilled if possible ).Even a Kipper or an Arbroath Smokie would be good, xx
	8:46 am Sunday, 11^th October, 2015 freeforpleasure I could write pages and pages about kisses. There is nothing more sensual, more intimate, more arousing and exciting as a kiss for me. Now, a good kiss is like dancing a tango. You need two and synchronization is vital, but also passion and sparks. To find the right partner is the big task :) What I love about kisses is the anticipation. That first kiss. All the journey before it. The moment when you still do not know if they other person wants to kiss u. The subtle touches, the subtle brushing, the whispers. The moment you know you will kiss. Looking at each other's lips. How dry they get, your pulse quickening, your heart pounding. Finally, locking and getting lost. So answering your question Erotic. Yes, I like kisses but I don't kiss without meaning more. Kissing someone is like a signal, a huge one that I want more, and I always kiss because I really want and desire. Therefore, I guess it is clear for them unless I am vocal and say no. I guess It could happen especially if the kiss does not feel right or the person who I kiss also feels the same. Wow, now I am craving for a kiss img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif"
	9:21 am Sunday, 11^th October, 2015 hertspair11 love a kiss, so sensual, erotic mmm
	12:20 pm Monday, 12^th October, 2015 IvorEalname You hit the nail on the head there EG. A great kiss is one to be remembered fondly and thought highly of (irrespective of the circumstances or outcome).
	5:35 pm Wednesday, 14^th October, 2015 Skebbie A "baggage claim" kiss is among the best there is. White heat........urgent sensations that will be shortly addressed...... :-)
	10:02 pm Thursday, 15^th October, 2015 69Curiouscouple2 Question. When hooking up with someone for a threesome do you and your partner kiss the third person or is kissing a no no for the third person. My husband and I are wanting to try a threesome but I'm not sure I like the idea of him kissing another woman. I feel ok with him having sex with someone with me though. I have lots of questions about the life style and not sure where to find the answers. Any input would be nice.
	2:11 am Friday, 16^th October, 2015 Skebbie I think we might have covered this one before. I've always been baffled by the rationale that kissing is more "intimate and personal" than penetrative sex. I mean what could be more "intimate and personal" than shoving your engorged todger into an eagerly receptive pussy? It makes kissing seem almost as polite as raising your little finger while drinking a cup of tea :-) Seriously, though, as far as I'm concerned, kissing is an essential part of sexual activity, both before, during and after. If I can't kiss, I can't "function": it's as simple as that. I have a need to feel a passionate response - to feel desired, if you like. If a woman turns her head away and just wants me to get on with it, then I feel I'm on pretty barren ground. OK I realize that some blokes might not be exactly ideal kissing partners: maybe they smell of drink, smoke, halitosis or have a row of yellow-stained caries-riddled incisors :-) But I'd have thought such partners would fall at the wayside during the vetting process. After all, most of us (I would have thought) spend a long time exchanging mails and photos until we are satisfied we've got someone with whom we can share everything. Perhaps it's the less selective among us, such as the doggers and the orgy enthusiasts, who suddenly find themselves face to face with something less than appealing at the "top end" after they have based their partner selection on what's at the "bottom end" :-)
	6:00 am Friday, 16^th October, 2015 Skebbie "like revving up the engine on a sexy motorcycle that has no wheels" What an excellent similie :-) Must use it more often in conversation. xx
	6:03 am Friday, 16^th October, 2015 Skebbie Postscript: Mind you.....I've sometimes had encounters where the "top end" experience was considerably more appetizing than what transpired at the "bottom end"..... :-)
	8:56 am Friday, 16^th October, 2015 Welcumdstraction A sensual, almost desperate and passionate kiss, One of those where you both revert to animal instinct and all inhibitions are thrown to the wind.. When the sexual tension has built and you both suddenly realise you want the same thing. Those types of kisses.....few and far between but always worth the wait. A passionate kiss and a spiders web have one thing in common, They both lead to the undoing of a fly.
	9:09 am Friday, 16^th October, 2015 Skebbie Welcum: Never heard that one, but if it was your own, then very well done (applause) :-)
	7:56 pm Friday, 16^th October, 2015 maggiebear We very much agree with Skebbie's commentary on the subject that kissing is a necessary part of any intimate get together. It's usually what starts the engines revving as put by OPENISLANDCPL.. If there's no kissing then there's simply no connecting for us. Total deal breaker. Just can't see how a person could penetrate a person or be penetrated and that's less intimate than kissing.

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