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Pics and other deal breaker

7:25 am Tuesday, 6th October, 2015

Right off the bat let's confess, I'm an exhibitionist. I get wet thinking guys and girls get turned on by looking at our pics fucking and swinging. It's why we have over 600 pics...

WHY NO PICS?
People are attracted to people with similar likings. So profiles with loads of pics are more interesting to us than profiles with only a few. We never consider a profile without pics.

We understand people have privacy or theft issues. We have a simple rule: no clear full face on any of our public pics. Pics with face clearly visible are private and reserved only for those we decide to send to via message.

MORE PICS PLEASE
Combining these two ideas, I HATE people sending us messages asking to post more pictures yet they have none on their profile... and even if they do, how long did it take you to go over our entire album that you're already thirsty for more?

If you count yourselves into this category, we'd much rather hear WHAT youd like to see us do. That way we are getting off thinking you'll be pleased when we satisfy your desire. It's a two-way street.

WHAT MAKES A PROFILE LOOK SERIOUS AND WORTH CONSIDERATION?

For me ,the filter goes like this:
1- proximity
People asking to meet when they live thousands of miles away is just an indicator of your IQ. People mentioning travel interests are a different story.
2- pics
As mentioned above
3- guestbook notes
When you have proof of swinging, makes us feel it won't be a waste of our time. Much better with pics of said experience. Same goes for girls being bi.
4- sexual orientation (husband is straight so even cbi-urious males are a no-no)
Hubby was caught in a melle once where he was eating pussy only to look down and see a dude sucking his cock. Completely ruined the mood for him. It's just something he's not into.
A true bisexual girl is very very sought after.

So, what are your views on pics and or other deal-breakers?



Comments
10:14 am Tuesday, 17th November, 2015

i am big fan of your .. i always nail it ..

10:15 am Tuesday, 17th November, 2015

i am sorry u always nail it ,, love your pictures

10:06 am Friday, 22nd July, 2016

I love being naked and seeing women naked I'd share photos with you anytime I'll even take request as to what you want to see

8:12 am Friday, 16th June, 2017

Woww very good pic..nicely pic

10:41 pm Sunday, 18th June, 2017

Love to be naked and love to share pictures. I am new to this so I have know one to take pictures 

11:31 am Monday, 19th June, 2017

Excellent read thankyou, as somebody very green to the game its got some good pointers thankyou

10:58 am Wednesday, 21st June, 2017

Great i will send you  some pictrs 

8:00 am Friday, 23rd June, 2017

I agree with the no pics thing. A deal breaker for us is when someone puts 'prefer not to say' on their profile - this is not a place to be coy! 

5:45 pm Friday, 23rd June, 2017

i agree with everything......thank you for those amazing  pics

4:02 pm Sunday, 9th July, 2017

Indeed, pictures are worth more than 1000 words and sadly, many of the images I see on here are supposed to be alluring and sexy, but they are not.  It does not take any more time to take a good picture than a bad one.  That last shot you have in your blog is quite wonderful in that it shows all it needs to show, blurs out the identities, but is also very enticing.  I am sure there are lots of people that would love to fine themselves in the same position doing the same things regardless of what role they might fall into of those three people.  I think I would like to be the one standing, but being ridden is also quite wonderful.  What that image shows is a very powerful moment in a glorious sexual experience that will live on in the memories of the participants for a very long time...perhaps forever.

1:49 pm Tuesday, 11th July, 2017

Chemistry and attraction are key. Bottom line, no attraction, no hope!  Its great to make friends but let's get real. We are all here for very similar reasons, there needs to be an attraction, or even the thought of attraction. Its what fantasies are made of. No pic, well, message all you wish. That's all it will be.

4:44 am Sunday, 20th August, 2017

Dirty adult FUN and WANTING to feel play time

7:01 am Saturday, 26th August, 2017

i was curious you two are great that would for me to i like threesomes mfm but we work on her i do not touch him he does not thouch me iwas wanting to learnmore thank you

3:31 pm Sunday, 27th August, 2017

Very well written. You express see my view point.

7:37 am Wednesday, 6th September, 2017

I love the way you write. Impressive one.

11:43 am Sunday, 10th September, 2017

true, and i wish me and my girl will get real swinger partner in this site

12:20 pm Wednesday, 4th October, 2017

I agree, True Bisexual Girls or Lesbians are really a rare breed here. The Site Owners should take special marketing initiatives to get more females from Asia and specially India to get on this site. Also a major problem is that there is no moderation in the chatroom

12:47 am Wednesday, 11th October, 2017

I love pics especially with fresh cum dripping out that turns my crank. Was at party and couple had been fucking like mad when finished she stood up and the cum drooled down her legs covered he pussy damn

2:40 pm Wednesday, 11th October, 2017

I love your writing, I know it shouldn't but the profiles without pictures really bug the crapp out of me, especially when they state they're here to meet people.  Sorry appearance is huge! I really think it's pretty cowardly myself. Those who post nudes or action shots, video, live cam, I understand. But those who log on to browse and kinda hope to meet somebody show us who you are otherwise I'm going to assume you look like something the cat drug in!

11:23 am Wednesday, 1st November, 2017

Greetings, I am new here and have taken a full 12 months. So far I have been targeted by 
Girls that claim they are here, but are in another country. I also get approached by girls, wanting me to message them, They think my profile, is amazing. Yeah right. I reply and then nothing. I am going to go down the blog path. I have a story to tell. And a story that is yet to be created from an imagination that is fantastic. Let's see how that goes for me... 
Enjoy, WestieRogue

6:01 pm Saturday, 4th November, 2017

Great words ! 👍

7:58 pm Tuesday, 7th November, 2017

legit deal breakers

10:52 am Friday, 10th November, 2017

Need to have a look at all your 600 pics!

9:24 pm Friday, 29th December, 2017

We think the same, I think you have described the points perfectly. Let the exhibition be alive💏

7:59 am Monday, 1st January, 2018

We will also not meet anyone who does not have pictures, but mostly we won't meet people who don't have any pics of him or won't send any. All the girls on here are sexy, but we are so over meeting people where he turns out to be obese, or 20 years older than they said. One couple claimed he was 53 and when we met thought it was funny when they admitted her was 73. We all love pics of sexy girls, but if you have not even one of him, what are you hiding?  If your looking for a 3some with a guy that's fine, if your looking for a couple, give some thought to her.

1:36 am Thursday, 8th February, 2018

totally agree with you

3:55 pm Sunday, 11th February, 2018

Pics are mandatory. 

11:21 am Wednesday, 14th February, 2018

Very nice

11:11 pm Wednesday, 28th February, 2018

hi

8:06 am Friday, 2nd March, 2018

Very good topic. Fully agree with your view that don't have right to ask for more pics when don't have any pics in their profile

8:24 pm Saturday, 7th April, 2018

Lover it

8:00 am Tuesday, 10th April, 2018

I couldn’t agree more. I’d go so far as adding people who send line requests despite not having information in their profile or describing themselves a little before making the request.  It seems some people just assume that everyone is desperate and will jump into bed with everyone

12:49 pm Thursday, 12th April, 2018

we would love to swap a few pics and see where the interest leads.

6:34 pm Friday, 8th June, 2018

Would love to see more pics love it

11:26 am Saturday, 9th June, 2018

Even more annoying than no picture? People with one or none who ask for more!

11:29 am Saturday, 9th June, 2018

Unbelievable of the last five people who have agreed  with you 3 have one picture, one has 3 pictures and one doesn't even have a picture but agrees with you, can they not see its them you are talking about?

1:10 pm Monday, 11th June, 2018

I like what you have said but I only have a profile pic as I haven't had any luck so far so if I did have any pics I have no problem posting them

10:04 pm Thursday, 14th June, 2018

i totally understand where your coming from and i consider myself to be a open minded person that there are many people with different sexual desires like bi,strait,gay, abdl,transgender. and with some pics some people may not like to see ? 

7:01 am Tuesday, 19th June, 2018

Hi, are you open to a nude photo shoot, I'm looking for models for next years calendar. Artistic only nothing seedy. If yes message me for details. Cheers 

8:31 pm Tuesday, 19th June, 2018

As my profile correctly says, I’m very new to this and it was quite a big deal for me in joining the site let alone adding a full face pic and ‘outing’ myself. 

5:26 am Wednesday, 20th June, 2018

There is a big difference in a " full face pic" and putting up no pictures at all! We have around 50 pictures and not one face picture. This site is full of people who are here surfing around enjoying other peoples pictures, even adding people like us to their hot list, while giving back nothing. We wish there was a option to block people who don't have profile pictures from looking at ours. Any one with out pictures goes on our block list.

9:14 am Thursday, 28th June, 2018

hi

8:18 am Friday, 13th July, 2018

I've only recently joined the site.  .that being said. I have to say very well written.  I agree, I feel that I'd you are going to ask for pics there should be at least a few on your page. 

7:35 pm Sunday, 15th July, 2018

I frequently chat with people who don't answer simple questions that you have asked them about themselves. They give hardly any details after you have sent them a paragraph or two with your dets. I just don't get it. Very annoying lol.

10:26 am Wednesday, 22nd August, 2018

If your so high profile people recognise you naked with out a face shot, it wouldn't matter if you were recognised. How could any one possibly know who you are if its just your body? unless you have been naked a lot and so would not matter.  Seriously stop making excuses for not putting up pictures. Next time you see a profile with pictures have some morals and don't look.  

10:38 pm Tuesday, 28th August, 2018

Hello h2w2, I agree! When a profile has no pics, it's a shot in the dark as to what U might be getting. It's one of those things where having a good "personality" doesn't necessarily override the physical attraction. Another thing I find very frustrating is that MANY people on this site simply don't read their mail! I've sent mssgs to many different members & wondered why I never got a reply. Then I discovered the reason - They never even LOOKED at it! It makes me wonder if I'm wasting my time here & if it's even worth sending any more. Thoughts about this, anyone?

5:22 pm Saturday, 22nd September, 2018

Hi,Wanda here.I also get a lot of got more pics!!.When they have none and say they are x dresser.I won't give them any and ask to see some of them before showing more of myself.My pics are of myself and not using someone else's photo.If someone is not willing to have pics in their profile,i don't waste my time pursuing a conversation with them.Also someone with a dick for a profile pic makes me look else where.Just my 2 cents. 

2:19 am Tuesday, 2nd October, 2018

I agree with you and you're writing.  I am most shocked by, "Hubby was caught in a melle once where he was eating pussy only to look down and see a dude sucking his cock. Completely ruined the mood for him.".  This type of thing should never happen.  Communication before hand is important to establish limits. You're limits, that is what is off-limits must be communicated before getting naked. Also, don't discount the male that lists himself as bi or bi-curious.  He is honest and will honor your limits. 

9:34 am Monday, 8th October, 2018

Discover your blog for the girst time... i like it! Keep on sharing your mind and pics... makes me happy

2:30 pm Wednesday, 28th November, 2018

I don't think so women's and girls get excited while seeing porn pics or nude pics

1:12 pm Wednesday, 19th December, 2018

There is no way even your family could tell for sure who it is if you do not have a face picture. All the people claiming they are too well known, think everyone else must be retarded. No picture not even worth reading.

10:29 am Friday, 21st December, 2018

Hi there

7:54 am Thursday, 10th January, 2019

Great blog.For me its  people that don't make any effort to be personal. And repeatedly send a message out that is pre written by the site. That say they are interested and to get back to them. And they send another prewritten message. Love all the pictures. I'm a single man and it's tough to find couples that want to play . Thank for the profile and the blog. Stay beautiful.

7:36 pm Sunday, 13th January, 2019

Photos  are a must at some point. I understand career concerns. It is unfortunate that what people do consensually and legally, excluding any outdated Puritan laws, should have any bearing on one's livelihood and career. 
Deal-breakers or frustrations:
1. no photos and NO physical description. I had one sent me message to check out her profile and respond if I saw anything I liked. There was no photo, no description, only 'Come and get it daddy.' ???? What the flamingo?
2. No response after the other person initiated contact. Please help me understand why someone will look at my profile, like my profile, send me a message, and then never respond after I reply expressing interest. I understand that if I initiate contact, that person may not respond because I am not their ideal match. 
3. Initial contacts with an email. Probably up to no good.

2:25 pm Friday, 18th January, 2019

The whole idea that once you’ve started a blow job you must see it through to the bitter (or salty) end is – in my opinion – one of the key things likely to prevent someone from enjoying blow jobs. Sucking dick isn’t easy: it’s something that takes time, communication, practice, effort, and sometimes it makes your jaw hurt a bit. If you, like me, enjoy these things, you’ll probably enjoy sucking dick. But if you don’t, then these things are tantamount to doing homework or household chores – some oxymoronic sex-hating ‘sexpert’ telling you that you have to stick with it anyway is only going to make you less – not more – likely to want to do it again in future.

11:56 pm Sunday, 20th January, 2019

I’m. Intreged to say the least x

9:34 am Thursday, 24th January, 2019

This is the best blog entry I've read yet. All your point hit every major point on the head! Great read. 

3:10 am Tuesday, 5th February, 2019

I agree. Pics are a must but I shy away from nude pics of me. Cause frankly it's not a turn on for me to see me naked. I guess I just dont it for me. Haha. With that said I'm gonna go check out your pics and yes I'll more than likely be "using" them. So thanks in advance. Peace

12:13 pm Tuesday, 5th February, 2019

some times I have to get on my knees to get my foot in the door...Stephanie

8:46 am Thursday, 18th April, 2019

😊😊😊😊

12:54 pm Monday, 29th April, 2019

Totally agree with what you have said. Well done and stick to your rules, they are the same as ours.

6:26 pm Friday, 3rd May, 2019

like it all

3:15 pm Thursday, 23rd May, 2019

In most cases I think 'less is more' as if it's all out there, there's nothing to differentiate your profile than from a porn site.
The other thing is the only pic we, as classic members can see is your one profile pic so you could well be the exception to that rule of course! lol x 

9:32 pm Thursday, 23rd May, 2019

For me even if they don't have a profile photo, i understand the reason why, but if they haven't made any effort with their profile description to make up for not having a photo, then i don't send them a message. Just a little bit of effort goes a long way with me.

7:41 am Tuesday, 25th June, 2019

Good to know

10:56 am Wednesday, 26th June, 2019

yes sounds great. let’s meet and have a good time. 

7:54 am Monday, 22nd July, 2019

real pics really needed.. thats how trust begins and lets you decide your desire pleasure

3:19 pm Tuesday, 17th September, 2019

My wife loves when people watch us fuck she gets super wet and even louder 

7:47 pm Friday, 25th October, 2019

I want to see who I talking to or searching for. You ask us.. why cant u provide us with yours?

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