Where have all the good men gone, and where are all the gods?

8:51 pm Thursday, 27^th August, 2015

We’ve all known an Adonis, I think, or at least admired one from afar. Bacchus figures prominently in many of our lives, and the unfortunate among us have been involved with an Ares. Only the fortunate, though, have known an Eros.

I’m not talking the silly, mischievous god of love (the Roman Cupid), who causes a bit of havoc in the word with shenanigans of occasionally epic proportions. I refer to the adult god who embodies sexual power of the early Greek influence.

Eros, in tune with a woman’s body to the extent that he knows not only how to move, but when; when to slow down, even stop, when to move faster, where he will have the most effect.

It seems to me that, while many men try to put a woman first in terms of enjoying the physical side of things, most fall just that tiny bit short of doing much more than pumping away to their heart’s content, unaware that the potential for ever increasing climax is part of the game for his partner.

I’ve been lucky enough to have known a few men of the Eros archetype. I thought it was experience, I thought it was the culture from which the first man of this type came from. I wasn’t naive enough to think it was love, that first time oh so many years ago, simply that we clicked in such a way that, quite literally, the heavens moved. The second time, I put it down to his vast knowledge of women’s bodies.

More recently, however, I found myself with an Eros of a younger age, quite young in fact, and it set me to wondering how a man of his age and limited experience could know how to move in the way he did.

MAYBE it’s not all experience? Maybe some men just KNOW.

Which brings me to my real intention in writing this blog, title notwithstanding.

WHAT makes a woman good in bed, what brings out the goddess???? (no, I’m not referring to my name, that’s just a name, after all)

I’ve heard that it’s all about a woman knowing what she wants and not being afraid to say it. I‘ve heard that it’s about confidence. But I want to know....what does she do that is so enticing and amazing that you know you’ve just met the goddess of your dreams? IS there anything in particular?

So the question here tonight is:

Have you met your sex god/goddess, and what makes him/her so?

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	9:20 pm Thursday, 27^th August, 2015 Welcumdstraction Sexual goddess, you definitely know one when you finaly meet her. Not gonna do any kiss and tell, definitely not my style, But all i will say is that she is very very giving, always wanting to please and knowing exactly how to do so.
	9:22 pm Thursday, 27^th August, 2015 doktorzook I met a sex goddess a few years ago...and was fortunate enough to spend some quality naked time with her! She knew what she wanted, how to get it...but almost most importantly didn't take it all too seriously and had a great sense of fun, which it's all about in the end isn't it? There was nothing submissive or dominant about either of us, we mutually wanted the same thing so both got it! Does that help?
	9:25 pm Thursday, 27^th August, 2015 doktorzook As to where have all the good men gone...dunno, I just worry about myself. They are all big boys and can look after themselves, I'm sure they'll be back when they're hungry!
	5:06 am Friday, 28^th August, 2015 Fetch1 Aphrodite. I think I was the first one to give you that soubriquet and your earthly manifestation did not disappoint !I have bumped into several Goddesses of note,Hygea the Goddess of health,Minerva,the Goddess of Wisdom and Artemis,the Goddess of the Hunt ( although she ran too fast for me to catch her ! ) I can't say however that my meetings with Nemisis, the Goddess of Fate and Retribution evoke many happy memories. That's all I have to say now, some guy called Daedylus has bet me that I couldn't fly to the Sun and I'm off to try it !
	5:09 am Friday, 28^th August, 2015 Skebbie In all honesty, I think that whether or not a sexual connection rises above the mundane and becomes memorable is dependent on mutual compatibility. It's not down to one of the sexual partners having "special powers" or "unique insight". If sex is leaving you breathless with joy and lust, and gives you pleasure you haven't experienced in years, it probably means that your new partner just happens to be making all the right moves to turn on all your own unique, individual, personal responses. Sexual compatibility is a random process. There is no set formula. What one man (or woman) can elicit in one partner may be only partly reproducible - or lacking - in another. Relaxed confidence is clearly important, but that is only the foundation. I reckon a lot of it is down to pure anatomy. To give a crude example, just because a bloke might have a massive cock, it doesn't necessarily mean he will be a god in bed for every woman. Pleasure that is derived from the penetrative part of the sexual palette has a lot to do with which internal parts are being reached, touched and stimulated, and the distribution of sensory nerve endings down there is hugely diverse: not all men and women are the same. That's why it can sometimes take a lifetime to find the most truly ideal sexual partner. I suppose if I had to think about the best experiences I've had during my life, it was with women who were an ideal "fit" for me anatomically, those who didn't hold back and were enthusiastic about vocalizing their feelings (it's always a joy to get encouragement because it tells a man he's doing something right), and those for whom passionate kissing continued throughout the whole lovemaking process. When two people find they have that wonderful compatibility, it's easy to find yourselves in that special zone where the outside world becomes blurred and you become attuned and sensitive to thousands of subtle physical and emotional minutiae. It's a zone that you want to stay in, and there's no rush towards completion; time seems to stand still for a while. Delivering that is not down to one person; it's a form of synergy that only two compatible partners can create together.
	6:00 am Friday, 28^th August, 2015 freeforpleasure Skibbie, I could not agree more. I will also add that there are also the big factors of desire and just pure chemistry. I am sure you can find someone who is great in bed but it would be truly heaven and special when there are also those elements that make it more than just sex. Furthermore, I am sure that some people share specific things that they would enjoy and meet others who just enjoy the same. This site definitely helps in that aspect. At the end of the day, what could it be better than to have an intimate moment with someone who turns on your mind, your body and who connects with you in a different level. Eroticgodess: Great blog! Kisses xxx
	7:05 am Friday, 28^th August, 2015 Welcumdstraction Cheers Dr Skebbie for bursting my bubble of sexual illusion!!! And for a short while i had thought i had found myself an angel of sex, But in reality, she reaches the parts that other women cannot reach. Damn, and it had started as such a good morning..... Seems theres nothing else left, off to join a monestry now.
	12:44 am Saturday, 29^th August, 2015 Welcumdstraction Sassy, I think the poet laureate himself would struggle to have written it better than the good Dr Skebbie

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