We’ve all known an Adonis, I think, or at least admired one from afar. Bacchus figures prominently in many of our lives, and the unfortunate among us have been involved with an Ares. Only the fortunate, though, have known an Eros.
I’m not talking the silly, mischievous god of love (the Roman Cupid), who causes a bit of havoc in the word with shenanigans of occasionally epic proportions. I refer to the adult god who embodies sexual power of the early Greek influence.
Eros, in tune with a woman’s body to the extent that he knows not only how to move, but when; when to slow down, even stop, when to move faster, where he will have the most effect.
It seems to me that, while many men try to put a woman first in terms of enjoying the physical side of things, most fall just that tiny bit short of doing much more than pumping away to their heart’s content, unaware that the potential for ever increasing climax is part of the game for his partner.
I’ve been lucky enough to have known a few men of the Eros archetype. I thought it was experience, I thought it was the culture from which the first man of this type came from. I wasn’t naive enough to think it was love, that first time oh so many years ago, simply that we clicked in such a way that, quite literally, the heavens moved. The second time, I put it down to his vast knowledge of women’s bodies.
More recently, however, I found myself with an Eros of a younger age, quite young in fact, and it set me to wondering how a man of his age and limited experience could know how to move in the way he did.
MAYBE it’s not all experience? Maybe some men just KNOW.
Which brings me to my real intention in writing this blog, title notwithstanding.
WHAT makes a woman good in bed, what brings out the goddess???? (no, I’m not referring to my name, that’s just a name, after all)
I’ve heard that it’s all about a woman knowing what she wants and not being afraid to say it. I‘ve heard that it’s about confidence. But I want to know....what does she do that is so enticing and amazing that you know you’ve just met the goddess of your dreams? IS there anything in particular?
So the question here tonight is:
Have you met your sex god/goddess, and what makes him/her so?
9:20 pm Thursday, 27th August, 2015
Welcumdstraction
Sexual goddess, you definitely know one when you finaly meet her.
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9:22 pm Thursday, 27th August, 2015
doktorzook
I met a sex goddess a few years ago...and was fortunate enough to spend some quality naked time with her!
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9:25 pm Thursday, 27th August, 2015
doktorzook
As to where have all the good men gone...dunno, I just worry about myself. They are all big boys and can look after themselves, I'm sure they'll be back when they're hungry! |
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5:06 am Friday, 28th August, 2015
Fetch1
Aphrodite. I think I was the first one to give you that soubriquet and your earthly manifestation did not disappoint !I have bumped into several Goddesses of note,Hygea the Goddess of health,Minerva,the Goddess of Wisdom and Artemis,the Goddess of the Hunt ( although she ran too fast for me to catch her ! ) I can't say however that my meetings with Nemisis, the Goddess of Fate and Retribution evoke many happy memories.
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5:09 am Friday, 28th August, 2015
Skebbie
In all honesty, I think that whether or not a sexual connection rises above the mundane and becomes memorable is dependent on mutual compatibility. It's not down to one of the sexual partners having "special powers" or "unique insight". If sex is leaving you breathless with joy and lust, and gives you pleasure you haven't experienced in years, it probably means that your new partner just happens to be making all the right moves to turn on all your own unique, individual, personal responses. Sexual compatibility is a random process. There is no set formula. What one man (or woman) can elicit in one partner may be only partly reproducible - or lacking - in another. Relaxed confidence is clearly important, but that is only the foundation. I reckon a lot of it is down to pure anatomy. To give a crude example, just because a bloke might have a massive cock, it doesn't necessarily mean he will be a god in bed for every woman. Pleasure that is derived from the penetrative part of the sexual palette has a lot to do with which internal parts are being reached, touched and stimulated, and the distribution of sensory nerve endings down there is hugely diverse: not all men and women are the same. That's why it can sometimes take a lifetime to find the most truly ideal sexual partner.
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6:00 am Friday, 28th August, 2015
freeforpleasure
Skibbie, I could not agree more. I will also add that there are also the big factors of desire and just pure chemistry. I am sure you can find someone who is great in bed but it would be truly heaven and special when there are also those elements that make it more than just sex.
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7:05 am Friday, 28th August, 2015
Welcumdstraction
Cheers Dr Skebbie for bursting my bubble of sexual illusion!!!
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12:44 am Saturday, 29th August, 2015
Welcumdstraction
Sassy,
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