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Swinging, Sexual Liaisons and the Green-Eyed Monster

1:05 pm Monday, 10th August, 2015

Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern and anxiety over an anticipated loss or status of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection.

The act of swinging thrives on attraction and sharing your sexuality with other couples.

Something has always made me curious ever since I started working here - Do you lovely couples on the site ever feel jealousy within the lifestyle?

I wondered if you have any advice for couples on the site who are looking for their first swinging experience.

Do you ever get jealous of seeing your partner with another person? Do you get jealous if you see a couple you had fun with enjoying themselves at an event with other people? How do deal with these feelings?

For the lovely singles on the site - Do you ever get jealous at the thought of a meet, one you have had a great time with, hooking up with other people? Do you ever feel a bit disgruntled when you see that someone has posted a guestbook review on one of your favourite bed buddys' pages? How do you handle it?

Is it possible that jealousy is a choice?
M x



Comments
7:16 am Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

I think, for example ,for men, a perennial fantasy is two women: but I think, there is a danger of sexual jealousy whenever a third party is involved. It is a strong and very progressive couple who can survive a third party. I have always been monogamous, but the age old fantasy of two women persists. (I lost my virginity to two women): but neither of them was my girlfriend or wife.
I guess love conquers all: but I maybe am not strong enough, and others are stronger. I guess it boils down to love, same as anything.

7:30 am Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

Jealous is an irrational and immensely powerful emotion. As Shakespeare said: the green eyed monster that mocks the very thing it feeds upon.
It is hard wired into us at a primal level, and no matter how progressive we think we have become, it can take us blind side and destroy us. It is a consideration. More often than not, people are made to feel jealous by an act of deliberate malice. It is a most fearsome weapon and it can be wielded with devastating consequences.
It is like a cut from a tainted blade, and sometimes there is no healing it. It can cause insanity and desperate uncontrolled rage. Time may be enough to heal it. It can endure like a cancer for years, feeding upon itself: Consuming the host body and the host mind. May we be immune to its hideous poison. Play safe, play nice.

11:22 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

At this juncture it's probably relevant to direct people to the thread of my blog about "All's fair in love and war?", which raised quite a few interesting comments.

9:00 pm Thursday, 13th August, 2015

me and mg girlfriend are swinging with a coule i no, but she as never met, my girfriend is 67 and never done anything like this before plus she is shy, do you have any advice please img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

1:28 am Sunday, 16th August, 2015

openislandcpl: That is such a wonderful philosophy and one that I can identify with. I was in Hawaii a couple of years ago and I think I caught a taster of life over there. I'd really love to go back.

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