On Giving and Receiving
Someone once told me that one of the biggest pleasures of being intimate with a woman involves giving the pleasure to her. There is something immensely enjoyable about seeing, hearing and feeling a woman's arousal build before you take her over the edge. I dare say that this is even more pleasurable than feeling my own arousal build up to a climax.
Perhaps it is my nature. I can be a giver when I choose to be. I derive an immense sense of fulfillment from giving pleasure to a woman, whether it is something as simple as making her laugh at the dinner table or making her moan in the bedroom.
This does not mean that I do not enjoy it when my partner performs fellatio on me or spreads her legs wide for me to enter her. On the contrary, I can receive just as well as I give. What it does mean is that the pleasure I derive from performing tongue-fu or a sensual massage on a woman is markedly different from the pleasure I derive from receiving the same tre
