hey every one you should not be shy or ashame because you want to add a flaviour to your boring miserable sex life , indeed we are healthy emotional life couples , because we do love each other and we are honest we declare this , rather than adultery or frustration or mabe be sometimes separation only because we do not expand more our sex life so do not be ashame arab couples , what we are doing some day will be a declared healthy thing so couples can be happy and satisfied :)