Give Us A Hand! Pulling Off The Perfect Handjob Blog Discussion

We’re not pulling your leg, we’re pulling your pork as Friday is Pulled Pork Day and our cue to start talking about everything handjobs!

Whether it’s a prelude to penetration or an orgasmic act all of its own, pulling off the perfect handjob or fingering is an incredibly sexy and handy skill to have (sorry for all the puns).

To celebrate this delicious day we have 10 tips that will leave your partner cumming back for more!!

HandJob Foreplay

Rather than just shoving your hands down their pants and giving them a good flick or tug at speeds that could break the sound barrier, you'll find that it's way hotter to build up to it. Start by kissing them as you normally would and move your hand slowly down their body. As you touch their thighs, only very lightly brush against their sweet spot, (being their clit or end of the penis). Do this only very lightly though, you’re just teasing at this stage but with enough of this tantalising torment, they will be begging you to finish them off.

The Wetter The Better

Lube is a game-changer. You want your hand to slide over their hot spots and feel like a slip ‘n’ slide, not like you're sanding down your bedroom chest of drawers. Lube will make them feel more comfortable whilst reducing the likeliness of any injuries. So make it wet, wet, wet!

Talk Dirty

Compliment their body, talk about how smooth or big they are, ask them if they’re enjoying themselves, "You like that baby?" They’ll also love it if you take charge and tell them when they can cum and when they have to hold on, saving their climax until your say-so.

…And The Backdoor.

A little anal action can take a handjob from good to mind-blowing for both men and women. If you want to test theirs and your own limits down there, slowly work your way down toward that area. With your free hand, start by running your finger further down towards their anus. If they are responding like they are enjoying it, go further with a little bit of lube on your finger, and gently curl it inside.

Consistency Is Key

When you’re ready to up the ante and get them to the proverbial hand job finish line, speeding things up and keeping it consistent will get the job done. Stroke and rub with increased vigour and then when they’re about to come, turn the speed up and stroke that thing fast, they’ll cum twice as hard.

Learn From The Master

Watching them masturbate can be incredibly hot, so the best way for you to learn how to please them with your hand is to ask them to give you a hands-on demonstration of how they like it done, then follow their lead.

Put On A Show

As you're doing your thing on their special area, you could occasionally reach down and touch yourself with your other hand in a sultry manner whilst maintaining eye contact. This, however, may be best at the start of the act as you don’t want to disrupt their rhythm when they’re anywhere near reaching their peak and will want both your hands-free to utilise. Your handjob skills might not be as sharp if you're otherwise distracted by the motion of touching your own bits, but the show you're giving them will be worth it and add to their excitement.

One of the winning qualities of good sex is enthusiasm, so make sure that you’re having fun as well and this comes across to them, they won’t be able to contain their excitement.

Is a handjob part of your getting down and dirty routine or is it something you don’t tend to think about? Guys, give us some insight into what you love most about a handjob? Ladies, is there a hand-based technique which gets you off?

M x

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