Do extra marital affairs help in resolving ones primary relationship or does it add to the confusion. I truly believe that it would help in resolving provided it is taken in the right manner. But then the next confusion is, which is the right manner?
12:34 pm Saturday, 13th September, 2014
missloveit
This is a topic.. Ok turn around.. Why do guys have affairs .. Can't b just about lack of sex as young guys do it too.. What does the person havin the affair gain.. N if they love there partner why keep doin it.. ?? I would love to hear from someone who has had an affair n falling in love n what happened .. Did it work or did it flop once out in the open?? |
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3:03 pm Saturday, 13th September, 2014
chatnplay67
affairs never really help and will destroy a rocky relationship as its a betrayal, swinging as a couple adds fun as long as its agreed to by both in the relationship
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6:49 am Sunday, 14th September, 2014
Skebbie
I've always hated the term "affair" because it's a terribly outdated euphemism. It conjures up images of "Brief Encounter" or gay young things from the 1920s who needed a term for the "unmentionable" ("Oh Rhodneh......we massunt......!") At that time it was an attempt to sanitize what was actually happening: i.e. someone shagging another who was not hisher partner. |
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9:35 am Sunday, 14th September, 2014
missloveit
Oh wow sue n chris .. U do seem to have what a lot of people struggle to gain.. And u r happy n comfy .. Well done n here's to enjoyin ur lives together.. I agree skebbi I just wish I was word educated so I could reply img src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif" bt I'm sure someone else will .. I've now got to go have a chat with my unruly heart .... |
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9:37 am Sunday, 14th September, 2014
missloveit
Whoops not that much of a chat .. |
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3:07 pm Sunday, 14th September, 2014
eroticgoddess
I have never hidden the fact that I am married, though I don't usually advertise the fact outright. Nor have I hidden the fact that I am desperately unhappy in a "relationship" that has zero respect, trust, or love. |