WHOA!! here comes the baby?!!
Here comes a baby???!!
Being a single parent has a myriad of benefits.
I've been totally devastated three times. Well not just devastated but may be worst than that. I was engaged 3 times but different year and man ofcourse. (stupidity yeah?yet still kept trying hoping to become Cinderella).
Gorgeous Wedding gowns? Unique invitations?sponsors?flowers?diamond rings?etc.Etc.etc. I wasted many times preparing those lovely stuff.
So on No wedding happened!! Why? Not financially. May be there is no such thing called LOVE?
I call off the wedding because he wanted to travel around the world. A lousy guy change his mind and wanted to buy a ferrari. The spoiled brat one realized that I dont have a huge mansion, no mercedez and can't buy him an Island. Jerks..ha ha
Past is past! Here it goes. I joined this site and I met a wonderful guy 
. Scored him three out of ten...why him?? He started being nice and ones captured my heart accidentally.
Ofcourse it happened.
Him + Me = HERE COMES THE BABY yehheey!!
Looking at his eyes telling me No! No! thats not mine! Well I know He's the one..imagine me a month a two weeks without sex. And I was pretty fertile then.
Out of my anger and pride. I stood up and asked nothing from him. At least he told me good luck..lol
Now? I'm hidding from my fubu's. Most of them are claimming they might be the father. Ohhh poor men.. I wish so too, one of them.
I'm soon to be a mommy. Still a hottie mommy. Just kinda in a wrong time and the wrong guy!
Anyways ladies...
Got this advice from an author of As a single mom,It Takes All 5, to honor the day and offer you five solid reasons why it's better to be a single mom.
1. No Negotiations Necessary:
While your married counterparts continue to disagree on the state of their children's welfare, you get to make unilateral choices, which in the long run is better for your offspring's well-being. A child's behavior can be negatively affected by adult arguing. It will either leave them crying their eyes out or running for cover. With no one else in the house to challenge your choices, you may continue to be the cozy constant security blanket your children need. Granted, there is a financial price to pay when you are the sole provider, but children need to learn that sometimes we can't give them everything they want.
2. Stellar Independent Role Model: One of the best gifts you can sharenis knowledge. Change a light bulb without a dad in the house -- snap Mom. Swoop a stylish up-do for your teen with no mom in sight -- yeah Dad. You embody the the idea that it's better to
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1:52 am Friday, 8th August, 2014
Skebbie
Great article and I wish you the very best. My own personal view is that marriage is outmoded, and for those who *are* married there are so many "traditional" aspects that ought to be thrown out of the window. Always having to sleep in the same bed is one such example. If a youngish couple admit to sleeping in separate beds (or rooms), people's eyes widen in horror and assume their relationship is on the rocks. What bollocks ! Even living separately and seeing each other now and then is another alternative that suits many (Tim Burton and Helena Bonham-Carter). |
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9:54 am Friday, 8th August, 2014
Skebbie
graham: As empitomised in that little icon that has done the internet rounds: a stencilled cartoon outline of a bride and groom, with the words "Game Over" beneath :-) |
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10:00 am Friday, 8th August, 2014
12ice34
Marriage is a death sentence...lol |
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3:18 pm Friday, 31st October, 2014
eichelaer1
You're an amazing woman you know that? How i wish i could be a friend of yours. |
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6:19 pm Sunday, 21st December, 2014
yellowlover
You're young and intelligent and I'm sure you're a strong lady. Better to be a single mom rather than being with a weakling...now you have an angel with you, that will guide you and will inspire you more. Marriage is not a solution at all, if there's no strong foundation it will end up to a disaster and your angel might be affected...even you are a single mom, if it's your fate, the right man will come and will fully accept and love you. |
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9:40 am Sunday, 1st February, 2015
superpablue
Shame on that guy. Dont worry you will still be an awesome mommy. |
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1:40 am Saturday, 4th July, 2015
ironwill3
Awesome woman!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" Don't loose your courage baby... |
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12:35 pm Sunday, 18th December, 2016
Big_guy
Nice blog. Stay strong! 🙂 |
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4:58 pm Thursday, 4th May, 2017
trollerpewpew
good read (Y) thanks for sharing |
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8:32 pm Thursday, 4th May, 2017
shawnie1912
good reading and interesting point of view. All the best to u and the baby. |
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9:02 am Wednesday, 22nd July, 2020
dkydkydkppsss
met u |
