WHY oh WHY oh WHY???

I think we all ask ourselves why questions SunShine..... Don't we? I certainly know I do. But that's just life you have to weigh up decisions. Unfortunately being the eternal pessimist when I ask myself why, I usually talk myself out of things. I need to develop a more "why not!" philosophy....

And why shouldn't I?

Hmm i used to be very much a pessimist Joe but i became rather more of an Optimist since becomong single again and find myself enjoying my whole new way of life.

I try not to ask myself why because I fear a sarcastic reply. Joe, that's sarcastic, not sincere ;-)

Jeez Luv2 i'm sarcastic to myself,about myself all the time. Could be worse as i could be sharing my sarcasm around to all and sundry......then again i am now asking myself WHY i don't ;-)

And there was me thinking you were always sincere Luv2 ;-)

Just need the pessimism to be proved wrong occasionally for the optimism to take hold SunShine. Then the "Why nots!" might become more regular....

You were sounding like Ronald until you put the smiley face at the end MissG. Everyone knows Ron doesn't smile :(

I really ment to say "Kick Ass King Size Bed" StarG......I read somewhere that there is a Hostel that is named "Kickass" and well while i enjoy sharing my bed, i am at the moment not looking for a man to be a permanet feature in my bedlife.x

Joe i am very sure Ronald has a lovely smile :-)

No one forced you to Porky...now i am wondering WHY i am answering a chopper, who has never even endeavoured to write a blog ;-P

Is that your Karaoke song Frisky?

Porky I am questioning WHY on earth i wrote it as i still have my holiday head on. But kinda sick of one sentence blogs is the best answer to that why, that i can come up with lol

I'm saving the question till I meet my maker. I shall look him straight in the eye and say " Why God ? "
I hope his reply will be " Because I have a well-developed sense of the ridiculous and enjoy a bloody good laugh ! "
I shall respond " Thank you Lord for confirming what I have suspected all my life, you're my sort of bloke ! "
We'll then find the best pub in Paradise and have a couple of beers together.

I suppose the main "whys" I ask myself are:

Why do I tend to isolate myself from mainstream fadsmemes when I'd probably be much happier if I was "normal" in that respect?

Why do I always resist the temptation to say I'm a "bull" or a "dom", when it would be the easiest thing in the world to hide behind such daft facades?

Why don't I feel the need to get tats or piercings?

Why am I never in the chatrooms?

.....and of course the ultimate question that no doubt all men here ask themselves:
"As I'm so slim, massively endowed and intelligent, why aren't I inundated with offers?" :-)

I think the answer to the last question can be found in the answers to the first four (hahahah........).

Who'd have thought that the '5 whys' could be applied here?

Does that mean it'd then be considered good form to do an 8D analysis of a meet that went wrong??

I have another question following Rover's observation.Why do people take themselves and life so seriously and why is it wrong to take about other matters when one is contemplating about, or actually indulging in sex ? There are also many interesting topics post-coital, than just " How was it for you ? "
I may suggest you consider being a " Wild Rover for many a year " You may find the pursuit of wine,women and song,enlightening not to say ,therapeutic.. Just saying .

Bloomin eck Doktor i will have to come back and read your comment later as most of your comment have been obscured for the moment.

Oooo Rover34 are you saying that no one should write about anything other than sex? Should only write " Fancy a shag " or "wanna see my tits " and that may be more to your taste? Though in my opinion that should not be classed as a blog. I didn't realize that we were not permitted to have more than one brain cell when writing a blog just because this is a dare i say " SEX SITE " Really? Oft i best pack away the rest of my brain and only allow it to come out to play when intelligent people are around lol.

Sorry "regularnormal" bloggers i have to admit this is deffo not one of my best blogs but Hey i can't win them all ;-)

If you don't like peoples blogs, WHY not write your own? I'm with you & probably a lot of other people here SunShine. Not all blogs here have to be about sex. Sometimes they start about it then veer off course, other times its the opposite. Give me a thought provoking blog every single time rather than the "I'm Dave and I've just had my first meet and a great shag!" blog. Then single line comments saying "Well done Dave" etc etc etc...
Some of us can write whole sentences and even paragraphs!!!

WHY not write your own? WHY not give it a try? WHY shouldn't you? That's one question I asked myself and I think I might have answered it correctly!

Sorry rant over.....

p.s. My names not Dave.

If you don't like peoples blogs, WHY not write your own? I'm with you & probably a lot of other people here SunShine. Not all blogs here have to be about sex. Sometimes they start about it then veer off course, other times its the opposite. Give me a thought provoking blog every single time rather than the "I'm Dave and I've just had my first meet and a great shag!" blog. Then single line comments saying "Well done Dave" etc etc etc...
Some of us can write whole sentences and even paragraphs!!!

WHY not write your own? WHY not give it a try? WHY shouldn't you? That's one question I asked myself and I think I might have answered it correctly!

Sorry rant over.....

p.s. My names not Dave.

Good for you Joe, very well said.

While i obviously understand that this is a sex site i don't feel the need to write blogs about sex and only sex all the time as to be honest there are other bloggers that are better at writing about that topic and we all have our own style..

No need to be sorry Joe, please feel free to rant on my blog any time you please.x ;-)

My blogs are about sun tans, puppy dogs, hunting for sport, bacon butties, man-flu, public transport, tractors, middle names, muddy tractors, a lesson in marketing, shoes, insanity and even lovely balls of string.

Writing about sex is never just about the sex ... Ah the beauty of the sub text that is fuckery ;-)

I'm even going to throw in a pink willy, coz that's the kind of mood I'm in this morning img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif"

MissG, none that I've had for a fair while, put it that way...(I looked at all the smilies for a while and none of em actually looks like a smile! ;-) )

I must admit that I'm more likely to contribute to sex-oriented blogs, because sex is the reason I joined the site. However, it has to be something a little thought-provoking and not some banal description of cunnilingus written by someone who thinks he's invented it :-)

I suppose I'm more interested in the nature or substance of human sexuality, specifically in the context of a bloke at my time of life - with its attendant doubts and uncertainties. The overriding ethos on this site is "gung-ho is the way to go", which is all very admirable, but really not relevant to the likes of me.

It's true that blog topics can metamorphose from the banal to the profound (or to the ridiculous), and if a thread is heading inexorably in the direction of Nutella or various foodstuffs, I tend to switch off. Likewise with descriptions of how to control uppity women by subjecting them to "ordeal by anal hook" or various other forms of abuse (zzzzz.......).

There's no harm in writing original non-sexual blogs to see where they go, but personally speaking if (as a male) I took time and trouble to write something of "quality" about (say) cultural differences between Japan and UK, I can guarantee that it would sink without trace :-) So lately I've been holding back until the sexual muse visits once again. Of course women have a big blogging advantage and will get a whole order of magnitude more "likes", no matter what they write about, plus a whole string of sycophantic comments, but hey that's a microcosm of the real world :-)

Ordeal by anal hook??? What is that???

And then of course, why? But then in reality I'm not that interested as to why, it might give me vaguely unpleasant dreams....

Maybe you should change your profile handle to "Dr Hook": you might get more lady admirers :-)

If they're into what I imagine that kind of thing is I'm not interested! !

'Why' is a word for me that I'm trying harder by the day not to use. It's such a simple little tiddler but opens up vast chasms of questions, doubts, judgments and a whole host of things I can't answer, never been able to answer and probably never will! Why am I here, why did I make the choices I did, why did I buy this instead of that? Why am I writing this? Etc etc.

It doesn't matter! None of it matters, because I am! I have and I did! And more importantly, I'm going to do it all again very soon without the why's! img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

Why do we do anything? We either have to or we ant to! And sometimes we dnt want to but by doing so we grow and do more

That's if anyone actually does want sex! I keep asking myself why??? Lolimg src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif"

You saved me the trouble of saying it Wilf ;-)

I spend a lot of time on why questions. Until you know the why you can't really move on to what or how or who or when... well you can...

Fuckery... lol, I like that :)

I must remember to swipe it and use it somewhere.

Blimey, my last post seems to have put a sudden stop to this blog !!

Pity, I've just re-read it and some of it is even interesting, lol.
But I'm blowed if I can remember 'liking' a few of the posts that folk made.. I was going to 'like' one or two, but then saw that I must have done it already...
Hmm.. Must be my age eh?

Now, why the Hell did I come upstairs.....