Coming Out To Your Wife

Jimmygoingdown

How many guys out there have come out to your wives as bi or gay?

What was your experience?

My wife took it a lot better than I thought she would. It turns out she was thinking it for a few years. Apparently she found my stash of gay/bi porn many years prior.

I must say it was really freeing to have her know my "dark side". And she didn't leave me to boot! I would still like to have her open enough to have me point out the hot guy in the store we are in, but apparently she isn't ready for that kinda openness yet. ;)

Hopefully she will get to the point that I CAN point out hot guys when I see them. I would live that kinda of friendship with her but I'm thinking she will never be there, but one can always hope.

Our sex life has always been amazing, we've been together for almost 20 years now and has been better than ever the last 5. She has to know I'm not gay and that I still get very excited over woman, especially her. I guess I can see her point of view, I've never pointed out hot woman to her; for obvious reasons.

Are there any other bi guys out there that have come out to their wives? Perhaps you can suggest some dos and donts? I know everyone is different, but could help me out.

Jimmy.

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