Great kissers really can rock your world and I would guess that there are lots of girls who remember their best kisses and kissers.
Oscar Wilde may have thought a kiss may ruin a human life but, personally, I love a good lip locking, passionate, groping smoooooch and not just as a prelude to sex: Anytime, any day … NOW darn it!
So you will understand why earlier this week I was surprised to be asked by a member: If I arranged to meet someone, would I be willing to kiss? He went on to tell me that there are some girls and couples out there who prefer not to be kissed on the lips as they consider it too intimate and they reserve that level of intimacy for their husbands or regular partner.
It's not that I didn't believe him or suspected he had a bad breath problem (yeh right) but I thought, like Agatha Christie’s Mrs Marple, I'd go check for myself. True enough, after trawling through lots of profiles, I found that there are indeed some profiles that have no kissing on the lips as a preference.
I want to be clear that I’m not judging. To each his own and all that but, the notion of having sex but no kissing puzzles me. Let’s shag but don’t kiss … I’ll give you a BJ but don’t kiss me …
Blimey, I just don’t get it!
Perhaps I watch too many soppy chick flicks with great kissing scenes; Officer and a Gentleman, Breakfast at Tiffney’s, Ghost, Notebook … oh dear I could go on so I will stop there.
Or perhaps, more likely, I’m just not clued up on the modern etiquette for casual meets.
11:11 am Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
This one came up a few weeks ago but it's definitely worth a re-run. |
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2:25 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
kissing is passion kissing is lust and desire kissing is erotic |
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4:42 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
Etiquette be damned! It's all about fun. The first touches, leading into a cuddle and a light brush of the lips, to the desire to hold tight, lock lips and lock bodies is sooooooo bloody sensuous. As you say, each to their own, but for me its all part of the experience and without it the sex is going to be mechanistic. (but then I am an engineer img src="imagesadultemoticons015.gif" |
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5:52 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
........has yet to meet anyone off here or anywhere else for that matter who didnt want to kiss.
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5:53 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
I wonder why it put **** when I used the words
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8:11 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
Kinky and Jonnealas, for pity's sake, go get a room. Just leave the sunglasses in the car ;-) |
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8:45 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
I suspect it's because those people segregate sex and affection. Mouth to mouth kissing = affection. Other forms of kissing (still trying to get my head around condoms for "69") = sex. |
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9:00 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
kissing is the catalyst for everything else that follows. Shagging without a kiss -is like and egg without salt or tea without sugar. Yes you can have them,but the experience is NOT the same!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif" |
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11:34 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013
Correct me if I'm wrong but a long time ago I heard that there was some form of rubber membrane that could be stretched across the vulva for "risk-free" oral sex. Has anyone else heard that one? I'm sure I didn't dream it up. |
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5:53 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Olivers, "i bet them that use condoms for oral sex ,,get out the bath for a piss." |
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6:03 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
FA, a condom on their tongue!!! Eweeeee ;-) |
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8:52 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Kissing = emotion? Translate as 'I am attracted to you as a person who I might in other circumstances want to make real babies with.' Sex without kissing is empty and functional, may as well stay home with toys and video. Nothing beats the adrenaline rush as you both lean in for that first kiss.
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9:28 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Well spotted Jerry. Perhaps, FA uses a mirror ;-) |
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10:14 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Oh dear, I think I'm in the acute stage of basorexia ... ;-) |
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12:02 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Oh, I say FA, I think I saw your uploaded video. Impressive! ;-) You may want to wear a dental dam next time though. A word to the wise: You can buy them from Amazon. |
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1:22 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Seriously, I so need to get a life ... |
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6:04 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Happy to keep you amused Jonnealas. Mmm, now for that joke ... ;-) |
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8:30 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Found one ... |
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6:40 am Friday, 30th August, 2013
I absolutely agree Davepower. Som other than STDs, do you think there are other reasons why some people prefer not to do it when they meet? Can it really be considered 'too intimate'? |
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12:11 pm Friday, 30th August, 2013
I wonder if any of our regular blog readers have a preference to the 'no kissing rule' and would like to share their experience ? ........ Anybody? |
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8:50 pm Friday, 30th August, 2013
The only explanation that sounds remotely credible to me is that such people compartmentalise their lives. Their regular partner is far closer than anyone they would have sex with on this site. Kissing is symbolic of that bond. |
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5:56 pm Saturday, 31st August, 2013
FOM, you are probably right It does sound like a load of BS. |
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8:24 pm Saturday, 31st August, 2013
Sureshot, ok, it's a date! How about 10'ish? ;-) |
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8:05 pm Wednesday, 4th September, 2013
I would love a good snog right now!!! |
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8:19 pm Wednesday, 4th September, 2013
Mmm, would you now? ;-) |
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11:19 pm Thursday, 5th September, 2013
Curious ...
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11:20 pm Friday, 6th September, 2013
I'm thinking I should move to Stratford. Fish, chips and Luv2. How great is that? |
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11:35 pm Friday, 6th September, 2013
Ah, FOM, would that be Stratford Upon, On or East London? |
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5:46 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
The kiss I still remember, and probably will until I die, was gentle, soft, warm, tender and almost chaste except for a very brief touch of tongues. It only lasted a couple of seconds but they were the most perfect couple of seconds ever. It was the kiss of an angel. |
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7:18 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
I recall the moment of that kiss, |
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7:23 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
I had never seen that (please tell me where it comes from) but mine was definitely an angel. |
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7:37 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
You flatter my early morning poetry skills ... |
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7:52 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
If that was yours, I fall at you feet as an unworthy acolyte. |
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7:57 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
You take the piss well my friend :-) |
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8:06 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013
Not at all. I think that is one of the most evocative things I have ever read. And I read a lot. |
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11:24 pm Monday, 9th September, 2013
Ooo Darren, you know how to make a girl blush ... |
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12:12 am Tuesday, 10th September, 2013
Blimey Darren, I'll never get to sleep now x
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5:56 am Tuesday, 10th September, 2013
Darren " ... thinking about how I can make you less innocent.". Be warned Darren; evil has many faces ... You may spend the rest of your time sleeping with one eye open and the light on ;-) |
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10:26 pm Wednesday, 11th September, 2013
Darren, I'm not too sure that would be the case.
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11:04 pm Wednesday, 11th September, 2013
Oh my!! Just checked on UTube. Not sure I will be able to close my eyes tonight FA. What on earth ...? |
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11:13 pm Wednesday, 11th September, 2013
Sureshot, you do surprise me. Is that a hidden kink? |