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Rock my world ... Kiss me now!

9:31 am Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

Great kissers really can rock your world and I would guess that there are lots of girls who remember their best kisses and kissers.

Oscar Wilde may have thought a kiss may ruin a human life but, personally, I love a good lip locking, passionate, groping smoooooch and not just as a prelude to sex: Anytime, any day … NOW darn it!

So you will understand why earlier this week I was surprised to be asked by a member: If I arranged to meet someone, would I be willing to kiss? He went on to tell me that there are some girls and couples out there who prefer not to be kissed on the lips as they consider it too intimate and they reserve that level of intimacy for their husbands or regular partner.

It's not that I didn't believe him or suspected he had a bad breath problem (yeh right) but I thought, like Agatha Christie’s Mrs Marple, I'd go check for myself. True enough, after trawling through lots of profiles, I found that there are indeed some profiles that have no kissing on the lips as a preference.

I want to be clear that I’m not judging. To each his own and all that but, the notion of having sex but no kissing puzzles me. Let’s shag but don’t kiss … I’ll give you a BJ but don’t kiss me …

Blimey, I just don’t get it!

Perhaps I watch too many soppy chick flicks with great kissing scenes; Officer and a Gentleman, Breakfast at Tiffney’s, Ghost, Notebook … oh dear I could go on so I will stop there.

Or perhaps, more likely, I’m just not clued up on the modern etiquette for casual meets.



Comments
11:11 am Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

This one came up a few weeks ago but it's definitely worth a re-run.

At this point I should of course emphasize that I'm a brilliant and gifted snogger (lol): I've been told I kiss like a woman, although I'm unsure whether that's a recommendation to most women (?) :-)

It's always been a mystery to me why some women on these sites are quite happy to have their most intimate parts stimulated and penetrated but don't want to kiss. I can understand it (almost) if she's an escort, and also from the viewpoint that not everyone is blessed with wonderful oral hygiene. To me, however, kissing is fundamental to sexual activity, both as a prelude and during. In fact I would go so far as to say that unless I'm snogged, I can't get sufficiently aroused because it feels there's a barrier. Kissing is a wordless language that says to me "god I fancy you and I can't wait to have your dick inside me". If that doesn't happen, I feel that there's no passion, or that I'm being "humored" :-)

2:25 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

kissing is passion kissing is lust and desire kissing is erotic
sex without kissing is just well sex for the sake of it
kissing is foreplay and gives pleasure to both parties
kissing gives the desire and lust and passion to want to penitrate
kissing gives the desire to want to be penitrated,lips are a most erotic and sensitive part of the human body wet lips and tongues entwining ummmm in my oppinion is the best

4:42 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

Etiquette be damned! It's all about fun. The first touches, leading into a cuddle and a light brush of the lips, to the desire to hold tight, lock lips and lock bodies is sooooooo bloody sensuous. As you say, each to their own, but for me its all part of the experience and without it the sex is going to be mechanistic. (but then I am an engineer img src="imagesadultemoticons015.gif"

5:52 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

........has yet to meet anyone off here or anywhere else for that matter who didnt want to kiss.

Maybe I am not meeting the right folks?

5:53 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

I wonder why it put **** when I used the words

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Quite odd....

8:11 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

Kinky and Jonnealas, for pity's sake, go get a room. Just leave the sunglasses in the car ;-)


FA, "Well, I'm only speculating, but I would imagine that the non-kissers most likely also use condoms for oral sex." But what about the ladies? Assuming they also receive a little themselves ...


It seems we are all on the same page when it comes to kissing then so why do you think the 'no kissing rule' is out there? I'm not convinced it has much to do with STDs when you consider the other intimate acts that take place. Alison59 suggests it could be to suppress feelings of guilt. Could that be it?





8:45 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

I suspect it's because those people segregate sex and affection. Mouth to mouth kissing = affection. Other forms of kissing (still trying to get my head around condoms for "69") = sex.
But then I am an engineer so I probably got this wrong lol img src="imagesadultemoticons015.gif"

9:00 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

kissing is the catalyst for everything else that follows. Shagging without a kiss -is like and egg without salt or tea without sugar. Yes you can have them,but the experience is NOT the same!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

11:34 pm Wednesday, 28th August, 2013

Correct me if I'm wrong but a long time ago I heard that there was some form of rubber membrane that could be stretched across the vulva for "risk-free" oral sex. Has anyone else heard that one? I'm sure I didn't dream it up.

I think that some sort of culture has developed whereby people now seem to place excessive faith in condoms as a sort of "Maginot Line" against STDs, when in fact some viruses are remarkably adept at being transmitted regardless. As is the case in cancer surgery, unless you adopt a totally "clean margin" policy, there will always be a portal for viruses, and - let's face it - a surgical approach soon flies out the window when two people are locked in passion.

5:53 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Olivers, "i bet them that use condoms for oral sex ,,get out the bath for a piss."

Choked on my cornflakes reading that ....

You really are a keeper xx

6:03 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013

FA, a condom on their tongue!!! Eweeeee ;-)

Skebbie, Googled the 'thing' you described above. I think it's called a dental dam. OMG you have got to Google for images!

Not sure I could ever have an orgasm wearing one of these for oral sex. I'd be more likely to piss myself laughing ;-)

So not sexy but I believe neither are genital warts.

8:52 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Kissing = emotion? Translate as 'I am attracted to you as a person who I might in other circumstances want to make real babies with.' Sex without kissing is empty and functional, may as well stay home with toys and video. Nothing beats the adrenaline rush as you both lean in for that first kiss.

Tongues? Ooh yes please, gently at first and definitely entwined during mish. Some people just wiggle the tips, the best kissers merge their tongues in a passionate series of waves that is so sensual that it transmits to between the legs. (Vigorous goes off to lie down in darkened room to cool off, or maybe turn up the heat!)

9:28 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Well spotted Jerry. Perhaps, FA uses a mirror ;-)

10:14 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Oh dear, I think I'm in the acute stage of basorexia ... ;-)

12:02 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Oh, I say FA, I think I saw your uploaded video. Impressive! ;-) You may want to wear a dental dam next time though. A word to the wise: You can buy them from Amazon.

1:22 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Seriously, I so need to get a life ...

For those who have five mins to spare, check you tube for 'the things girls say and do during oral sex'. Quite funny.

Note - I stumbled on this when looking for info on STDs transmitted through oral sex. Thanks you lot!

6:04 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Happy to keep you amused Jonnealas. Mmm, now for that joke ... ;-)

8:30 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013

Found one ...


Sorry, your application to join our online dating service has been rejected.

You failed question #14 "What do you like most in a woman?"

"My dick." Was not an appropriate answer.



That's about as good as it gets I'm afraid.

6:40 am Friday, 30th August, 2013

I absolutely agree Davepower. Som other than STDs, do you think there are other reasons why some people prefer not to do it when they meet? Can it really be considered 'too intimate'?

12:11 pm Friday, 30th August, 2013

I wonder if any of our regular blog readers have a preference to the 'no kissing rule' and would like to share their experience ? ........ Anybody?

8:50 pm Friday, 30th August, 2013

The only explanation that sounds remotely credible to me is that such people compartmentalise their lives. Their regular partner is far closer than anyone they would have sex with on this site. Kissing is symbolic of that bond.
But I don't get it so this is probably bullshit ;)

5:56 pm Saturday, 31st August, 2013

FOM, you are probably right It does sound like a load of BS.

I agree with Roslyn, "...fancy me enough to want to kiss me, then why would you want to have sex with me?"

8:24 pm Saturday, 31st August, 2013

Sureshot, ok, it's a date! How about 10'ish? ;-)

8:05 pm Wednesday, 4th September, 2013

I would love a good snog right now!!!

8:19 pm Wednesday, 4th September, 2013

Mmm, would you now? ;-)

11:19 pm Thursday, 5th September, 2013

Curious ...

Olivers, we could have gone for fish and chips ;-)

11:20 pm Friday, 6th September, 2013

I'm thinking I should move to Stratford. Fish, chips and Luv2. How great is that?

11:35 pm Friday, 6th September, 2013

Ah, FOM, would that be Stratford Upon, On or East London?

5:46 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

The kiss I still remember, and probably will until I die, was gentle, soft, warm, tender and almost chaste except for a very brief touch of tongues. It only lasted a couple of seconds but they were the most perfect couple of seconds ever. It was the kiss of an angel.

7:18 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

I recall the moment of that kiss,
I'll see your angel and raise you a kiss from Satan ...


'Twas the foundation of my last breath;
Wild, hard but with passion,
Yet only a brief touch of tongues.

I recall the moment of that kiss,
'Twas the foundation of my last breath;
Fearful, comforting but perfection.
It was a kiss from the devil.




7:23 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

I had never seen that (please tell me where it comes from) but mine was definitely an angel.

7:37 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

You flatter my early morning poetry skills ...

7:52 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

If that was yours, I fall at you feet as an unworthy acolyte.

7:57 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

You take the piss well my friend :-)

8:06 am Saturday, 7th September, 2013

Not at all. I think that is one of the most evocative things I have ever read. And I read a lot.

11:24 pm Monday, 9th September, 2013

Ooo Darren, you know how to make a girl blush ...

12:12 am Tuesday, 10th September, 2013

Blimey Darren, I'll never get to sleep now x

You are right though, I am innocent ... mwhahaha

5:56 am Tuesday, 10th September, 2013

Darren " ... thinking about how I can make you less innocent.". Be warned Darren; evil has many faces ... You may spend the rest of your time sleeping with one eye open and the light on ;-)

10:26 pm Wednesday, 11th September, 2013

Darren, I'm not too sure that would be the case.

When I say evil, I mean the 'I will cut off bits and shove them into orifices, stick pins in your eyes and pull toe nails from roots' kind of evil.

Still interested?

11:04 pm Wednesday, 11th September, 2013

Oh my!! Just checked on UTube. Not sure I will be able to close my eyes tonight FA. What on earth ...?

11:13 pm Wednesday, 11th September, 2013

Sureshot, you do surprise me. Is that a hidden kink?
Go on, tell us what part you like; cutting off bits, pins or toe nails?

:-)

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