To Kiss Or Not To Kiss

Love that flick and i know that bit but figured it was just a movie moment. I have met a few girls who kiss Deep Deep French but haven't asked me to marry them (hehe). So are you saying it is like Ms Roberts suggests for most women? - Chubby

I feel cheated without it i must say.

I saw a lady a while back that explained she did not kiss because of the pretty woman thing and then i read her add the next week and it said kissing at her descretion.

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my point exactly frisky. And Olivers there are a few that don't mind camel breath so long as the camel is reeeeal local if u know what i mean img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

I always thought it was strange and ironic that some women are quite happy to have their most intimate parts stimulated and penetrated and yet are reluctant to kiss, i.e. it's much more of a big deal to kiss a guy than to fuck him :-)

In any event, if deep kissing a woman is not on the menu, then I simply can't feel aroused. It's as simple as that. My own particular brand of sexual fulfillment centres around feeling valued and fully intimate, so if a woman does not kiss me spontaneously and eagerly, then I feel she's not fully engaged with me, and a mental barrier comes up. Perhaps for this reason I was never drawn to dogging :-)

Skebbie you took the words right out of my mouth. It really does effect performance to.

I almost feel it is wrong to take money. I wonder how it is viewed from a female perspective. ie if a woman paid for sex but the male sex worker would not kiss her would she ask for money back etc..

Another thought on the matter. Those that kiss on discretion, how do they decide. I mean, i have been told by those who have given it a go that i am an awesome, great, sexy kisser to name a few. Not one bit of negative feedback but how's a girl know if she don't ava go?

Is it smell, appearance, height, eye colour, what?img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif"

Dine At The Y (female oral)

Deep French Kissing (with tongue)

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Look carefully at their profiles and feedback before booking. Some ladies that say 'discretion' just have likes and dislikes. I see you have facial hair like me Chubster - that put some off but turns others on. I'm with Skebbie on the engagement thing - I can't get exited by a passive body - there has to be some chemistry and a full-on, deep sloppy french kiss gets me worked up every time (unless she's a heavy smoker then MY preferences kick in and I pull back!)

Most smokers brush teeth and use mouthwash, just reak heavy smokers can't get rid of the taste. Anyone turning up to a meeting without brushing teeth doesn't deserve to be kissed. And you're so right about styles, everyone is different and will change according to who they are with. My last extramarital friend could kiss for hours and raise me from the dead just by movement of her tongue round my mouth (sounds a bit clinical but it was so hot when she did it).

Lol that reminds me of an ordinary appointment i had a while back. I picked the older (yet still attractive)of the 2 girls offered me. She did not smile the whole hour i was with her. I kissed her deeply for as long as i could stand the cigarette breath and then headed south to go down on the dear lady. She clearly had not cleaned up after the last appointment. I decided to make t he best of it and went to work. 45 minutes later she had come 6 times including 2 squirts and all this still without a smile. I started to get into position for my prized reward being the favor returned but she looked at the clock and said 8 minutes left, no time for anything else and began dressing. I can laugh about it now, i think hehe

But yes kissing is the key for me