Spank you very much!.......( our first bdsm adventure) Part 1

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S and I have just encountered our very first bdsm experience together and we thought to would to be good to relate this to others, as there are probably many people out there who like us have often thought and fantasised about these alternative activities and who perhaps haven't dared to explore this side of their sexuality due to the fear of the unknown and the misconception that it is all about pain...which it certainly isn't as we found out last Thursday evening!

We both have had virtually no experience of practical bdsm activities during our lives, although we consider ourselves very sexually experienced in many other ways. We have often talked about trying this out and discussed fantasies with each other regarding being blindfolded and restrained, touched, spanked, massaged, masturbated over and being gangbanged by others, although we never took these particular ideas any further up until now.

J (male) did have one bdsm experience in his very early twenties, when he was seduced by a woman 15 years older than him, and who liked to be spreadeagled, bound by silk scarves face down on a bed, and then spanked very hard on the ass with plastic, wooden and metal rules until her ass was bright red,then fucked very hard doggy style from behind.

He also tried being restrained himself but felt scared and vulnerable at that time and didn't enjoy the experience whatsoever.

We think that probably was very much to do with being young, sexually inexperienced and just basically unaware!

As we are both certainly mature now and sexually confident in ourselves and our desires, we felt we were ready to pursue our bdsm related fantasies...so please find the details below of our first foray into this world!

A couple of weeks ago, we were contacted by a couple (C & T) who live here in Spain, and who asked us for some information on another subject.

We looked at their profile and realised that they were also very much into bdsm related activities and were involved in a master/slave relationship. We were immediately intrigued by this, and not least by the fact they had their own fully equipped dungeon! We chatted further by email and ended up deciding to meet up for drinks and a chat at a bar in Altea just over a week ago.

S & I were perhaps a little more nervous than usual about going to meet up with people who were well versed in these activities, and I guess our initial thoughts were that would they be 'weird' or controlling with us etc.

Nothing could have been further from the truth...we met up and they were a very down to earth, attractive, and social couple who made us feel very at ease as we sat at a table outside a small spanish tapas bar on the seafront in Altea, discussing ourselves, our lives in Spain and our experiences.

It was fascinating to hear about the bdsm lifestyle and the experiences that they enjoyed together that sounded incredibly stimulating to us and we listened attentively and asked several questions, feeling totally at ease and secure about what we heard about and realising that we would certainly enjoy similar fun!

The immediate realisation was that this wasn't all about PAIN! For them, their enjoyment stemmed from many activities including voyeurism, blindfolds, being restrained, toys, touching etc and also fairly gentle stimulation and spanking using various items that involved little or no pain....just a great sensation, as they didn't enjoy painful activities either.

That made us feel very secure in getting involved with them and indulging in these activities ourselves!

The main conclusion was that this fun was all about the power of control and pure sexual release and escapism. And who is necessary in control and wielding the most power? i.e. the person being dominant in the situation...or indeed the submissive person that is the subject of all the attention?

One example of their fun that absolutely floored us and turned us both on immensely, was when they described a regular scenario that involved T being blindfolded and sitting in a chair at home, and a male visitor would arrive and start to give her a massage and then progress to sex, without her knowing who this person was or ever seeing him. S & I had often discussed a similar scenario between ourselves that we had never realised, so we were absolutely intrigued by this!

We ended up having a great evening, and we all liked each other and had a similar mindset. We were then invited by C & T to join their small private closed group of likeminded people who regularly met at their home for bdsm parties, and we were flattered and excited by being asked to join this group.

After a few hours, we parted and agreed to join this group the following day (yes..you need an application form) and visit their home/dungeon in the near future to look at the equipment, try it out and have some fun together!

That night S & I went on to a late night music gig in Benidorm, and as we sat and enjoyed the concert, we also talked about the meeting and how turned on we both were about getting involved in these 'new' activities.

A couple of days later, we received an email from C & T, asking us to think over what we would like to do with them, specifically in what ways S wanted to dominate T when we met up (both girls are bi), and also to arrange a meeting at their home the next Thursday! We sent them a few horny suggestions back straightaway to think about....involving S playing with T, teasing her and playing with her nipples, masturbating her using fingers etc until T begs S to make her come, S sitting on T's face etc!

We also very much thought at this point that J (male) was interested in a submissive role, and that S (fem) would enjoy a more dominant role during any bdsm fun we would have together!

We spent the following days in a very excited, almost surreal state of mind....just waiting for Thursday evening to arrive. We had loads of horny sex together and were both permanently turned on thinking about what would occur when we were taken down to the dungeon!

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