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The Art of Maintaining Conversation Through to Hookup

You’ve found a great member on the site, perhaps you’ve exchanged a swift reciprocal ‘Hi, how are you?’ back and forth that is often deemed obligatory. Now’s the tricky part, the conversational aftermath that is ‘the getting to know them’ period. Whilst this leg of your journey to hookup success may seem daunting, it really needn’t be. Here’s our overview on not only maintaining the conversation, but also building a rapport and chemistry that will have you both so hot, you’re evaporating steam before you even get a chance to gyrate on one another.

 

Small talk is necessary

The term ‘small talk’ may not necessarily conjure images of the throes of passion. Preconceived connotations aside, small talk is necessary in getting to know someone. By asking someone else about their life, you’re demonstrating that you’re polite as a person and have a higher likelihood of being a decent human being.

Prior to meeting someone in the flesh, you’re simply a profile on a website. Give yourself every chance of making a good first impression with the minimal information that your potential bonking counterpart has to scope you out.

Small talk can often also be necessary for progression into the deep and meaningful, truly insightful information that makes an individual who they are. Sometimes it’s helpful to go big on the small and mundane.

 

Ask Away

Be sure to ask them about their favourite subject - themselves. Come on, we all do it and savour the simplistic pleasure of telling others about ourselves. So, be sure to ask lots of questions about everything that is them.

However, don’t do this for the sole purpose of hooking up, show them that they genuinely intrigue you. Give them your full attention and wholeheartedly take on board what they’re saying to really indulge them. Reiterate points of interest that they’ve told you and ask questions which expand on them.

For example: “Oh that’s cool that you do lots of snowboarding! Where do you normally go to hit the slopes?”

A relevant pointer which almost deserves a paragraph of its own, is to listen more and talk less. Surrender the majority of the air time to them and you will bolster their confidence with you. This will lay the foundations for a more intense and enjoyable experience when you do get together, with esteem not a perceived issue.

 

Less is More

A truly scintillating discussion builds in eroticism, it might begin with a flirty yet indirect implication. A play on words that does not say outright ‘I want to fuck you’ but very discreetly signifies it. You both read between the lines, you both know what the other means, but you’re teasing one another.

Should your conversation reach this flirtatious stage, don’t go gung-ho sending nude pictures or explicitly saying ‘fuck me’, ‘I want to cum on you’ or the like. Profanities like this should be treated like seasoning on a delicately moist duck l’orange, used sparingly for an amplification and complementation of the main flavour. Don’t ruin the duck by unloading a carton of cumin all over it’s juicy, sauce-laden carcass. You get our analogy.

 

No Whinging

Important - be positive. We don’t necessarily mean that you need to channel Tony Robbins through your tone of voice, but don’t complain. Don’t be an energy vampire, leeching the positive life force out from your victim’s shrivelled chi arteries as they fight to maintain the conversation’s dying heartbeat.

This means, don’t say things like ‘I’m bored’, complain about your ex, job or any area of your life. These things will be an instant flatline for sexual energy, so avoid. At least until you know each other relatively well.

 

Get Creative

If you could see any band should they be living or dead, who would it be? If you could be reincarnated as any animal, what would it be and why? If you had to give up doggy style or anal sex which would you rather sacrifice? If you could only ever use one kind of sex toy for the rest of your life what would it be?

By asking hypothetical, creative questions, you’re opening a portal to the depths of truly getting to know someone on a much more intimate level. Random, thought-provoking and eclectic questions may lead you to stumble across something about your future hookup that no-one else knows, deepening the bond. Strengthening your connection. Enhancing your pleasure.

 

Be Brave

Ultimately, you’ve got to take a leap of faith and put yourself out there when holding a meaningful conversation that endures. Be yourself and be authentic, it will be obvious when you’re not.

 

Chances are, there might be times where you’re not always successful, don’t let instances like this sullen your confidence in future attempts at kindling bonds.

Every person is unique and every linkage between two people is different. Don’t allow perceived failures to overcome or affect you and always continue on with your conversational crusade. As you do so, you will continue to accrue confidence in your abilities to construct and lift affinities with others to lofty exponents.

Good luck in your erotic endeavours and thanks for taking the time to read this.




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