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Swinging Etiquette Essentials: A Sexy Guide

The erotic thrill of trying something new (and taboo! 🤫), the feel of several hands exploring your body, the warm arousal when you see your partner having the time of their life… There are lots of reasons to get excited about swinging. 🔥

Wanna get in on the swinging game, but unsure what to expect? 🙋 Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered! 👇

Getting in the zone 😉

As tempting as it might be to dive right into the horny action, we wanna make sure everyone feels safe and respected. So, our biggest piece of advice when starting on your swinging journey is to take your time. 🖐️

Unwind with a chat or a couple’s massage so everyone feels comfortable within the space and around each other. 🧴 Any sexy time afterwards will be that much more rewarding when you have that connection, trust us. 🤤

Of course, condoms are a must. You’re meeting new people, and everyone’s health is top priority. Wherever you’re going, pack plenty and don’t be shy about using them. 😉

💡 Swinger Tip: Don’t rely on clichéd “swinger signals” when you’re out and about in public. That upside-down pineapple might just be someone’s favorite grocery item. 🍍 Luckily, sites like this make finding like-minded people so much easier.

Private swaps and threesomes 🔒

If you know who you’re gonna be playing with upfront, you have the advantage of being able to check in with everyone beforehand.

For couples, start it off with a heart-to-heart with the two of you, asking yourselves… 👉

  • What do we want out of this?
  • What are we willing to do – and watch? 😏
  • Do we need protection, lube, or toys? 💧🍆 If so, who’s bringing what?

For singles joining a couple, it’s your job to respect both partners’ boundaries and check in with them individually. If something feels off – if one of them seems hesitant or not fully on board – it’s better to walk away. Trust your instincts and avoid messy situations. 🙅

Boundaries are essential, and everyone has their own rules. Whether you’re into kissing, oral, vaginal sex, or anal, spell it out in advance. 🤔 People often talk about “soft swaps” and “full swaps,” but definitions can vary. Ask what those terms mean to everyone involved, so there’s no confusion once it’s time to get down and dirty. 🔥

Lastly, if you’re hunting for a mythical unicorn (a bisexual woman open to joining a threesome), know that they’re rare – hence the name! 🦄😆 You might have better luck expanding your horizons to include other couples – which might lead you to discovering something even hotter. 😜

Parties and clubs 🥳

Ready for the ultimate playground? 😈 People flirting and playing – and yes, full-on fucking – all around you? 🙋

Even once you’ve secured your invite, a swinger party or club can be an intimidating environment for a newbie, so it’s good to know what to expect.

Of course, any good party or club will have a host who can show you round and give you the lowdown (and if they don’t then that should be a red flag 🚩), but here are our expert tips and tricks to get you started… 👉

  • Consent is king. Always ask before joining in on someone else’s fun. A flirty “Mind if I join?” is sexy, confident, and respectful.
  • Expect an audience in public areas. Into exhibitionism? Then it’s all part of the fun! But if you prefer more privacy, most parties have designated private spaces. Don’t be shy about asking the host or staff to point you in the right direction.
  • Watching is fine, lingering is not. It’s okay to admire the action from a distance, but unless you’re invited to stay, move along. Eye contact, smiles, and nods are often all the communication you need – don’t worry, you’ll be able to pick up on the cues. 😉
  • Socialize like a pro. Chat with everyone, not just the people you’re immediately attracted to. Building good connections can lead to more invitations down the road – and trust us, you’ll wanna continue this journey… 🤤
  • Bring a sex-positive friend. If you’re nervous, a supportive buddy can make all the difference in finding your way.

What’s your number one tip for swinging beginners? Share it down below and we can all help each other. 😜👇




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