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Cuckolding Husbands' Golden Rules

Cuckolding Sex has got its own etiquette that Cuckold husbands, bulls and hotwives have to follow. Then there are also specific rules that a Cuckold husband will make up and expect a bull to follow.

Cuckolding Sex can be very exciting for all three parties taking part – the Bull, the hotwife and the cuckold husband who is usually on the sidelines watching. But if all three players don’t follow basic cuckolding sex etiquette, things can get ugly very quickly. In this article we are going to take a look at the set of rules that a bull should follow at all times. These rules are usually thought up by a cuckold husband who wants to protect his wife and also his own ego.

    Don’t mistake cuckolding sex for a threesome.

    For those of you that don’t know exactly what cuckolding sex is, it is not a threesome. Cuckolding sex takes place when a husband (called a cuckold) watches his wife (called a hotwife) getting fucked by another man (called a bull). He will never join in on the action, so if you are a bi-guy then it is best not to become a bull and to start making passes at the husband.

    Don’t be abusive or rude.

    The cuckolding husband may online be watching from the sidelines but he won’t tolerate any abusive or rude behaviour from the Bull towards his wife. This includes physical and verbal abuse. If you are a BULL who wants rough sex then rather hook up with adults who are into BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism)

    Don’t become obsessed and turn into a stalker.

    When you meet a cuckolding husband and his hotwife online, chances are that they won’t use their real names to protect their privacy. As a bull it is expected from you to also respect their privacy and not to search for personal information like their mobile numbers, real names, where they work and live. It sometimes happens that bulls can become obsessed with a married couple and stalk them in real life or online in chat rooms. This action will result in serious consequences for the Bull who can get a restraining order against him or lose his membership on our site.

    If you don’t have something good to say keep quiet.

    The worst type of cuckolding sex happens when a Bull complains the whole time about his sex partner, the sex positions, the bed, the lighting, the cuckolding husband watching and everything else. Just reading about the Bull complaining is already a passion killer. Insulting the hotwifes body or even worse the cuckolding husbands cock size won’t get you in their good books and you can forget about a second invitation.

    Remember you are a guest in their home.

    Cuckolding sex can take place anywhere from a motel to a 5 star hotel. Most cuckolding couples prefer to have sex in their own homes and if they trust the Bull then they’ll usually invite him over to their private residence. Just because the Cuckolding husband trusts you enough to invite you over to his house does not mean that you can behave like it’s your own house, you are after all still a guest. Under no circumstances should you go help yourself with food from the fridge, put on the cuckolding husband clothes or jump naked on the couch after sex and start playing with the Television remote.

    If you follow all of these rules and use your common sense then you’ll be a first class Bull and treated like royalty by the hotwife and her cuckolding husband.


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    Wow, you learn something new everyday.

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    dont know if i would be called a cuckold husband/partner, since i love to watch my girl with another guy with a huge cock but participate also. i am straight and prefer straight men when we enjoy a session. she also loves me to join. i guess instead of a cuckold we are into threesomes. also menage with a girl as my girl is bi and really gets off with a girl.

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    I'm a bull and one thing I've learnt is that all 3 people have to get something out of it - and most importantly, you all have to get on as friends outside the bedroom, so that when the sex is over, you can all go out together for a drink or meal. We've done that for nearly 2 years.

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    I am definitely a cuckold husband, i enjoy watching my wife with a couple, but I also love hearing about how she flirts with guys at work and at the gym. I would love her to have a boyfriend or a guy to play with, but our experiences on this site so far is that the single males are really pushy, so we have agreed just to seek couples or females as, she enjoys fun with a girl as well as a guy.

    I do have a hot wife and we have been lucky to find a great couple on here, who were very respectful and it was awesome watching them pleasure Jules and watching the guy cum in her mouth was awesome!

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    looking for a couple to cuckold in Essex

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    I agree that the Bull should always be very considerate and polite at all times and to be a successful event for everyone there must be a connection between all three participants. I have been most fortunate to have enjoyed several great relationships with willing couples over many years and it was never a slam bam thank you mam event but rather an enjoyable meet lasting quite a few hours and some overnights.
    There are I believe very few so called Bulls that have the right stuff or even the class to behave correctly. I also have enjoyed several three sums and the same rules apply, be polite, be considerate and above all be respectful.
    Cheers
    Pete

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    Oftentimes the woman can be too critical of her husband when she is being serviced by a Bull. It is not just the bulls who are critical of the husbands.

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    Have to agree with the second posting here, a degree of respect and taking time to understand one another’s desires and turn-ons can be deliciously rewarding for everyone. Mutual stimulation between our ears as well as our legs certainly produced some of the most memorable, intense and exciting fun I ever shared with a lovely couple for a number of years. And like one of the other postings, he loved watching and learning of the fun his wife and I had, so our foreplay, photo fun and lovemaking often played to his enjoyment as well, creating some delicious anticipation and excitement for all of us.

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    As a person who has some experience with cuckolding and roleplays i appreciate the guidelines above. Hotwife is there to be worshipped and cuck husband already knows what turns her on most , its bulls job to find those hotspots as SLOWLY as possible as it is the' build up' and 'getting to know' process that is the seduction ....never forget that hotwife is doing this for her man as well as herself....the role plays i have used on early contact have added immeasuriably to the overall experience of all parties (so i have been told)....slow dddooooowwwnnnnnn x

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    Best part of cuckold is watching my hot wife with another man especially when he has a large endowment. Like her to have other boyfriends too but insist on hearing about all the fun they had together. Prefer to watch though.

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    so far i only had one experience & they wanted it rough & hard. they want me to hit on the wife's breast many times while we having sex. and she also want it to spit on my mouth as well. we did a STD testing & we had maximum fun with out any worries.

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    Looking for a couple to cuckold me it's one of my fantasy I would love to eat a creampie from a pussy or ass

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    This is a great description of cuckolding. I've been a Bull to a few couples, its been most rewarding, lots of great sex, compliant Hotwife's and appreciative Cuckolds. It helps is the Bull has a large cock, but this is not always required, some Hotwives just want extra sex. One couple allowed me to take over the marital bed, I serviced her for a couple of years, it only ended when they moved abroad. I also sometimes take the couple to fetish clubs, the Cuckolds get very excited, especially when they are denied sex. To all aspiring Bull's, enjoy, to all couples you don't know what you might be missing, so why not try a session.

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    This article is quite informative,we have enjoyed a cuckold lifestyle for many years. In our situation it was my hubby who instigated this and I have been very happy to please him, the bull and myself. Over time we have decided we prefer physically fit black guys to re-inforce hubby's humiliation but it's proving difficult to find a long term partner who understands the rules and can enjoy it for what it is, then everyone can derive satisfaction from it.

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    My hubby is a cock caged cuckold and he loves it,we don't use Bulls as such just other people we get to know and trust. He loves cleaning me out and if he is really good,I might release him from his cage for a short while.

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    Very knowledgeable blog for the bulls about wat to do and not ....Always wanted to be with cuck couple, but never got a chance....wish I find one soon. Tc guys

    Best information

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    We disagree slightly with the hot wife term in the text of the item. We think a hot wife is exactly that, and not necessarily simply the wife of a cuckold man. The wife of a cuckold man is quite simply a cuckolding wife, although she is a hot wife as well. We prefer there to be a distinction between cuckolding and hot wifing. In our view hot wifing doesn't have to have anything to do with a cuckolding wife. My hubby is a strong man in his own right, and is as straight as a plank. ha ha We know who we are, and what we enjoy, and otherwise it is all simply semantics that doesn't matter in the process of processing. ha ha Our recommendation for the day is... don't stick out your tongue unless you plan to use it. ha ha

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    I have always found the word cuckold to be a bit demeaning.... Till I read these articles from bulls, I always assumed being cuckold meant you were treated derisively, with scorn...to be humiliated. I often wonder why we get so many messages from bulls, as our profile doesn't give any clue that we are cuckold (my interpretation of it). Our threesomes are for the enjoyment of all, but my husband loves to see me being pleasured and having fun ,and does join in,encourages the guy and me verbally and sexually., but as he says his fun comes afterwards, when we are alone.Maybe its time we tried a bull.

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    Wow great read perhaps that's were went wrong when looking a couple of years ago as we are new to this lifestyle of femdom/cuckolding we were looking for a buy bull as wife mistress was wanting to make me try the bi side were I was just wanting to watch her get the fuck she deserves by a well hung guy but was happy to do what ever she wanted as that's the real turn making sure she is satisfied completely

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    Any South Indian cuckold hubby here?

    kristin scott thomas played the bull on the movie bitter moon (1992)... and she didn't have a penis. okay, now I'm confused. lol

    really nice.....cuckold is always an exciting thing...i m looking to be a bull for cuckold husband and love to play wild with respect and passion

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    For Cuckolds and single unsatisfied females from Mumbai, Navi Mumbai, Thane and panvel or if you traveller to this areas then also
    You can contact me. ( Age no bar & looks doesent matter )
    Hello this is bull from mumbai ( For Free service)
    If you are cuckold, unsatisfied female, NRI or like to see live fun then inbox me. Threesome also will do.
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    I will take care of security, privacy and satisfaction.
    Will travel to your place also.
    Inbox me or add me for further discussion.
    Thanks you.
    ?If you new into cuckolding then also you can welcome.
    I cant take money or cant give you money. No money involvement, this is only for fun.

    great article

    Most ppl specially Men think about sex only where as cuckolding is like a family relationship with mutual respect, trust, privacy and feelings. Through my experience most cuckold husband are the guys with realistic approach who really love their wives. they bring in a Male friend in when they feel about the issue of low sex drive at their end but they love to see their wives happy. It is real and respectable relationship and true friendship, values, feelings at both ends are strong foundation to build a  building for life. The best relationship in my opinion when like minded ppl come across. I m 42 mature guy and have experience so i can tell , this is the best relationship when Guy have good heart plus good skills.

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    its passion in sex, i like cukold cpl, i have enjoyed a lot

    relatively new to the lifestyle, have had one experience, absolutely loved it, still however looking for another bull for my wife,, im sure that day will be soon! great read loved it!a