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A very basic Tantric sex method.

7:27 pm Sunday, 18th September, 2011

Tantric sex originated in India and was originally used as a means to achieve spiritual growth and to connect to the divine realms.

In modern times it is possible to use the same approach to maximise total sexual ecstasy. The physical, mental and spiritual aspects of the sexual ecstasy. The method can also be used to make sexual pleasure last a very long time before you plunge into an intense climax.

Here is a method of tantric sex that can be practiced both by a woman and a man, and by two gay or lesbian lovers.

Before you begin set yourself in a relaxed but still alert state by sitting for a while calming down from the stress of the day, talking together, listening to some sensual music and drinking a cup of strong coffee or tea. Eating some sensually spiced food can also help you approach the right state.

Use a quiet room that is pleasantly warm and have a comfortable bed. Let there be some light in the room, so you can see each other, but not very bright. Light candles, and if you like, incence sticks. Then take off your clothes in a relaxed way and lie down totally naked on the top of the bed.

Embrace each other closely, wrap your arms and legs over and around each other and lie together and just relax. Lie for a while closely together and feel the presence of your lover.......... Begin to caress each other gently, but don't concentrate on any eroginous zone. Already you will probably feel a strong arousal, and a lot of finely tuned feelings spreading as waves throughout your bodies and your minds.

You will also feel a lot of exciting reactions in your intimate zones. Your genitals will begin to engorge. You will feel lubricating fluid coming out of your intimate places. There will be gentle wave-like contractions beginning in your lower zones and spreading throughout your bodies that stimulate to even more feelings. You will sense a lot of exciting scents emanating from your partner and yourself.

Now you gradually approach the more sensual points in the body of your lover, like the breast nipples, the navel, the vulva with the clitoris and vaginal opening, the scrotum and the penis, the natal clefts and rectal zone. Use your fingers to gently spread open the clandestine inner places of your partner, and separate your own legs to invite your lover inside to finger your own secret areas. Caress with your fingers, first around the entrance and then deeper towards the bottom of the secret groves.

All the time be sensual to what your partner signals. Spend some time doing those things that you sense that your lover likes, but do not keep doing the same thing too long to avoid anything getting boring. Each time you caress some sensual place, do it first in a gentle relaxed manner, then gradually intensify your handling to increase the feelings of your partner towards a peak, but slip your hand away before your lover reaches an orgasm.

Now the time has come for one of you to mount upon the other and one of you to open up your intimate zones to offer your openings for full penetration. Then slowly and gently you penetrate your partner and you begin your undulating movements. Make it slowly and gently at the beginning, but gradually intensify so that the feelings of both of you reach the peak. Then relax to take your reactions somewhat down again. Repeat this many times and you get a steadily growing excitement physically, mentally and spiritually.

You can then choose to withdraw from the intimate cave of your partner to let the feelings settle somewhat, and again lying relaxed, caressing and fingering each other. And then one of you can enter the other once again. You can do many such cycles of caressing, fingering and penetrating. All the time you will feel a constant mental ecstasy and physical arousal that steadily grows. Each time you intensify your actions you will feel a more specific physical pleasure that elevates to a near infinite state.

Eventually the time has come to conclude with the final climax. You can do so by stimulating each other with the fingers, tongue, or by one of you entering your lover by his penis or some sort of sexual toy. You stimulate steadily more intensely until you plunge into the orgasm.

However, in tantric sex orgasm is not always the goal, and the intense ecstasy you feel before you decide to conclude with the climax is considered more important that the climax itself. Sometimes you will therefore choose not to have an orgasm. Then a great part of your arousal will remain during the day or night and give you a constant pleasure, and allow you to have a new session fairly soon with the same intensity of physical and mental feelings, and the same tight nearness to each other physically and spiritually.

With hugs. Penny.x.



Comments
11:53 am Thursday, 20th October, 2011

all i need now is someone to try it with,i used to do it with my late wife before she passed away as she was blind and,we both enjoyed doing it..

1:59 am Wednesday, 27th August, 2014

would love to share with u those experience

4:45 am Wednesday, 27th August, 2014

Sounds like what I've been doing all this time :-)

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