Is that too much to ask for?

True, totally agree with you!!

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yess sex is about expressions, openness, frankness, being what we are, n with all of this - keep exploring + experimenting ,,, add us if u like to do that

True well 😊 say dear img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif"

True picture..............

thank God, we're not in Bangladesh.

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Totally depends on couple to couple , if you really want such people you should start with conversations and not with swinging. It's hard to believe you swing with people you don't converse with, here it first starts with some naughty talks and flirts , both ways , across. Only then people open up. How can you do it guys you never spoke with ? It's shady , better have sex with your chair.
True sex is int he mind , unless mind indulges you are always with a dead log , even if it is a beautiful women.

Good luck with that.

Bangladeshi so called swinger community based on virtual, fantasised hubby max. even wife dosn't know anything about swapping, time waster chatting on line and final results wife yet not ready. Now question is that if your wife or female partner not ready then why claiming as couple profile!!!! We had chat with some couple id's max. request come from male part that " Can you please help me how to convience my wife" guys its not learning class some one will teach you.... very simple to be swingers open discuss with your wifepartner and softly explain its not strange things... be careful u cant force your partner... there must be strong love, well understanding, ofcourse full respect and future security.

Most of guys even feel shy about adult chattalk actually they dont know how to express in words. They are day dreamer less idea about sex...

love the truth in it
in kolkata we also have to some extent same problem .

Hehehe I concur with fuelatxprz. Guys One thing tht came to My Mind is u guys shift ur base to Mumbai or India. img src="imagesadultemoticons007.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons007.gif"

Hi, really like the way you are thinking.....

Two years back I spent six months in Bangladesh... had few girlfriends, married and unmarried.... what I understood was Men, are not willing to discover and when u think out of the box, they consider that thinking out of the box and questioning things is inappropriate. Women, they are freaked out about men. I am a Sri Lankan and still do look like a Bangladeshi. When girls know that I m a Sri Lankan, they were so happy. Because they can go anywhere with me I do look like a local but I m not.
When they opened up to me, I was amazed .... In the art of sex, they like to explore to the end... any experiment... u name it... they just afraid to show it to the locals.
Guys in BD, u have amazing girls in ur country. Just try to understand them, gain their trust, let them speak and act, u ll see heaven on earth.

nice writing

nice writing

nice writing

Its taboo because im white but I prefer and Asian couple female that enjoys the naughtiness of allowing a white man into their life. more should try it and try expanding your horizons more!

I get some of it. I am new to sex so I wanted it more to get more experience and have fun. But meaningless sex is not worth it, just feels like I have wasted my time. I could have spent my time elsewhere.

Hi Audebuska,
I do get what you're saying, and it's probably indicative not only of peoples view of sex, but also about our society today.
We are all a bit shallow, selfish and just looking out for ourselves, no?
The thing you have to remember is there are people out there who think the same as you.
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I am really happy . I was in sydney for study purpose. I am in to this life style for 3 years . Since i have returned , i was confused if i could continue this life style . Yes this is my life style which i love . I know and completely agree with u . However i am happy to know that there r some poeople like you who think like you.

I agree with u. I mean weare all here for casual and real encounter. Apart from a couple of fun filled experience here (i mean real not virtual) I have seen peiple with a very confused and reaerved mindset. My question iswhy are u here then??

100% agree. Talking about sex is not only fun but also educative. And becoming friends make the more enjoyable. I see another big problem in BD's swinger community. Single guys are ignored like hell. Even their messages isn't been replied let alone any chance of meeting. So, do you like to talk? I guess not img src="imagesadultemoticons020.gif"

it will take 10-20 years to be open on sex.
this idea will open up when guys will let girls enjoy there sex fully with out shame. my wife haven't watch a porno before marriage. now we fucks like minks. :) she enjoy sex fully and understand other woman she knows actually are not enjoying sex. because there husband dose not knows much about sex.

so to open up in sex talk will take more time in Bangladesh. :)

its because guys dont generally talk about it..i feel that is a reason because guys dont open about these things.. its like work, whats the work, any questions, no, okay get the work done, and after that move on.. i thankfully used to do a lot with my girlfriend.. after every session, we would talk aboutit.. whether what i did was good or bad, what could i do extra to help her feel more pleasure or vice versa.. and i enforces it... what happened later was she feel a lot more secured, relaxed,satisfied..

i guess its because guys in general dont share their emotions, so i guess its that why you felt that..

Agreed that 

yes i agree but what about you my friend?? I mail you and knock you in chat and you just block me. Everybody is not like that but yes maximum is like that.And honestly we are new in this life style. Some problem is happened there. But I believe we will improve day by day. tanks 

Nice speech but one thing I must say to you, how do you helping us for improving our mentality. Yes we are new in this community and still now we feel shy to talk about sex with a woman..come forward and talk with me, help me to get rid of shyness, meet with me and show me what is the meaning of open mind..would you do that? Probably not..easy to give a advice or lecture but not easy to give support..you seems like very much open minded and don't feel any hesitation in dirty talking, women like you not easy to find in Dhaka still now...so step forward, I want to be your friend and ill talk with you freely and I'll learn a lot from you I hope.I'm sending you a friend request and accept that please...then we can swap our numbers...would you do that? After taking with you and meet with you if you don't feel comfortable with me, please let me know...i won't disturb you in future..promise.

Bulls eye!

This is a a very well thought out write up that clearly reflects how most of the people perceive sex in a country where sex is considered a taboo. Because people hardly get a chance to fulfill their regular sexual desire, let alone fantasy, they think it is only the natural erection that is the crux of having sex. 

Talking about the cerebral aspect of sex, it is not practiced by most of the people. In most cases, sex is seen solely as a physical and fleshy affair and in the process we miss the softer and erotic part of sex. Also since most of the people aren't much into sexual literature, erotic tales and stories, and do not practice philosophical views of sex, therefore they hardly find anything to discuss about sex. For example, practicing swinger-ism, cuckold, etc should be beyond having some spice in sexual life and it should be more of trying the natural self if someone really feels like a cuckold inside. So as long as there is a thought process of why we want to practice something like swinging, cuckold etc and which is beyond finding a pussy and banging it, a discussion on sex thoughts can happen which is so enjoyable. Sometime such sort of discussion at a coffee shop can even be more satisfying than actually having the sex 🙂

Personally I have always preferred cerebral orgasm followed by a physical one and it feels so great when I get a chance for such kind of discussion. However its quite rare here. Nevertheless, it was great to eventually see someone thinks in the same line.

Keep up your fantastic write up.

Absolutely loved what you said. You have a beautiful soul and im truely mesmerissed to have read this, i was losing hope over the internet to find someone to share this view 🙂

Wonderful write up! I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiment you tried to express in your writing...