When you say chivalry, the first thing that comes to mind is a knight in shining armor ready to rescue a damsel in distress. That may be true during the Middle ages but the definition and manifestation of chivalry has long changed especially in the modern times.
Although men no longer need to wear a chain mail, sport a jousting lance, slay a dragon/ beast or drive a chariot to get a lady's attention, they are still expected to embody the principles of knighthood, exemplify respect and nobility. If a chivalrous man goes on a modern date, he is expected to open the car door for his lady, offer his arm during walks, ditch his mobile phone and make his woman feel special by giving his "undivided attention". This is true and applicable on the actual date and after when the bedroom door opens.
Perspective on chivalry may have changed but it is not dead or undefined. Everyone has to bear in mind that "mutual" respect is the key to opening all doors including the ever evasive and enigmatic "V" door.
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1:09 pm Wednesday, 21st September, 2016
Chivalry starts at home. It is not quiet in the genes but it is handed down generation to generation. Each of us owes it to the next else something that sets some apart will be no more. I agree that it makes a difference. I agree that its nature changes with the times. However, its essence does not and @voluptuousandbig puts it well. I only hope my sons learn by example as I did! |
